40 reglas del código de las chicas de oro que todas las mujeres deben empezar a seguir cuanto antes
We, women, have to stick together, and I’m not saying this just because. After all, we’re ruling this world, and just imagine what would happen to it if we would turn against each other.
It’s a law, and laws simply need to be respected, right? Normas del código de chicas nos ayudan a preservar nuestro poder, y todo lo que tenemos que hacer es seguirlas. Sencillo, ¿verdad?
It’s a way to honor that strongest bond of all, that of our sisterhood and great female friendships. It’s a way to celebrate remarkable el poder de las chicas.
Now, turn up the volume, go to YouTube and search for Beyonce’s song Run the World. I highly recommend listening to this song the entire time you’re reading this guide on girl codes to maintain the flow of positive vibes.
It’s a song that perfectly describes the el poder de las mujeres, and that’s why it’s one of those songs that will never stop trending.
Now, it’s time to get down to business.
¿Cuáles son las reglas del Girl Code?
Hay algunas reglas que los amigos deben respetar y seguir para mantener su amistad. Tenemos que mantener nuestra hermandad sana y salva, y esta es la única manera de hacerlo.
En pocas palabras, un código de chicas es un conjunto de normas, no escritas ni tácitas, que existen entre una mujer y sus amigas íntimas y que ambas partes deben respetar.
Every single one of you out there must try to stick to each and every one of these girl code rules below. It’s not just the law of feminism; it’ll also help you keep your friendship forever.
Lista de reglas del código de chicas
Aquí está: una lista de las reglas no escritas del código de chicas que todas las mujeres deberían respetar y seguir. Esto debería ser sagrado para todas nosotras, y lo digo de verdad, chicas.
¡Hermanas antes que señoras!
No guy is worth ruining your friendship over. So, stay away from your friend’s boyfriend, her ex-boyfriend, or any other man that might harm your friendship.
The bond and relationship you have with your BFF are so much stronger than the bond between you and a man who just wanted to hook up with you. Actually, there is no bond there at all because it probably won’t last long.
Respeta a tus amigos y sus límites
En todo tipo de relación, debe haber algo claramente límites definidos. Talk to your friends about theirs, and don’t ever violate them. It could really jeopardize your friendship.
Acepte sus diferencias
You and your friends will probably have some differences, but that’s perfectly okay because those differences could actually bring you closer.
Don’t ever think that just because someone has different interests, that it’s impossible to maintain a friendly relationship with that person. Los polos opuestos se atraen¿verdad? Y además, cuanto más diferentes seáis, más tendréis que aprender los unos de los otros.
Saber disculparse
Esto es muy importante si quieres conservar tu amistad para siempre.
La cuestión es que todos cometemos errores, pero sólo aquellos que son lo suficientemente fuertes (o aquellos cuyo amor es lo suficientemente fuerte) saben cuándo say ‘sorry’ y cómo hacerlo correctamente.
Ser indulgente
Come on, we’re all only weak human beings, and sometimes, we make mistakes without being aware of them. So, if your bestie wrongs you, don’t hesitate for a moment to forgive her.
Recuerda que tu amistad es y siempre será más valiosa que todo lo demás.
Dedique tiempo a sus mejores amigas
If your friend says they need you, you just have to be there ASAP. It’s as simple as that.
Your best friend’s crush is totally off-limits
This is a pretty clear one, right? Flirting with your bestie’s crush is totally forbidden. If you do it, that means you’re violating the rules of girl code. Trust me – it definitely won’t end well.
Si tu mejor amiga está pasando por un momento difícil, apóyala.
I think this girl code rule doesn’t even need to be explained. You must always be there for the people you love.
Si tu mejor amigo está pasando por algo malo, tienes que estar a su lado. Oh, of course, don’t forget to bring a tub of ice cream because it helps. Ice cream always helps. Full stop.
