No puedes seguir eligiendo a alguien que no te elige a ti

Permítame refrescarle la memoria.

Tú eras la que siempre se preocupaba por él. Tú eras la que ponía tanto empeño en vuestra relación. Fuiste tú quien aguantó todas sus tonterías. ¡Fuiste tú quien hizo todo lo posible para que funcionara! But it didn’t change a thing. I hope he can sleep knowing that.

Entiendo, siempre habrá alguien mejor que nosotros. Someone more intelligent, someone more attractive etc, but no one can love him the way you did. No one can do all the things you’ve done for him and yet, he still chose someone else.

You wanted to stay, but you couldn’t see the reason. Because there was no reason besides his lack of effort that made you choose between him and your own happiness. If it comes to these two, always choose yourself.

Porque un día mirarás atrás y sonreirás porque sabrás que has esquivado una bala. Escapaste de una trampa.

Imagine if you hadn’t found out about her. The same ‘her’ who ruined your dreams about forever being with that one person. She destroyed your dreams of loving him until the end of days.

Y fue él quien te rompió el corazón en pedacitos porque la eligió a ella antes que a ti.

Why would you even want someone who has to think twice before choosing you? Or the way he did it—he didn’t think twice, he simply chose her.

¿Cuál fue tu primer pensamiento? Que nunca lo ibas a recuperar, ¿verdad? Pero luego empezaste a pensar y tu corazón dio un vuelco porque te diste cuenta de que lo recuperarías, porque lo amabas, porque tienes un alma pura.

But you shouldn’t.

Too often, love is an excuse to put up with someone’s bullshit, but it’s much, much more than that. Love is knowing that you are worthy of being someone’s priority rather than a choice.

El amor es saber que eres suficiente para alguien que te apreciará de verdad. Amor es la sensación que tienes cuando alguien te abraza como si nunca fuera a soltarte.

En eso consiste realmente el amor. El amor verdadero y genuino nunca será otra cosa que eso.

Please remember that she is not easier to love than you are. You will be loved by your soulmate so effortlessly and you need to know that there will be someone who won’t let go of you, no matter how many women there are in line just to kiss him.

There will come someone who won’t think twice, because his ONLY choice will be you. Not like the man you just saw walking away with someone who he thought to be a better option, but rather a man who won’t have options, but a priority—which is you.

You are the person he’s looking forward to meeting, so make space for that man while dejar atrás el pasado recuerdos y experiencias pasadas.

Para el hombre que te dejó will never be ready for a woman like you are. You are too kind and generous for him. He didn’t know how to handle you.

He didn’t think that you were good enough, but you will be more than perfect for someone who knows how to appreciate you.

So choose life and love over someone who doesn’t even know what loving someone like you looks like. And be patient, my dear. Be patient.

Llegará alguien que te dejará boquiabierto en el momento en que le mires a los ojos y veas la eternidad.