Namoro: 25 sinais de que você está preso em um e seus benefícios
“When two people, who have an obvious interest in each other, flirt non-stop but can’t actually get into a relationship due to complicated reasons.” – Dicionário Urbano
So, in a nutshell, it’s more than a friendship and less than a relationship… It’s just complicated.
It’s driving us and the people around us crazy. It’s like a constant game of cat and mouse, chasing after each other, and it never stops.
A namoro também pode ser unilateral, mas por vezes encontramos alguém que fala a mesma língua, alguém que corresponde às nossas capacidades de sedução. Encontra-se um melhor amigo and an on-call romantic partner. And it’s amazing.
As causas de namoros são diferentes. Um de vós, ou ambos, podem ser namoriscadores por natureza; simplesmente gostam do jogo.
Apenas gosta de estar amigos com benefícios. Por outro lado, um namoro pode também ser a introdução ao namoro e um potencial relação efectiva.
Or it can be your last resort because you’re unable to act upon your flirting for a variety of reasons – you might be co-workers, have amigos em comum, ou já são amigos e querem evitar tornar as coisas embaraçosas.
Seja qual for a razão, o melhor conselhos para encontros O que posso dar-vos para esta situação é: não têm outra opção senão aproveitar enquanto dura.
But, first things first! Accept the fact you’re in a namoro and don’t confuse it for anything else – you’re only going to make it more awkward and difficult for yourself.
Secondly, once you’ve accepted your fate, consider the benefits that each flirty relationship can bring you.
25 Signs you’re definitely in a flirtationship
1. Encontra alguém que o diverte e melhora o seu dia.
2. Partilha de alguns piadas internas e têm o mesmo sentido de humor.
3. Fazem sempre comentários espirituosos e sedutores, e ambos encontram novas formas de se surpreenderem um ao outro para intensificar o jogo do flirt.
4. Um de vós cortou o cabelo ou está especialmente bonito hoje e, num instante, os elogios caem como chuva.
5. Marcam-se uns aos outros em memes.
6. Há uma série de Snapchats em curso.
7. Tem pelo menos uma fotografia deles no seu telemóvel.
8. As tuas mensagens estão cheias de emojis de corações e sorrisos.
9. Random people keep telling you how good a couple you’d be and they often ask if you’re in a relação romântica.
10. He’s a gentleman – he lets you have his jacket if it’s cold outside and he walks you home.
11. Ele faz questão de te enviar uma mensagem para te perguntar se chegaste bem a casa. Ele mantém-te segura.
12. De vez em quando, dá-nos uma pequena espreitadela à sua vida e tudo o que nos diz fica connosco.
13. When you post something on social media, you know he’ll be liking them, zooming in on your pictures, and commenting on the smallest details that anyone else would easily miss.
14. Pensas que o teu parceiro de namoro é perfeita e provavelmente daria um ótimo namorado, mas algo a impede de o fazer.
15. You always leave parties together or if the party is going on in one of your homes, you have a safe place to nap – on their couch.
16. Hugs last more than they normally would with someone who’s just your friend.
17. You check each other out and make sure to make it obvious because it’s just more fun that way.
18. The sexual tension is obvious. Sparks are flying all around, but you’re both reluctant to make a move for one reason or the other.
19. Enviam-se uns aos outros textos de sedução sem qualquer compromisso.
20. There is no pressure of saying “Eu amo-te” first.
21. He’s the only one out of all your amigos rapazes who makes you feel comfortable doing things you normally wouldn’t.
22. He’s mensagens de texto you when he feels like it and you’re totally okay with it. On the contrary, more frequent mensagens de texto seria um fator de rutura para si.
23. Não há receio de acabar na zona de amizade porque definiram claramente a vossa relação.
24. These kinds of relationships don’t last forever.
25. And the saddest comes last – there’s always the possibility of losing a amigo íntimo no final.
Não importa se o seu namoro está a ir longe ou está prestes a atingir o seu pico em breve, há coisas de que pode desfrutar enquanto dura a viagem.
10 benefícios de estar numa relação de namoro
1. There’s no drama
Se acabar com vocês os dois engate ou estar numa relação, então ótimo, mas se não, ótimo novamente.
O que tinham era significativo, mas não ao ponto de vos poder magoar facilmente. Foi bom enquanto durou, tornou os teus dias mais divertidos, mas não há necessidade de dramatizar e tornar as coisas maiores do que são.
At the end of the day, you can always remember the fun times you’ve shared and keep that experience close to your heart without holding any grudges.
2. Rir sem parar
Tem o seu piadas internas que obviamente ninguém à vossa volta percebe. Um sentido de humor partilhado é o melhor.
You formed the connection by using just words and not getting involved in something on a more deeper physical or emotional level. Yeah, there’s a primeira vez para tudo, certo?
