40 Regras do Código da Menina de Ouro que todas as mulheres precisam de começar a seguir o mais rapidamente possível

We, women, have to stick together, and I’m not saying this just because. After all, we’re ruling this world, and just imagine what would happen to it if we would turn against each other.

It’s a law, and laws simply need to be respected, right? Regras do código das raparigas ajudam-nos a preservar o nosso poder, e tudo o que temos de fazer é segui-los. Simples, não é?

It’s a way to honor that strongest bond of all, that of our sisterhood and great female friendships. It’s a way to celebrate remarkable poder das raparigas.

Now, turn up the volume, go to YouTube and search for Beyonce’s song Run the World. I highly recommend listening to this song the entire time you’re reading this guide on girl codes to maintain the flow of positive vibes.

It’s a song that perfectly describes the poder das mulheres, and that’s why it’s one of those songs that will never stop trending.

Now, it’s time to get down to business.

Quais são as regras do Código das Raparigas?

Existem algumas regras que os amigos devem respeitar e seguir para manter a sua amizade. Temos de manter a nossa irmandade sã e salva, e esta é a única forma de o fazer.

Dito de forma simples, um código feminino é um conjunto de regras, não escritas e não ditas, que existem entre uma mulher e as suas amigas íntimas e que ambas as partes devem respeitar.

Every single one of you out there must try to stick to each and every one of these girl code rules below. It’s not just the law of feminism; it’ll also help you keep your friendship forever.

Lista de regras do código das raparigas

Aqui está: uma lista das regras não escritas do código feminino que todas as mulheres devem respeitar e seguir. Isto devia ser sagrado para todas nós, e estou a falar a sério, meninas.

As irmãs antes dos senhores!

No guy is worth ruining your friendship over. So, stay away from your friend’s boyfriend, her ex-boyfriend, or any other man that might harm your friendship.

The bond and relationship you have with your BFF are so much stronger than the bond between you and a man who just wanted to hook up with you. Actually, there is no bond there at all because it probably won’t last long.

Respeitar os seus amigos e os seus limites

Em todos os tipos de relações, deve haver uma clara limites definidos. Talk to your friends about theirs, and don’t ever violate them. It could really jeopardize your friendship.

Aceite as suas diferenças

You and your friends will probably have some differences, but that’s perfectly okay because those differences could actually bring you closer.

Don’t ever think that just because someone has different interests, that it’s impossible to maintain a friendly relationship with that person. Os opostos atraem-secerto? E também, quanto mais diferentes forem, mais terão de aprender uns com os outros.

Saber pedir desculpa

Isto é muito importante se quiser manter a sua amizade para sempre.

O facto é que todos nós cometemos erros, mas só aqueles que são suficientemente fortes (ou aqueles cujo amor é suficientemente forte) sabem quando say ‘sorry’ e como o fazer da forma correcta.

Perdoar

Come on, we’re all only weak human beings, and sometimes, we make mistakes without being aware of them. So, if your bestie wrongs you, don’t hesitate for a moment to forgive her.

Lembrem-se, a vossa amizade é e será sempre mais preciosa do que tudo e todos.

Arranje tempo para as suas melhores amigas

If your friend says they need you, you just have to be there ASAP. It’s as simple as that.

Your best friend’s crush is totally off-limits

This is a pretty clear one, right? Flirting with your bestie’s crush is totally forbidden. If you do it, that means you’re violating the rules of girl code. Trust me – it definitely won’t end well.

Se a sua melhor amiga estiver a passar por um período difícil, esteja lá para ela

I think this girl code rule doesn’t even need to be explained. You must always be there for the people you love.

Se a tua melhor amiga está a passar por algo mau, tens de estar lá para ela. Oh, of course, don’t forget to bring a tub of ice cream because it helps. Ice cream always helps. Full stop.

Ajude o seu amigo a ver o seu próprio valor e a apaixonar-se por si próprio

Girls, I’ll just say one thing: amor-próprio é uma OBRIGAÇÃO e tem de ser sempre a principal prioridade das nossas vidas.

