Uma carta aberta para a próxima namorada do meu ex

Corre. Corre o mais rápido que puderes e o mais longe que puderes.

Costumava odiar as pessoas que criticavam os seus ex. Eles foram a nossa escolha e, numa determinada altura da nossa vida, nós amámo-los.

Amávamo-las como ninguém e pensávamos que essas pessoas iam ficar na nossa vida, sem nunca nos deixarA equipa da Comissão Europeia, que esteve sempre presente quando precisámos deles. Mas, oh Deus, como eu estava errado.

As I woman, I feel it’s my responsibility to tell you that you need to be careful. I wouldn’t want you to get hurt or to get your heart broken by someone who doesn’t even have one.

That man you will be looking at is like a grenade and you’re just waiting for him to explode and tear your whole world into pieces. He isn’t able to love a woman.

Never was, never will be. He doesn’t know how breakable the heart of a woman is, nor does he know how fragile her body is.

A woman breaks under the weight of someone who doesn’t give her the love and appreciation she deserves. You must know that, you’re a woman too.

When you don’t get the appreciation you deserve, it seems like there’s no way you can make the relationship work but you continue on fighting.

Be careful. He doesn’t have limits. Ele ultrapassa os limites and he doesn’t think twice about it.

He will never consider your feelings while he’s saying what’s on his mind and it doesn’t bother him if he offends you to the point where you’re crying your eyes out.

If he says he loves you, don’t believe him. I fell for that trap too many times and my heart still hasn’t recovered from the pain he inflicted on me.

Always watch his actions and see if they follow up with his words. The moment you see that there’s nothing you can do for him to stop lying and treating you like you aren’t worthy of the truth, leave.

Deixar isso de lado manipulador tóxico and don’t let him fool you that he can change.

Ele não é capaz de mudar. I know that you’re probably thinking that I’m telling you all this because I still love him or because of some kind of jealousy, but no.

I’m telling you this as a friend. As someone who doesn’t want you to go through everything that I’ve experienced. I wouldn’t want any woman to ever fall into his devious hands.

Eu sei que ele parece simpático. He seems like he can give you the world and that he’ll make you happy.

His eyes hypnotize you to the point where you think that you haven’t seen anything more beautiful in your entire life but truth be told, it’s all an act.

To him, love doesn’t exist except in the dictionary. Love isn’t an emotion but a word that gets him what he desires.

O amor não é mais do que uma forma de manipular as mulheres who have fallen head over heels for him. But it doesn’t mean anything to him but victory. Nothing but a way to show his power.

Don’t wait for him to come home. Lock the door. You won’t be able to fall asleep at night because you’ll be waiting for him and you don’t want that.

You don’t want any man to treat you that way. At least lock the door so he knows that there’s no way he will ever again get another chance. I wish I had been smarter back then.

I wish I hadn’t told him how hurt I was, I wish I had never said that his behavior was painful to me. My emotions were stronger than I was but I want to tell you that you need to be strong for the both of us.

Show him that he can’t play with a woman’s heart like that. Show him how to treasure a woman and if you see that he’s not changing—seguir em frente.

I’ve given you all the advice you need in order to survive the relationship. Talvez tu vás ser diferente. Talvez sejas mesmo capaz de o mudar.

But if not, know that you’re not the only one who tried and failed. I’m just sorry that you will have to go through all that with him in order to see who he truly is.

No entanto, quando a dor e a luta acabarem, aperceber-se-á de como são preciosas as pessoas que sabem amar.

Encontrará uma nova força para viver e encontrará a motivação para seguir em frente, independentemente do tempo que isso possa levar.

A melhor coisa de estar numa relação com ele é sair dela mais forte do que nunca.