Pare de se concentrar em encontrar "o tal", concentre-se em si próprio

We’ve all been there, haven’t we? At a point in our life where the only thing that mattered was finding a partner who could love us and with whom we could share our life.

Naquela altura, sentíamo-nos tristes com a nossa vida e nunca pensámos sequer que poderíamos sair dela ou viver uma vida fora dela. Mas deixem-me fazer-vos uma pergunta muito importante, uma pergunta que muda a vossa vida: Porque é que a vossa felicidade dependeria de outro ser humano?

Stop focusing on finding ‘the one’. You can read all the articles you want about where to search for him and how to find him but he will come when the time is right. You can’t force anything. He’ll come when you least expect it.

When you’re silently reading a book in the corner of your favorite cafe or when you’re walking through the streets and you bump into him. These things really do happen and you can’t force them.

You won’t even know what happened to you when he comes into your life, rushing to make you happy. You will see that all the searching you did over the past few years wasn’t necessary, because he found his way to your heart without any help needed.

Verá o amor de uma perspetiva totalmente nova. Finalmente vai perceber porque é que todos os homens antes dele tiveram de sair da sua vida e abrir espaço para que ele lhe mostre o que é realmente amar uma mulher.

He’ll treat you right and he’ll be worthy of you.

Mas, espera um minuto. Em vez de se concentrar em chocar com ele, que tal concentrar-se em si mesma?

Focus on yourself because it’ll make you stronger. It’ll make you strong to the point where you won’t feel intimidated by being single for any longer.

You’ll rise from the ashes that you’ve been sitting on because of your past relationships and you will become a fearless version of yourself who you can be proud of.

Focus on yourself and it’ll make you see your worth. When you focus on your career and on your own happiness, you’ll see how important it is to never let a man take it away from you.

You’ll appreciate your own worth and you’ll be able to never let a man disrespect you.

Concentre-se em si próprio e a sua vida mudará. Finally, you will be able to give all of yourself to the person who deserves it the most—you.

This is the moment when you are going to realize that you have loved the world much more than you have loved yourself and you’ll be sad that you weren’t your own best friend when you needed it the most. But don’t worry, this is the right time to catch up.

Concentre-se em si próprio e seja livre. You don’t need a man para preencher a sua vida com alegria.

Tudo o que precisa é de se concentrar em si próprio e encontrar a forma correcta de cuidar da sua mente, corpo e coração. Este é o tempo que pode dedicar a encontrar o equilíbrio e a curar os pedaços que ficaram para trás da sua última relação.

Recolha esses pedaços e liberte-se do fardo.

Stop focusing on ‘the one’ and focus on yourself. He’ll come eventually and paint your life in colors of love and appreciation but he won’t be able to do that unless you love and appreciate yourself.

If you continue in the way you did before, you’ll start seeing that you’re settling for men who aren’t worthy, you’re settling for men who don’t deserve you. Why would you do this to yourself?

Concentra-te em ti. Não por mim, não por ele, mas por ti. Pela pessoa em que te queres tornar e por esse sorriso de alegria no teu rosto.

Concentra-te no teu futuro e na tua carreira, porque essas coisas são para sempre. Concentra-te em cuidar de ti. Concentra-te em amar-te.

Concentre-se em si próprio.