Ever wonder why certain men seem to be drawn to you like bees to honey? Or why do you constantly seem to attract the same type of man—as if it were inscribed in the stars?
Okay, maybe it is. Astrology reveals not just our peculiarities and personalities, but also the energy we project into the world and the individuals we attract.
And believe me, whether you’re into astrology or just here for the tea, you’re going to view yourself (and the males you attract) in a completely new light.
So, are you ready to discover what your sign says about the males you can’t seem to shake? Let’s get started…
1. Aries (The Big Baby)
You fall for men who act like big babies. They avoid responsibility and labeling, so they have a way out of anything at any time given.
They will never admit the two of you are in a relationship so that if he gets bored and wants out, he can leave with no strings attached. They are too selfish to look after anyone other than themselves.
But here’s the thing—your fiery Aries energy often sees their helplessness as a challenge. You think you can whip them into shape, but instead, you end up exhausted by their antics. Your natural leadership makes you believe you can guide them, but they’re too stubborn and immature to truly listen. In their eyes, your independence and resilience are attractive, yet they fail to rise to your level.
Ultimately, these men might cling to you because they see you as their anchor, even if they won’t commit. They mirror your passion with fleeting bursts of charm, but their lack of follow-through leaves you questioning why you ever gave them a chance. The lesson? Don’t let your need for excitement overshadow your need for stability.
2. Taurus (Old But Hot)
Well, the type of man you’re attracted to is not boys; they are men. You hate instability and boys create instability, but men take it away. The other thing is that he is a player.
No matter how old and how grey their beards are, no matter how rich they are (and usually this is more than true), they can rock Taurus’s world. But, don’t let the maturity of an ‘old’ man fool you. That doesn’t mean he wants a relationship. If he has been alone until now, he will probably be alone for the rest of his life.
These seasoned charmers captivate you with their sophistication and poise. They seem to have all the answers, and their air of self-assurance draws you in like a moth to a flame. You’re all about the finer things in life, and these men know exactly how to cater to that—fine wine, intellectual conversation, and experiences that make you feel cherished. However, their aloofness often leaves you questioning whether they see you as a partner or just another conquest.
Deep down, you crave someone as grounded as you are, but these men thrive on keeping things casual. While you may be tempted by their worldliness, remember that substance matters more than surface appeal. Trust your instincts when it feels like their charm is more of a mask than a window to their soul.
3. Gemini (The Lazy Man)
They put zero effort into any kind of relationship. They will lay back and wait for you to do all the work. The thing is they are so irresistible that you fall into the trap and do everything for them—although you shouldn’t.
You shouldn’t blame yourself for attracting this kind of man, but wake up and move on. There is no future there.
Gemini, your quick wit and energy deserve a partner who matches your pace, but lazy men see you as a convenience. They’re drawn to your resourcefulness and adaptability, leaning on you to fill the gaps in their lives. Their nonchalance might feel like a refreshing contrast at first, but it quickly turns into frustration when you realize they expect you to carry the emotional and logistical weight.
Ironically, they often leave you feeling mentally drained despite their laid-back demeanor. The duality of your sign craves both intellectual stimulation and playful banter, and yet these men rarely provide either in a sustainable way. Once you recognize that you’re worth someone who contributes equally, you’ll stop settling for men who rely on you to do it all.
4. Cancer (The Needy Man)
You are a natural caretaker and you’ve got so much love to give. It makes you who you are and you can’t change it. That’s why you attract needy men; men that are a lot of work but don’t give anything in return.
Then you fall in love and before you know it, they are sucking the life out of you. These men don’t know how to be alone. They need someone to take care of them, and after a while, this becomes exhausting.
Your empathetic nature makes you a magnet for men who crave nurturing but don’t reciprocate it. They see your emotional intelligence as a sanctuary, but they rarely offer the same refuge in return. At first, their vulnerability might appeal to your protective instincts, but over time, it becomes a heavy burden that leaves you questioning your own happiness.
The truth is, your deep emotional reservoir deserves to be met with equal care and respect. While it’s in your nature to give, you must remember that a healthy relationship requires balance. Instead of shouldering their baggage, find someone who uplifts you just as much as you uplift them.
5. Leo (The Aggressively Honest Man)
If you are going to attract a ladies’ man, you are going to attract an aggressively honest one. Manipulations and mind games are not your things and people can’t easily twist you around their little fingers.
If you are going to run into an idiot, it’s better to run into someone who will be honest from the start about their intentions than lie about them and tell you when it’s too late and you’re in it too deep.
As a Leo, your magnetic personality draws men who are bold and upfront, yet often abrasive. Their honesty might appeal to you at first—it feels like a refreshing break from deception—but their delivery can lack the tact and charm you secretly crave. These men admire your confidence and presence, yet their inability to meet your emotional needs leaves you yearning for more depth.
You don’t back down easily, so you often engage in heated debates with these men, trying to uncover what’s beneath their blunt exterior. But no matter how much they respect your fiery passion, they seldom match your level of emotional intelligence. Don’t dim your light for someone who thrives on brutal truths without offering the kindness you deserve.
6. Virgo (The Intelligent Man)
This man will stimulate both your body and mind. He may be a boy from your class and you can do all sorts of naughty things between the classes and exchange intelligent information during class.
They are the kind of guys that will watch a documentary you were saving for time alone with you. But, of course, don’t expect them to stick around longer than one semester, because, underneath it all, they are still just ladies’ men,
Virgo, your sharp intellect and curious mind are like magnets for men who thrive on stimulating conversations and meaningful exchanges. These men know how to hold your attention with their knowledge and wit, making them almost irresistible. But their charm often lies in their fleeting presence—they drop profound insights and intriguing ideas only to move on before you can build something lasting.