Além disso, seja o seu fã número um

Apoia sempre os teus amigos. Encoraje-os, motive-os e apoie-os na realização de tudo o que pretendem.

Se a sua melhor amiga se estiver a sentir em baixo, encontre uma forma de a levantar de novo

Saber como fazer uma rapariga sorrir when they’re feeling low is really a skill that, unfortunately, most people don’t have. However, that skill is one of the most important girl code rules.

Keep your friend’s secrets FOREVER

Even if your friendship ends, you must take your friend’s secrets with you to the grave.

Don’t keep your feelings bottled up – confide in your best friends

If you’re having any problems, feel free to confide in your friends about it. Those are the people who will always try to get you without being judgemental at all.

Don’t walk out on your friendship no matter what

You’ll have your ups and downs, as every friendship does, but you’re never allowed to give up and walk away from it. Some things are sacred and female friendship is one of these things.

Even when you don’t agree with your friend’s choices, you’re obliged to stand by her

You’re different, and of course, you won’t agree on all of your choices and decisions, but verdadeiros amigos manterem-se leais e apoiarem-se mutuamente, aconteça o que acontecer, até ao fim.

Don’t judge her actions nor her decisions

You’re only human, so leave judgment for God because that’s His job!

Odiar toda a gente que o teu amigo odeia

Se o teu amigo odeia alguém, a regra não escrita é que também deves odiar essa pessoa. Bastante lógico, não é?

Your friend’s enemy is your enemy too

Esta regra é praticamente a mesma que a anterior.

Ex’s and close relatives are out of bounds unless you have your BFF’s approval

Eu sei que apaixonar-se is a spontaneous act, and we can’t change that too much. However, if you find yourself in a situation where you like your friend’s ex or a close relative of hers, you must admit this to your friend first and see what she thinks about it.

If she’s okay with it and gives you her approval, you can consider it as a green light to date the man you like.

Seja a melhor mulher para a sua melhor amiga

Ser uma mulher de asa assassina to your friend. The one you would like to have, it’s as simple as that.

Always check in on your BFF while they’re on a first date

When your bestie is on a first date, you should be there with her too. I don’t mean literally, but you should check in on the situation constantly, just like you’re really there.

Quando chegam juntos a uma festa, têm de sair juntos também

Este é o objetivo da irmandade, certo? Vamos manter-nos unidas, aconteça o que acontecer.

Permita que a sua melhor amiga fale consigo

Quando a sua amiga estiver num estado de espírito de desabafo, deixe-a desabafar consigo. Os bons amigos são sempre a melhor terapia para a mente, a alma e o coração.

Respeitar a sua privacidade

You should always respect your friend’s personal space and their wish for privacy. So, for example, if your friend isn’t a fan of social media and doesn’t want to post pics on social media platforms, just don’t freaking do it.

Aceitar as pessoas como elas são

Nada grita “I love you” mais do que aceitar uma pessoa como ela realmente é, com todos os seus defeitos e imperfeições.

Celebrate your friend’s success as though it’s your own

You just need to know that your friend’s success and accomplishments are your accomplishments too. Ter ciúmes da tua amiga é um enorme código feminino proibido.

Take your bestie’s phone when she’s about to do something stupid

Whether we like to admit it or not, women have that tendency of sending a text to an ex when we’re drunk, or at least it’s when we start thinking about it.

Por isso, da próxima vez que a sua namorada começar a beber e pegar no telemóvel enviar uma mensagem de texto bêbeda ao seu extirar-lha antes de ela carregar no botão de enviar. Impeça-a de fazer algo de que se irá arrepender no dia seguinte, quando estiver sóbria.

Jump to the rescue of your friend when it’s needed

If you see that a creepy guy is annoying your friend, it’s your duty to rescue her at any cost.

Seja honesto quando a sua melhor amiga lhe pedir a sua opinião sobre a roupa dela

Tal como gostaríamos que o nosso amigo fosse honesto connosco, também temos de ser honestos quando comentamos a sua aparência.