Ayude a su amigo a ver su propia valía y a enamorarse de sí mismo
Girls, I’ll just say one thing: amor propio es un MUST, y siempre tiene que ser la máxima prioridad en nuestras vidas.
Además, sé su fan número uno
Apoya siempre a tus amigos. Anímales, motívales y apóyalos para que consigan todo lo que se propongan.
Si tu mejor amiga está deprimida, busca la forma de levantarla de nuevo.
Saber cómo hacer sonreír a una chica when they’re feeling low is really a skill that, unfortunately, most people don’t have. However, that skill is one of the most important girl code rules.
Keep your friend’s secrets FOREVER
Even if your friendship ends, you must take your friend’s secrets with you to the grave.
Don’t keep your feelings bottled up – confide in your best friends
If you’re having any problems, feel free to confide in your friends about it. Those are the people who will always try to get you without being judgemental at all.
Don’t walk out on your friendship no matter what
You’ll have your ups and downs, as every friendship does, but you’re never allowed to give up and walk away from it. Some things are sacred and female friendship is one of these things.
Even when you don’t agree with your friend’s choices, you’re obliged to stand by her
You’re different, and of course, you won’t agree on all of your choices and decisions, but verdaderos amigos permanezcan leales y se apoyen mutuamente pase lo que pase y hasta el final.
Don’t judge her actions nor her decisions
You’re only human, so leave judgment for God because that’s His job!
Odia a todos los que odia tu amigo
Si tu amigo odia a alguien, la regla no escrita es que tú también deberías odiar a esa persona. Bastante lógico, ¿verdad?
Your friend’s enemy is your enemy too
Esto es prácticamente lo mismo que la regla anterior.
Ex’s and close relatives are out of bounds unless you have your BFF’s approval
Sé que enamorarse is a spontaneous act, and we can’t change that too much. However, if you find yourself in a situation where you like your friend’s ex or a close relative of hers, you must admit this to your friend first and see what she thinks about it.
If she’s okay with it and gives you her approval, you can consider it as a green light to date the man you like.
Sé la mejor aliada de tu mejor amiga
Sé una mujer-ala asesina to your friend. The one you would like to have, it’s as simple as that.
Always check in on your BFF while they’re on a first date
When your bestie is on a first date, you should be there with her too. I don’t mean literally, but you should check in on the situation constantly, just like you’re really there.
Cuando se llega a una fiesta juntos, hay que irse juntos también
Este es el punto de la hermandad, ¿verdad? Permaneceremos juntas pase lo que pase.
Deja que tu mejor amiga se desahogue contigo
Cuando tu amiga se desahogue, permítele que te lo cuente todo. Los buenos amigos son siempre la mejor terapia para la mente, el alma y el corazón.
Respetar su intimidad
You should always respect your friend’s personal space and their wish for privacy. So, for example, if your friend isn’t a fan of social media and doesn’t want to post pics on social media platforms, just don’t freaking do it.
Acéptalos como son
Nada grita “I love you” más que aceptar a una persona por lo que realmente es, con todos sus defectos e imperfecciones.
Celebrate your friend’s success as though it’s your own
You just need to know that your friend’s success and accomplishments are your accomplishments too. Estar celoso de tu amiga es un gran código de chicas no-no.
Take your bestie’s phone when she’s about to do something stupid
Whether we like to admit it or not, women have that tendency of sending a text to an ex when we’re drunk, or at least it’s when we start thinking about it.
Así que, la próxima vez que tu novia empiece a beber y coja su teléfono enviar mensajes de texto borracho a su exQuítaselo antes de que pulse el botón de enviar. Evita que haga algo de lo que se arrepentirá al día siguiente, cuando esté sobria.
Jump to the rescue of your friend when it’s needed
If you see that a creepy guy is annoying your friend, it’s your duty to rescue her at any cost.
Sé sincero cuando tu mejor amiga te pida tu opinión sobre su ropa
Al igual que te gustaría que tu amigo fuera sincero contigo, tú también tienes que ser sincero cuando hagas comentarios sobre su aspecto.