Their unpredictability may feel exciting at first, but you eventually notice their inconsistency, which clashes with your need for stability and structure. While you cherish the intellectual connection, remember that a true partner will also value the practical and emotional aspects of a relationship, not just the mental ones.
7. Libra (The Rich Man)
You love the nice stuff and if anyone wants any kind of relationship with you, they have to make a huge effort. You want flowers, fancy restaurants—you want it all. And let’s be honest, you deserve it all.
He has to have a good job and a nice income. You know it’s not serious. He is a ladies’ man, but if you can’t avoid him, it’s better that he is a rich ladies’ man than just a ladies’ man.
Your love for beauty and harmony makes you naturally gravitate toward men who can provide a life of luxury. These men admire your refined taste and elegance, often spoiling you with lavish gifts and grand gestures. But while the dinners and designer accessories may impress you, you quickly notice that their affection can feel transactional rather than heartfelt.
Deep down, you want a partner who appreciates you for who you are, not just for the aesthetic perfection you embody. While it’s tempting to get swept up in the glittering world they offer, don’t lose sight of your desire for genuine connection. True love isn’t just about opulence—it’s about authenticity.
8. Scorpio (The High Libido Man)
You have a very high libido which means that your ladies’ man has to be at least nearly as ready for action as you are. You need a man who has a nice tool and knows how to use it. Nothing else is that important.
There won’t be broken hearts and tears because both of you will get out of this relationship exactly what you are looking for—amazing bedroom fun with no strings attached.
Scorpio, your intensity and passion attract men who exude raw, magnetic energy. They’re drawn to the mysterious aura you project, and their own confidence in the bedroom matches your unapologetic sensuality. These connections often burn bright and fast, leaving little room for emotional depth but plenty of mutual satisfaction.
However, your emotional side sometimes craves more than just physical compatibility. While it’s thrilling to have a partner who matches your fire, you might find yourself wondering if there’s someone out there who can ignite your heart and soul as deeply as your desires. Don’t settle for surface-level connections if your instincts tell you to seek something profound.
9. Sagittarius (The Humorous Man)
You are a joker and you like good humor. That’s why you attract this kind of man. They love to joke, but the downside to this is that they never take anything seriously.
Although you love to laugh, there are times when you want to be serious and say your feelings out loud, so you expect the same from him. Well, you’re not getting that from him. He is not a ladies’ man for no reason.
Sagittarius, your free-spirited and adventurous nature makes you irresistible to men with sharp wits and infectious laughter. These men adore your ability to keep things lighthearted, and they love the way your optimism radiates. Together, you create a world of jokes and shared adventures that feels exhilarating at first.
But when the laughter fades, you might find yourself longing for a deeper connection—a moment when you can be vulnerable and express your emotions without being met with sarcasm. While humor is important, don’t ignore your need for sincerity and emotional reciprocity. The right partner will know when to laugh with you and when to hold space for your deeper truths.
10. Capricorn (The Big Ego Man)
You like men that are kind of narcissistic. They only care about themselves and what they’re wearing and how people perceive them. The reason why they like you is that you’re all-together and classy, but after some time, that doesn’t cut it.
You want more because you know you deserve more. You get the feeling that they don’t care about you and the truth is they probably don’t, but it’s not you, it’s their cold heart.
Capricorn, your strong sense of ambition and grace attracts men who admire your poise but often fail to match your emotional depth. These men are enamored by your ability to hold it all together, seeing you as a trophy rather than a true partner. Their obsession with appearances often overshadows their ability to nurture a meaningful connection.
While you respect their drive and ambition, their self-centeredness leaves you feeling unappreciated and unseen. It’s a stark contrast to the stability and loyalty you crave. Trust yourself to walk away from relationships where your worth isn’t fully recognized. A love built on mutual respect will align with your grounded and determined nature.
11. Aquarius (The Friend Man)
You really don’t care what other people think of you and that’s why you’re going to do whatever you feel like doing. Sleep with your friend? Sure, why not?
But on the other hand, for you to have any kind of relationship with anybody, you have to have a deep connection with that person. That’s why friends work perfectly. The only thing is you should never do it because it never ends well.
Your unconventional and independent spirit draws men who value friendship above all else. They’re intrigued by your open-mindedness and intellectual curiosity, and these qualities often create a foundation of trust that’s hard to find elsewhere. However, when the lines between friendship and romance blur, things can get messy.
While you cherish the idea of love rooted in deep connection, you also struggle with vulnerability. These “friend” men can feel safe initially, but their inability to meet your emotional needs often leads to frustration. To avoid heartache, focus on partners who align with your ideals but also bring the emotional stability you secretly crave.
12. Pisces (The Deceiving Man)
He will pretend to be anything you like him to be just to get into your pants. For example, you are extremely sensitive and deep. You like intelligent people with whom you can have meaningful conversations.
You fall for these men because they pretend to be all those things and they are far from it. They are just very good actors. But, that doesn’t last for long. His insecurity soon sees the light of the day and before you know it, the whole thing is over.
Pisces, your dreamy and empathetic nature makes you susceptible to men who are experts at telling you exactly what you want to hear. They play on your romantic ideals, weaving a narrative that feels like a fairytale, only for you to discover it was all an illusion. Their charm might sweep you off your feet initially, but their lack of authenticity becomes evident as time passes.
Your tendency to see the best in people often keeps you from recognizing red flags early on. While your capacity for love is boundless, it’s essential to stay grounded and trust your intuition. The right person will embrace your depth without needing to fabricate a persona to win your heart.
See also: The Type Of Person You Attract, Based On Your Zodiac Sign