Deja de centrarte en encontrar al "elegido" y concéntrate en ti mismo

We’ve all been there, haven’t we? At a point in our life where the only thing that mattered was finding a partner who could love us and with whom we could share our life.

En ese momento, nos sentíamos tristes con nuestra vida y ni siquiera nos planteamos que pudiéramos salir de ella o vivir una vida fuera de ella. Pero déjame hacerte una pregunta muy importante, una pregunta que te cambiará la vida: ¿Por qué tu felicidad depende de otro ser humano?

Stop focusing on finding ‘the one’. You can read all the articles you want about where to search for him and how to find him but he will come when the time is right. You can’t force anything. He’ll come when you least expect it.

When you’re silently reading a book in the corner of your favorite cafe or when you’re walking through the streets and you bump into him. These things really do happen and you can’t force them.

You won’t even know what happened to you when he comes into your life, rushing to make you happy. You will see that all the searching you did over the past few years wasn’t necessary, because he found his way to your heart without any help needed.

Verás el amor desde una perspectiva totalmente nueva. Por fin te darás cuenta de por qué todos los hombres anteriores a él tuvieron que salir de tu vida y dejarle espacio para que te muestre cómo es amar a una mujer.

He’ll treat you right and he’ll be worthy of you.

Pero, espera un momento. En vez de centrarte en chocar con él, ¿qué tal si te centras en ti misma?

Focus on yourself because it’ll make you stronger. It’ll make you strong to the point where you won’t feel intimidated by being single for any longer.

You’ll rise from the ashes that you’ve been sitting on because of your past relationships and you will become a fearless version of yourself who you can be proud of.

Focus on yourself and it’ll make you see your worth. When you focus on your career and on your own happiness, you’ll see how important it is to never let a man take it away from you.

You’ll appreciate your own worth and you’ll be able to never let a man disrespect you.

Céntrate en ti mismo y tu vida cambiará. Finally, you will be able to give all of yourself to the person who deserves it the most—you.

This is the moment when you are going to realize that you have loved the world much more than you have loved yourself and you’ll be sad that you weren’t your own best friend when you needed it the most. But don’t worry, this is the right time to catch up.

Céntrate en ti mismo y sé libre. You don’t need a man para llenar tu vida de alegría.

Todo lo que necesitas es centrarte en ti mismo y encuentra la forma adecuada de cuidar tu mente, tu cuerpo y tu corazón. Este es el tiempo que puedes dedicar a encontrar el equilibrio y sanar esas piezas rotas que quedaron atrás de tu última relación.

Recoge esos pedazos y libérate de la carga.

Stop focusing on ‘the one’ and focus on yourself. He’ll come eventually and paint your life in colors of love and appreciation but he won’t be able to do that unless you love and appreciate yourself.

If you continue in the way you did before, you’ll start seeing that you’re settling for men who aren’t worthy, you’re settling for men who don’t deserve you. Why would you do this to yourself?

Céntrate en ti mismo. No por mí, ni por él, sino por ti. Por la persona en la que quieres convertirte y por esa sonrisa alegre en tu cara.

Concéntrate en tu futuro y en tu carrera, porque esas cosas son para siempre. Concéntrate en cuidarte. Concéntrate en quererte.

Céntrate en ti mismo.