You’re never allowed to abandon a drunk friend
Friends should never be left behind, especially drunk friends. Don’t allow them to do anything stupid that they might regret once they sober up.
Asegúrate siempre de que llegan a casa sanos y salvos. Llévales y espera en tu coche hasta que tu amigo entre en casa antes de irte.
You always need to have each other’s backs
You’re each other’s biggest protectors, and you should always bear this in mind.
Hazle saber a una chica si su novio es infiel
If you know your BFF’s man is cheating on her, you ought to tell her. Help her save herself, and don’t allow her to perdonar su culo tramposo cojo.
Resuelva sus problemas de forma saludable
Don’t be afraid to confront each other about things that are bothering you in your friendship. It won’t harm your friendship; on the contrary, it can actually only make it stronger.
And remember, the only way you’ll solve your issues is by communicating.
Don’t ever let a girl walk into a stall without toilet paper
I’m sure we’ve all been in this situation, and we all know how disgusting it is when you’re in a public toilet, and there is no toilet paper.
Así que, la conozcas o no, si una chica necesita papel higiénico, debes pasárselo.
Si te sobra un tampón, deberías ayudar a una hermana necesitada.
Esta es una de las reglas no escritas más importantes del feminismo que es sencillamente IMPRESCINDIBLE seguir.
Meeting new friends doesn’t mean you’re allowed to neglect old ones
Of course, you’re allowed to meet people and make new friends, but always keep in mind who your real friends are. Always remember who was with you from the start and through all of your ups and downs, and who was with you all the way from high school till now.
En realidad, una verdadera amistad no debe descuidarse nunca, bajo ningún concepto, pues de lo contrario podría terminar.
Don’t ever talk about your friends to outsiders
Just as you should never share your best friend’s secrets with anyone else, you shouldn’t gossip about them with someone else either.
If you do, it’ll make your friend doubt your friendship, and they will have every right to do so.
Don’t slut-shame other girls
Be a lady. It’s not your problem what other girls do with their lives or their bodies.
Véase también: Las mujeres fuertes empoderan a otras mujeres, no las menosprecian
Don’t hate a girl you don’t even know
Please don’t ever hate or slut-shame a girl you haven’t had the opportunity to meet just because she talks or flirts with your man. It’s so wrong, and it actually makes YOU look like a bad person.
Cíñase a sus palabras
When you say or promise something to your friend, you must keep that promise no matter what. Remember, you have your bestie’s trust, so don’t do something that may cause you to lose it.
¿Cuándo se puede romper el código de las chicas?
Actually, the better question is, is it ever okay to break the girl code? Are there some special circumstances when you’re allowed to break some of the girl code rules?
Well, you should try to stick to these rules and live your life by them, but if you ever feel like the other side doesn’t do the same, you’re allowed to break the rules. Actually, in those situations, breaking the rules is a must-do.
You can’t hold on to someone and consider them your best friends if they don’t think the same of you. Yes, you should put sisterhood and your friendship at the very top of your priority list. However, the first place on that list belongs to you and only you.
The girl code rules are important because they can make or break a friendship. The bottom line is that if both sides follow all of these unspoken rules, they’ll stay best friends forever.
However, if you don’t stick to them, you’ll make your friend question your loyalty, and that’s when your friendship will start falling apart.
En conjunto
It’s how it is. We’re living in a cruel world, and most people think we’re too weak for it. That’s why we need to prove to them and ourselves how wrong they are.
And that is why following the girl code rules is so important. Because the only way we’ll do it, the only way we’ll prove them wrong is by sticking together.
There is no single thing that we can’t achieve or conquer TOGETHER, girls. Everything that men can do, we can do it twice as well and while wearing heels.
So, let’s sing it together now… Who run the world? Who run this mother… Who run this mother… Let me hear you all singing, who run the wooooorld? Of course, girls. Girl power, hell yeah. ?⚡