Because it’s so relaxing, a smile is constantly on your face. He doesn’t have to be present and conversation doesn’t have to take place at that exact moment, as just thinking about it makes you giggle and gives you some sense of warmth from the inside out.
3. Óptima forma de estar entre relações
When you’re on the rebound or getting your life together after a broken relationship, there’s nothing like a namoro para vos tirar do vosso estado de espírito.
This isn’t a relação séria and it can’t hurt anyone, and it doesn’t restrain you. It keeps things casual.
Pode telefonar-lhe quando quiser, sem compromissos. Podes enviar-lhe mensagens de texto or not; it’s up to you.
Embora estas relações sejam completamente casuais, há sempre a possibilidade de levar as coisas para o nível seguinte (Nota: Só se ambos sentirem o mesmo. Caso contrário, as coisas correm mal).
4. You’re still on the market
You have your flirt buddy, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re going to stop noticing other men around.
Pode sair para alguns encontros e jogar a sua carta de solteiro enquanto vê qual é a sua posição no seu namoro –will it evolve to a relationship or not?
Tens sempre as tuas opções em aberto. É, de facto, uma mulher livre que tem algo em paralelo. Joga segundo as suas próprias regras, quando quer e como quer.
5. As terminações são menos dolorosas
You had fun while it lasted and the ending doesn’t hurt so much. You didn’t get emotionally attached.
Não tens nada com que te preocupares após a separação nem precisas de pensar em como lidar com isso. Tudo o que tens de fazer é parar de namoriscar.
Sure, it’s not that easy not to get emotionally attached, that’s why namoros aren’t everyone’s cup of tea.
That’s also why it’s important for you to know what you’re getting yourself into before you start. When it’s all over, you might miss those good days, but it will be way easier than ending a relationship. Less emotions – less pain.
6. Permite-lhe e ensina-o a viver o momento
You don’t have to worry about the future. A namoro dá-nos o seu próprio lugar e tempo; só temos de pensar no aqui e no agora.
You don’t have to worry about if you’re compatible, he’s committed, he means the things he says, you guys are moving in together, or he wants kids.
Life can get pretty chaotic and it’s completely understandable that more and more people refuse to get into a relação séria.
It drags so many problems with it, which you haven’t figured out yet. If you’re still wondering what to do with your life and where to start, this is the way to go. Dodge the chaos while you can.
Because there’s nothing beneath the flirtation and you’re okay with keeping things the way they are. There isn’t any responsibility and that’s exactly how you want to live your life right now.
7. Fazes as coisas porque queres, não porque tens de as fazer
All that happens is in your control. You don’t have to text him but you can.
You don’t have to show up at some event he is attending but you can. You can do whatever you want.
Estes namoros don’t require your full attention. Let’s say that you can be selfish and think only about yourself without any punishment or responsibility.
8. Há sempre borboletas
Every time you see your guy’s name on the phone, you’re going to feel butterflies. Every time you go out on a date, you’re going to get excited. The thing with these relationships is that you cannot get bored with each other.
When you want to spend time together, you’re together. When you get tired of each other, you go your separate ways for long enough to miss each other again. Every new meeting gets your blood going because you’re perpetually in the “new crush” phase. It lasts for as long as you want it to last. Isn’t that great – a honeymoon phase that never ends?
9. You’re not committed to anyone
Ninguém o impede de ter vários namoros ao mesmo tempo.
Where there’s no emotional attachment, there’s no jealousy. You or your partner have absolutely no right nor reason to prevent the other from seeing other people.
Se quiser, pode estar com alguém às quartas-feiras e aos sábados, enquanto os outros dias pode reservar para outra pessoa ou para si próprio.
Although this all sounds so easy and almost perfect, it’s not that easily done. Not everyone is able to preserve this kind of relationship. Not everyone is able to shut down their feelings and just have fun.
10. When he asks you something, it’s because he really cares
There’s no false pretenses in a relationship like this. When your flirtatious buddy asks you how you’re doing or what you’re up to, it’s because he really cares.
There’s no need for small talk or pretending you care about someone’s feelings just because you’re in a relationship.
Se fosse um relação efectiva, the person who is down for some reason would get terribly mad if you don’t acknowledge the fact they are a bit under the weather.
All hell would break loose if you ignore them. This way, your partner really doesn’t have that obligation.
So, you can tell for sure he truly is interested in your mental state or what you’re up to. He’s asking because he really wants to know.
Então, aqui está. Agora que já sabes como namoros work and what you can expect, you can decide whether you’re strong enough to enter an emotionless relationship where only urge and sexual attraction play the main role.
The important thing is that you’re having fun without even the smallest sign of disappointment and heartbreak. Only one question remains – are you up to it?
