Someone once said that if a man wants you, he will come and get you.
It’s the ultimate truth—if he wants you to be in his life, he’ll put you there. You shouldn’t have to fight for the spot. You shouldn’t chase him or throw yourself in front of him just to be with him.
Don’t humiliate yourself for someone who doesn’t see you.
If you need to ask him, “So what are we?” or if you’re the only one interested in putting a label on your relationship, then you’re probably nothing serious in his eyes.
If you have to ask where your relationship is going, it’s probably going nowhere. And you know why? Men always go for what they truly want.
If this isn’t the case with you, then you’re not what he truly wants.
Women are these magnificent creatures who can do whatever they put their minds to. They can let everything go even when they’re feeling this immense love, they can smile even if they’re dying inside and they can walk away even when their heart tells them to stay. Be one of these strong women and don’t ever chase a man.
Be the prize that everyone chases but only one can win.
When a man doesn’t see your worth, no matter how much you want to be with him or how good you think he is, don’t beg him to notice you.
Don’t chase him, don’t try to prove anything to him, don’t bend over backward just to show him how he should make a spot in his life for you and that you’re worthy of his time and love. You’ll be wasting your time and putting too much of an effort into something that isn’t meant to be.
Instead, look at him as a prayer that was never granted because destiny has something better coming your way. It’s usually like this when you don’t get what you want; it’s because you deserve much more than you’re asking for.
You deserve a man in whose eyes you’ll be the only one.
A man who will look at you with the most profound admiration, a man whose face will light up the moment you walk in the room. You deserve a man who will not look at other women because he already knows he hit the jackpot with you.
You deserve a man who will make a spot for you in his life on his own.
A man who’ll see you as the biggest gift he could get in his life and a man who’ll thank God each night for sending you his way.
You deserve a man who will want you by his side, whom you won’t need to chase, but a man who will willingly welcome you to every aspect of his life because he wants you there.
You deserve a man who will have his future planned with you.
A man who’ll show you where you stand with him and a man who’ll never make you question what you two are because he’ll be the one asking to put a label on your relationship.
You deserve a man who not only plans his future with you but who also works on it.
You deserve a man who will want to spend time with you. A man who will text you first, who won’t make you wait for his reply for hours and who will call just to hear your voice.
You deserve a man who will plan dates with you, a man who will make sure you know he always has time for you no matter how busy his schedule is.
You don’t deserve a man whom you’ll have to beg for a minute of his time because the right man will be more than happy to give you his hours, days, months and years.
You deserve a man who will want you. Who will want all of you. You deserve a man who you won’t need to fight tooth and nail to notice you. To whom you don’t need to prove anything, let alone your worth because a true man will accept you for who you are if he likes you. To a true man, you’ll be worthy with all your flaws and your imperfections.
Know that if a man loves you, you won’t need to chase him.
He’ll see you as perfect just the way you are and he’ll want to be with you. He’ll make a spot for you in his life and he won’t ever make you question what the two of you are.
Don’t ever settle for less and don’t ever chase a man.
If you need to chase him, he’s not the one for you. Let him go because someone better is headed your way.