When it comes to deciding whether or not to break someone’s heart and leave, you’re going to choose the option of breaking your own heart instead of someone else’s. It’s just who you are and what you do.
You’re genuinely a good person and everyone knows that. Everyone knows you don’t have the guts to do something that will cause pain to someone else. You’d rather suffer yourself than hurt another person.
This personality trait of not giving up on anyone is beautiful but also very self-destructive.
For example, what if the person you’re trying to protect doesn’t care the same about you?
Nevertheless, you’ll never leave without giving your all to save your relationship, which often leaves you sad and broken.
While on the other hand, you could save yourself if you broke it off in time, you do the total opposite. Simply put, you suck at breaking up!
You are the type of person who enters into a romantic relationship and from that moment on, you strongly believe that it is the relationship you’ve been waiting for. You believe that relationship is ‘the one’.
You even hide the fact you’re slowly becoming obsessed with that person. You even imagine your future together and in that way, you’re jumping way ahead of yourself. All of that just because you simply love being in love.
When you fall in love, all reason ceases to exist. Your heart leads the way, which is not always the smartest choice if you don’t want to get incredibly hurt.
Sure, everyone will tell you to follow your heart but what if your heart isn’t right this time?
Despite what others tell you and how much they try to persuade you into doing something different, you’ll go and do your own thing anyway.
If your relationship begins to face problems, you’ll ignore it, keeping in mind that separation is the last thing you want.
What you’ll do is stay in that relationship for as long as possible. You’ll hang on by a thread until you’re left with nothing else to do.
You are one very guarded person and your romantic standards are ridiculously high.
You will only enter into a relationship if you’re absolutely positive that making that decision is the right way to go.
Naturally, things don’t always go as we plan them to, so there is a very good chance you’ll play your cards wrong and end up in a relationship without a happy ending, whether you choose it or not.
Since you’re very smart, it doesn’t take long for you to realize your relationship is facing problems.
Sadly for you, instead of getting the courage up to break it off in time, you’ll put all your effort into trying to solve every potential problem.
Patience is one of your many virtues, which is usually a much-wanted trait in a relationship. Although this sounds so good, there is a downside. You can end up being in a wrong relationship much longer than you should have.
You’re a very simple person who hates chaos and instability. No matter whether you’re going through a bad or good period in life, as long as you know where you stand, you’re good.
You want stability. You want to know what’s happening in your life, so you know how to behave.
If it happens that you end up in a relationship that is slowly deteriorating and is no longer as perfect as it used to be, you won’t try to find your way out. That decision is a very bad one in general.
In addition, you refuse to leave a relationship just because you hate change, especially the time spent until your life falls back into its place.
The reason why you suck at leaving someone is the fact that you’d rather stay in a loveless relationship and work your ass off to make it better than just walk away. Because by leaving, you’re stepping out of your comfort zone.
You are the most perfect person to be in a relationship with. Everyone knows Librans are all about love and stability.
It’s hard for you to fall in love but when you do, almost nothing can make you fall out of love. As the most devoted partner there is, you’re the perfect match for anyone.
Every relationship you’re in is usually calm and stable. And that is only because you’re the one who keeps everything under control. Sometimes, you let things slide when you probably shouldn’t just let go.
Your character is very similar to Taurus. You hate instability and change, so you suck at leaving a relationship, hoping to keep the stability. You’d rather stick around and suffer than do something about it.
If by any chance you manage to break that relationship off, you will never be with that same person again.
Falling in love is not usually your thing and it doesn’t happen that often. So, when it actually happens, when you lose your mind over someone, you go all in.
That’s the relationship you won’t give up on so easily. You will give your best to keep it alive under all costs.
Let’s face it—you adore being loved and loving someone even if you claim that you don’t need it. After all, love is not bad at all when you get a taste of it!
Nevertheless, you’re the type of person who won’t break up with someone that easily. You will put up with everything but still, there is one thing you could never forgive and forget and that’s a betrayal.
If that’s the case, you’ll break up as soon as possible without thinking twice about it. And afterward, you won’t miss them at all because you’ll be too busy planning your revenge.