You’re never allowed to abandon a drunk friend

Friends should never be left behind, especially drunk friends. Don’t allow them to do anything stupid that they might regret once they sober up.

Certifique-se sempre de que ele chega a casa em segurança. Dê-lhes boleia e espere no seu carro até o seu amigo entrar em casa antes de se ir embora.

You always need to have each other’s backs

You’re each other’s biggest protectors, and you should always bear this in mind.

Avisar uma rapariga se o seu namorado é um traidor

If you know your BFF’s man is cheating on her, you ought to tell her. Help her save herself, and don’t allow her to perdoar o seu coxo traidor.

Resolver os seus problemas de uma forma saudável

Don’t be afraid to confront each other about things that are bothering you in your friendship. It won’t harm your friendship; on the contrary, it can actually only make it stronger.

And remember, the only way you’ll solve your issues is by communicating.

Don’t ever let a girl walk into a stall without toilet paper

I’m sure we’ve all been in this situation, and we all know how disgusting it is when you’re in a public toilet, and there is no toilet paper.

Por isso, quer a conheças ou não, se uma rapariga precisar de papel higiénico, deves passar-lho.

Se tens um tampão a mais, devias ajudar uma irmã necessitada

Esta é uma das regras não escritas mais importantes do feminismo que é simplesmente OBRIGATÓRIA de seguir.

Meeting new friends doesn’t mean you’re allowed to neglect old ones

Of course, you’re allowed to meet people and make new friends, but always keep in mind who your real friends are. Always remember who was with you from the start and through all of your ups and downs, and who was with you all the way from high school till now.

De facto, uma verdadeira amizade nunca deve ser negligenciada, em circunstância alguma, sob pena de acabar.

Don’t ever talk about your friends to outsiders

Just as you should never share your best friend’s secrets with anyone else, you shouldn’t gossip about them with someone else either.

If you do, it’ll make your friend doubt your friendship, and they will have every right to do so.

Don’t slut-shame other girls

Be a lady. It’s not your problem what other girls do with their lives or their bodies.

Ver também: As mulheres fortes dão poder às outras mulheres, não as deitam abaixo

Don’t hate a girl you don’t even know

Please don’t ever hate or slut-shame a girl you haven’t had the opportunity to meet just because she talks or flirts with your man. It’s so wrong, and it actually makes YOU look like a bad person.

Não se esqueça das suas palavras

When you say or promise something to your friend, you must keep that promise no matter what. Remember, you have your bestie’s trust, so don’t do something that may cause you to lose it.

Quando é que se pode quebrar o código das raparigas?

Actually, the better question is, is it ever okay to break the girl code? Are there some special circumstances when you’re allowed to break some of the girl code rules?

Well, you should try to stick to these rules and live your life by them, but if you ever feel like the other side doesn’t do the same, you’re allowed to break the rules. Actually, in those situations, breaking the rules is a must-do.

You can’t hold on to someone and consider them your best friends if they don’t think the same of you. Yes, you should put sisterhood and your friendship at the very top of your priority list. However, the first place on that list belongs to you and only you.

The girl code rules are important because they can make or break a friendship. The bottom line is that if both sides follow all of these unspoken rules, they’ll stay best friends forever.

However, if you don’t stick to them, you’ll make your friend question your loyalty, and that’s when your friendship will start falling apart.

No seu todo

It’s how it is. We’re living in a cruel world, and most people think we’re too weak for it. That’s why we need to prove to them and ourselves how wrong they are.

And that is why following the girl code rules is so important. Because the only way we’ll do it, the only way we’ll prove them wrong is by sticking together.

There is no single thing that we can’t achieve or conquer TOGETHER, girls. Everything that men can do, we can do it twice as well and while wearing heels.

So, let’s sing it together now… Who run the world? Who run this mother… Who run this mother… Let me hear you all singing, who run the wooooorld? Of course, girls. Girl power, hell yeah. ?⚡