Run. Run as fast as you can and as far as you can.
I used to hate those people who would bash their exes. They were our choice and at one point in our life, we loved them.
We loved them like no one else and we thought that those people were going to stay in our life, never leaving us, always being there when we needed them. But, oh God, how wrong I was.
As I woman, I feel it’s my responsibility to tell you that you need to be careful. I wouldn’t want you to get hurt or to get your heart broken by someone who doesn’t even have one.
That man you will be looking at is like a grenade and you’re just waiting for him to explode and tear your whole world into pieces. He isn’t able to love a woman.
Never was, never will be. He doesn’t know how breakable the heart of a woman is, nor does he know how fragile her body is.
A woman breaks under the weight of someone who doesn’t give her the love and appreciation she deserves. You must know that, you’re a woman too.
When you don’t get the appreciation you deserve, it seems like there’s no way you can make the relationship work but you continue on fighting.
Be careful. He doesn’t have limits. He crosses boundaries and he doesn’t think twice about it.
He will never consider your feelings while he’s saying what’s on his mind and it doesn’t bother him if he offends you to the point where you’re crying your eyes out.
If he says he loves you, don’t believe him. I fell for that trap too many times and my heart still hasn’t recovered from the pain he inflicted on me.
Always watch his actions and see if they follow up with his words. The moment you see that there’s nothing you can do for him to stop lying and treating you like you aren’t worthy of the truth, leave.
Let go of that toxic manipulator and don’t let him fool you that he can change.
He is not capable of change. I know that you’re probably thinking that I’m telling you all this because I still love him or because of some kind of jealousy, but no.
I’m telling you this as a friend. As someone who doesn’t want you to go through everything that I’ve experienced. I wouldn’t want any woman to ever fall into his devious hands.
I know that he seems nice. He seems like he can give you the world and that he’ll make you happy.
His eyes hypnotize you to the point where you think that you haven’t seen anything more beautiful in your entire life but truth be told, it’s all an act.
To him, love doesn’t exist except in the dictionary. Love isn’t an emotion but a word that gets him what he desires.
Love is nothing but a way to manipulate women who have fallen head over heels for him. But it doesn’t mean anything to him but victory. Nothing but a way to show his power.
Don’t wait for him to come home. Lock the door. You won’t be able to fall asleep at night because you’ll be waiting for him and you don’t want that.
You don’t want any man to treat you that way. At least lock the door so he knows that there’s no way he will ever again get another chance. I wish I had been smarter back then.
I wish I hadn’t told him how hurt I was, I wish I had never said that his behavior was painful to me. My emotions were stronger than I was but I want to tell you that you need to be strong for the both of us.
Show him that he can’t play with a woman’s heart like that. Show him how to treasure a woman and if you see that he’s not changing—move on.
I’ve given you all the advice you need in order to survive the relationship. Maybe you are going to be different. Maybe you really are capable of changing him.
But if not, know that you’re not the only one who tried and failed. I’m just sorry that you will have to go through all that with him in order to see who he truly is.
However, when the pain and the fight are over, you will realize how precious the people who can love actually are.
You will find new strength to live and you will find the motivation to move on, no matter how long that might take you.
The best thing about being in a relationship with him is that you come out of it stronger than you ever were.