Não podes continuar a escolher alguém que não te escolhe a ti

Deixem-me refrescar-vos a memória, por favor?

Foste tu que sempre te preocupaste com ele. Eras tu que te empenhavas tanto na vossa relação. Foste tu que aguentaste todas as tretas dele. Eras tu que fazias tudo o que podias para que resultasse! But it didn’t change a thing. I hope he can sleep knowing that.

Estou a perceber, haverá sempre alguém melhor do que nós. Someone more intelligent, someone more attractive etc, but no one can love him the way you did. No one can do all the things you’ve done for him and yet, he still chose someone else.

You wanted to stay, but you couldn’t see the reason. Because there was no reason besides his lack of effort that made you choose between him and your own happiness. If it comes to these two, always choose yourself.

Porque um dia olharão para trás e sorrirão, porque saberão que escaparam a uma bala. Escapaste a uma armadilha.

Imagine if you hadn’t found out about her. The same ‘her’ who ruined your dreams about forever being with that one person. She destroyed your dreams of loving him until the end of days.

E foi ele que partiu o teu coração em pedacinhos porque a escolheu a ela em vez de ti.

Why would you even want someone who has to think twice before choosing you? Or the way he did it—he didn’t think twice, he simply chose her.

Qual foi o teu primeiro pensamento? Que nunca mais o ia ter de volta, certo? Mas depois começou a pensar e o seu coração saltou uma batida porque percebeu que o aceitaria de volta, porque o amava, porque tem uma alma pura.

But you shouldn’t.

Too often, love is an excuse to put up with someone’s bullshit, but it’s much, much more than that. Love is knowing that you are worthy of being someone’s priority rather than a choice.

O amor é saber que somos suficientes para alguém que nos vai apreciar verdadeiramente. O amor é a sensação que se tem quando alguém nos abraça como se nunca mais nos largasse.

É disso que se trata verdadeiramente o amor. O amor verdadeiro e genuíno nunca será outra coisa que não isso.

Please remember that she is not easier to love than you are. You will be loved by your soulmate so effortlessly and you need to know that there will be someone who won’t let go of you, no matter how many women there are in line just to kiss him.

There will come someone who won’t think twice, because his ONLY choice will be you. Not like the man you just saw walking away with someone who he thought to be a better option, but rather a man who won’t have options, but a priority—which is you.

You are the person he’s looking forward to meeting, so make space for that man while deixar o passado para trás memórias e experiências passadas.

Para o homem que te deixou will never be ready for a woman like you are. You are too kind and generous for him. He didn’t know how to handle you.

He didn’t think that you were good enough, but you will be more than perfect for someone who knows how to appreciate you.

So choose life and love over someone who doesn’t even know what loving someone like you looks like. And be patient, my dear. Be patient.

Haverá alguém que nos deixará de rastos no momento em que olharmos para os seus olhos e virmos a eternidade.