Una lettera aperta alla prossima fidanzata del mio ex

Correre. Correte il più velocemente possibile e il più lontano possibile.

Detesto le persone che criticano i loro ex. Sono stati la nostra scelta e a un certo punto della nostra vita li abbiamo amati.

Li amavamo come nessun altro e pensavamo che quelle persone sarebbero rimaste nella nostra vita, senza mai lasciarcisempre presenti quando avevamo bisogno di loro. Ma, oh Dio, quanto mi sbagliavo.

As I woman, I feel it’s my responsibility to tell you that you need to be careful. I wouldn’t want you to get hurt or to get your heart broken by someone who doesn’t even have one.

That man you will be looking at is like a grenade and you’re just waiting for him to explode and tear your whole world into pieces. He isn’t able to love a woman.

Never was, never will be. He doesn’t know how breakable the heart of a woman is, nor does he know how fragile her body is.

A woman breaks under the weight of someone who doesn’t give her the love and appreciation she deserves. You must know that, you’re a woman too.

When you don’t get the appreciation you deserve, it seems like there’s no way you can make the relationship work but you continue on fighting.

Be careful. He doesn’t have limits. Supera i confini and he doesn’t think twice about it.

He will never consider your feelings while he’s saying what’s on his mind and it doesn’t bother him if he offends you to the point where you’re crying your eyes out.

If he says he loves you, don’t believe him. I fell for that trap too many times and my heart still hasn’t recovered from the pain he inflicted on me.

Always watch his actions and see if they follow up with his words. The moment you see that there’s nothing you can do for him to stop lying and treating you like you aren’t worthy of the truth, leave.

Lasciare andare quel manipolatore tossico and don’t let him fool you that he can change.

Non è capace di cambiare. I know that you’re probably thinking that I’m telling you all this because I still love him or because of some kind of jealousy, but no.

I’m telling you this as a friend. As someone who doesn’t want you to go through everything that I’ve experienced. I wouldn’t want any woman to ever fall into his devious hands.

So che sembra simpatico. He seems like he can give you the world and that he’ll make you happy.

His eyes hypnotize you to the point where you think that you haven’t seen anything more beautiful in your entire life but truth be told, it’s all an act.

To him, love doesn’t exist except in the dictionary. Love isn’t an emotion but a word that gets him what he desires.

L'amore non è altro che un modo per manipolare le donne who have fallen head over heels for him. But it doesn’t mean anything to him but victory. Nothing but a way to show his power.

Don’t wait for him to come home. Lock the door. You won’t be able to fall asleep at night because you’ll be waiting for him and you don’t want that.

You don’t want any man to treat you that way. At least lock the door so he knows that there’s no way he will ever again get another chance. I wish I had been smarter back then.

I wish I hadn’t told him how hurt I was, I wish I had never said that his behavior was painful to me. My emotions were stronger than I was but I want to tell you that you need to be strong for the both of us.

Show him that he can’t play with a woman’s heart like that. Show him how to treasure a woman and if you see that he’s not changing—andare avanti.

I’ve given you all the advice you need in order to survive the relationship. Forse voi sarete diversi. Forse siete davvero in grado di cambiarlo.

But if not, know that you’re not the only one who tried and failed. I’m just sorry that you will have to go through all that with him in order to see who he truly is.

Tuttavia, quando il dolore e la lotta saranno finiti, vi renderete conto di quanto siano preziose le persone che sanno amare.

Troverete una nuova forza per vivere e troverete la motivazione per andare avanti, non importa quanto tempo vi ci vorrà.

La cosa migliore di una relazione con lui è che ne esci più forte di prima.