Pare de lutar por um homem que desistiu de você há muito tempo

You’re constantly checking your phone in the hope that he will call, even though you know he won’t.

You’re constantly wondering what he’s doing, even though you know he doesn’t give a damn about what you’re doing.

You’re constantly fighting to preserve what’s left of your love, even though you know that he gave up fighting a long time ago.

Don’t do that. Stop fighting for those who don’t bother fighting for you! Stop fighting for those who are okay with perder-te!

I know it’s not that easy to forget all of the beautiful moments you had together, holding each other’s hands before falling asleep, kissing passionately, laughing until your stomach started to really hurt, taking care of each other… but all these moments are not enough for you to keep fighting.

Deixem de lutar pelos vossos momentos passados, abram os olhos e vejam a verdade.

Ask yourself if he’s that same man who used to hold your hand when you felt sad.

Is he that same man who used to hold you in his arms, reassuring you that he’d never give up on fighting for your love?

If not, do not bother fighting for him because you’re not fighting for him—you’re fighting for the memory of him.

Não se preocupe em reviver velhos momentos de felicidade porque deve viver o presente!

Stop focusing on the happiness of those who don’t care about yours. Stop letting them know that you’ll always be there no matter what. Stop making them your priority when all this time they have treated you like an option!

You are not the one who is responsible for their happiness. You should never fight for someone who doesn’t know how to reciprocate.

Pare de lutar por um amor medíocre quando deveria estar a desfrutar do tipo que o inspira e enche o seu coração de alegria em vez de dor.

Pare de se torturar com os "se" e de pensar que, se continuasse a ser boa para ele e se continuasse a ser persistente para salvar o que restava do vosso amor, ele poderia ter mudado de ideias e começado a retribuir.

No, he wouldn’t have and you know it!

No momento em que ele decidiu não se importar com os seus sentimentos e desejos, ele decidiu deliberadamente deixar de lutar por si.

And why would you fight for him? Why would you keep making excuses for his behavior when you know he’s doing it on purpose?

Deixar de lutar por um homem who doesn’t know how to love. Stop fighting for a man who was never yours and who never will be!

Queres ficar para sempre no limbo de amor não correspondido, desejos negligenciados e egoísmo?

Do you want to fight forever for something you’ll never have? Of course you don’t!

You don’t want to and you definitely shouldn’t because life is too short to waste your time waiting for those who are not willing to make an effort to change.

A vida é demasiado curta para desperdiçar o seu tempo a pensar constantemente no passado e a recear o futuro.

Pare de se torturar a si próprio e ao seu coração com amor tóxico e concentre-se no que o faz feliz.

Do you want a strong, beautiful love that is reciprocal? Then don’t fight for a weak one.

Queres alguém que esteja sempre lá para ti e que nunca te faça duvidar das suas intenções?

Then don’t fight for the one who is never here.

‘You reap what you sow’. If you invest all of yourself in a man who is not ready to do the same for you, you will end up broken. If you keep fighting for a man who is making you feel unworthy, sad, and disappointed, you will never find your inner peace or happiness.

Mas se te perdoares por cada lágrima, por cada segundo de solidão, pela tua dor e decidires parar de lutar por um homem que te estava a fazer tudo isto, vais começar a mudar!

Quando decidires começar a lutar pelo teu sorriso, pela alegria e por um coração cheio de amor puro, encontrarás a tua felicidade.

I’m not saying it will be easy. It won’t but you will make it.

Vai conseguir, porque é preciso uma mulher forte para decidir continuar a lutar por um homem que a está a destruir por dentro e por fora.

You will make it because it takes a brave heart to keep loving a man who was not ready to do the same. You will make it because you’re a fighter.