7 maneras efectivas de desinflar intencionadamente el ego de un hombre

Ladies, let’s be honest. We were all once in love with an egocentric. You know, that kind of guy who likes to talk only about himself. El que piensa que todo gira a su alrededor.

El tipo de hombre al que le gusta presumir de sí mismo. Un hombre que ve a las mujeres solo como sus trofeos, algo de lo que presumir delante de sus colegas.

Sé que el ego es importante para un hombre pero este tipo de el tipo está realmente lleno de sí mismo. However, the thing most women don’t know is that we actually have so much power over their ego.

Podemos influir mucho en ello, y aquí tienes algunas formas probadas de hacerlo. It’s up to you to decide whether you’re going to use it or avoid it.

Avergonzarle delante de sus amigos

Esto es probablemente lo peor que le puedes hacer a un chico. He wants his friends to respect him and if you embarrass him in front of them, that’ll hurt his ego for sure.

I guarantee your man will be so angry that he won’t speak to you again for days, if at all.

His friends will tease him as it’ll seem like he is inferior in your relationship. This is a great way to hurt a guy who doesn’t respect you o tratarte bien.

Compáralo con tu ex

If you’re in a relationship with a man you love and that love is reciprocated, then you should really be careful and pay attention to the things that may hurt his ego (because we all know that a man’s ego means everything to him).

Esta es una de esas cosas. Trust me, you shouldn’t even mention your ex, let alone compare your present partner with him.

If you make a comparison even unintentionally while fighting, your man won’t be able to forget it. Even after you make up, that thought of you comparing him with your ex and you still thinking about him will haunt him.

Coquetea con otros chicos delante de él

Si te ve coqueteando con otro guy, his ego will definitely suffer because he can’t stand the fact that you can like someone else or flirt with them.

It’ll be very hurtful to him but he’ll also be frustrated by it. If his friends see it, it’ll be even worse because they will tease him about it all the time.

Salir con alguien que odia

Men always think that they can talk and hang out with whomever they want but when it comes to their women, they should hang out only with people they’re good with.

If he sees you out with someone he hates, it’ll hurt his ego for sure because he’ll think that he and his choices aren’t important to you.

Corríjale delante de los demás

Si tienes necesidad de corregir a tu pareja por algo que ha hecho o dicho, debes esperar a un momento en que estéis los dos solos y aprovechar para decírselo entonces.

You shouldn’t say it to him in front of others because he’ll feel humiliated. 

Pero todos cometemos errores, ¿verdad? Corregir a tu hombre delante de otras personas dañaría vuestra relación y rebajaría su ego.

Recuérdale que ganas más que él (si es que ganas)

El dinero puede causar graves problemas en una relación. If you insult his job or rub his nose in the fact that you earn more money, it’ll hurt his ego so much that your man will feel like he is not man enough.

Who’s more successful or who has a bigger salary shouldn’t be important for a healthy relationship.

Tell him he isn’t good in bed

This is the fastest way you can bruise a man’s ego. Ser bueno en la cama es algo sagrado para todos los hombres. 

Si tiene alguna objeción sobre esa parte de su relación, debes encontrar la mejor manera de decírselo a tu pareja y luego encontrar juntos una solución. Cualquier otra cosa dañaría su ego.  

If he deserves to be punished for not treating you well, this is going to hurt him. If you’re curious about the things you should avoid in order not to hurt his ego, this is one of them. 

As we already said, it’s up to you how you’re going to use these tips, whether you want to deflate your man’s ego or not.