What is the thing you do to yourself, when going through a heartbreak, which prevents you from healing healthily?
The toxic way in which you handle your heartbreak, based on the zodiac sign you belong to?
1. Aries
Your biggest mistake when it comes to break-ups is that you try to mask your pain with anger.
It is easier for you to admit that you are furious about the other person and even angry at yourself for allowing someone like that to be a part of your life and for choosing wrongly than to accept the fact that your heart is broken into pieces.
You might not be aware of this but the truth is that you consider all emotional pain as your own personal defeat so you think the best way to avoid it is to channel it this way.
2. Taurus
If you belong to this zodiac sign, your problem is that you don’t know how to accept that a relationship has come to its end or the fact that the other person doesn’t love you the way you expect them to.
Instead, you have a habit of pushing things too hard, thinking that they will work out if you give them just another shot.
All of this behavior makes you lose your dignity and you come off as someone begging for love, without even being aware of it.
3. Gemini
What you can’t seem to grasp is that your heart needs time to heal after a brutal break-up.
Everyone, including you, needs some time to get their shit together after being hurt.
However, this is something you refuse to accept. Instead, you assume that a rebound relationship is exactly the thing you need to fix yourself.
Of course, in the end, when you finally understand that things don’t work like that, you end up hurting more people than necessary and you end up breaking your own heart even more.
4. Cancer
When it comes to break-ups, you have a tendency to idealize the other person even after they do you harm.
You can’t seem to accept that they are bad for you and that they didn’t care for you as much as you did for them, so you continue looking for excuses for everything they did.
The most toxic thing you do while handling your heartbreak is taking overall responsibility for things ending the way they did.
You keep wondering what you could have done differently to avoid this break-up and how come you weren’t enough for your partner to love you.
5. Leo
When you end a romantic relationship, you pretend like the person you dated was never a part of your life.
Yes, leaving your ex in the past where they belong is always a good idea, especially when things don’t end well but the pain won’t disappear overnight if you delete all record of them ever existing, nor will it be magically gone if you pretend like your entire relationship never mattered.
6. Virgo
The toxic thing you do while handling your heartbreak is overthinking and overanalyzing.
You can’t seem to grasp that things turned out the way they did and you are always looking for a deeper meaning and a reason behind everything that went on.
You can’t seem to move on without getting closure and you focus all of your energy on thinking thoroughly about every little detail that led to this outcome.
7. Libra
The worst thing you subconsciously do after having your heart broken is giving up on love all together.
You lose hope that you’ll ever find your happiness and you start assuming that everyone is just like your ex.
You start looking at your entire life through the prism of this heartbreak and you get the feeling like your entire world is falling apart.
8. Scorpio
Out of all zodiac signs, you are the one who handles your heartbreak in the most typical of all toxic ways.
You can’t seem to face the pain you are feeling so you do everything in your power to chase it away.
The worst part about the way you deal with losing someone you love is sleeping around with everyone who comes your way, convinced that all of this meaningless physical intimacy will fill the void inside of you.
9. Sagittarius
If you belong to this zodiac, you have an uncontrollable urge to reinvent yourself the moment your heart breaks.
You think that the easiest way to get someone out of your system is to change something about your appearance.
What you don’t know is that the pain comes from within so you have to work on improving your interior instead of your exterior if you really want to heal.
10. Capricorn
A heartbreak is anything but easy for you.
However, for you, your pride is more important than everything and you would never allow others to see the true intensity of your pain.
So you suffer in silence and pretend that everything is in perfect order while you are actually dying on the inside and that is one of the worst things you can do to yourself.
11. Aquarius
When you are going through a heartbreak, you have some masochistic habits.
You continue breaking your own heart by stalking your ex’s social media, by going through your old photos and by listening to the songs that remind you of them.
Even though pretending that the pain doesn’t exist is never a good idea, you shouldn’t dig your wounds deeper either.
12. Pisces
If you belong to this zodiac, when you are hurt, you don’t only cut off the one who has done you harm.
Instead, you shut everyone out and you don’t let people help you, thinking that you can go through all of this on your own.
Even though being your own hero is amazing, there is nothing shameful in accepting a hand from the ones close to you.
