If you feel like you’re a magnet for bad decisions when it comes to men, you’re not alone.
Love can be messy, unpredictable, and downright confusing. Sometimes, it feels like you’re stuck in a cycle of chasing the wrong guys, only to end up with a broken heart. But did you know that your birth month might actually hold the key to understanding why you keep making the same mistakes?
Astrology doesn’t just reveal your strengths and weaknesses—it also sheds light on your dating patterns. From stubborn streaks to undying optimism, your personality traits, influenced by your birth month, could be steering you straight into the arms of the wrong men.
Here’s the cosmic truth: some of us are naturally drawn to challenges, while others fall for the idea of fixing someone who’s broken. And sometimes, we’re just too blinded by love to see the glaring red flags.
Whatever the reason, knowing what drives your bad taste in men can be the first step toward breaking the pattern.
So, why do you keep falling for guys who aren’t right for you? Let’s take a closer look at how your birth month influences your choices—and why the stars might be guiding you toward love lessons instead of lasting connections.
1. January
You’re stubborn as heck, and there is no way to try to explain anything to you. If you see a man and you like him, there is no chance in heck that you’re going to walk away from him. Even if he is the worst, you’ve got your eyes on him, and you won’t stop until he’s yours. That’s why you fall for the wrong men.
But it’s not just about being stubborn—you’re also fiercely determined and love a challenge. The more unattainable or complicated a man seems, the more appealing he becomes to you. You see obstacles as something to conquer, not avoid, and this mindset often clouds your judgment.
Even when red flags are staring you in the face, you convince yourself that you can make things work. Walking away feels like giving up, and giving up simply isn’t in your nature. But sometimes, knowing when to let go is the most powerful thing you can do for yourself.
You deserve someone who matches your strength, not someone who takes advantage of it. The stars are telling you to stop chasing the wrong guys and let the right one find you instead.
2. February
You are a caretaker, and you want to make the people around you happy. Also, you don’t get attached so easily, but once you do, it’s so hard for you to let go. You’ll keep giving second chances even if that person doesn’t deserve a single one.
Your nurturing side is a beautiful trait, but it often leads you down a path of heartbreak. You see potential in people, even when they don’t see it in themselves, and you cling to the hope that they’ll change. Unfortunately, not everyone is willing to put in the work to be better.
You also have a romanticized view of love, believing that with enough care and effort, you can fix any relationship. This mindset keeps you stuck in toxic cycles with people who don’t deserve your time or energy.
The stars urge you to focus on yourself. Pour all that love and care into your own well-being instead of chasing after someone who doesn’t appreciate it. You’ll find that when you stop settling for less, the universe will send someone worthy of your love your way.
3. March
You are simply not a quitter. You are so persistent that you are able to drive someone crazy with it until they fold. You are willing to go after someone for so long that they will end up dating you even when they don’t want to at first.
Your persistence is admirable, but it can also lead you to ignore the signs that someone isn’t right for you. You convince yourself that your efforts will pay off, even when the relationship is doomed from the start.
The problem is that you often mistake resistance for attraction. Just because someone eventually gives in doesn’t mean they’re truly interested or invested. This pattern sets you up for disappointment when the reality doesn’t match your expectations.
Instead of chasing after someone who isn’t fully into you, take a step back and let things happen naturally. Love shouldn’t feel like a battle or a competition—it should flow effortlessly. When you learn to let go of the need to control the outcome, you’ll find yourself in healthier, happier relationships.
4. April
You assume that the man you want to be with is interested in you, but he’s only playing hard to get, and you don’t want to admit it. Stop doing that because, in the end, the only person who will get hurt is you.
Your optimism and confidence are usually your strengths, but in love, they sometimes blind you to the truth. You convince yourself that his mixed signals mean he’s interested, even when all the signs point to the opposite.
You have a hard time walking away because you hate feeling like you’ve lost. Instead of seeing rejection as a redirection, you see it as a challenge to win him over. But here’s the thing: you deserve someone who doesn’t make you question their feelings.
Focus on finding someone who matches your energy and effort from the start. Let go of the ones who don’t deserve your time, and you’ll be surprised at how much happier and more fulfilled you’ll feel.
5. May
It’s hard to get you to commit to someone. You don’t open up so easily to people, and you don’t trust anyone. But, when someone deserves your trust, you will be loyal to them for the rest of your life. That’s why you fall for the wrong men.
When he cares for you far less than you care for him, you’ll stick around and keep showering him with your generous love.
Your loyalty is one of your strongest traits, but it’s also what makes you vulnerable. Once you decide someone is worth your time and energy, you give them everything you have, even when they don’t reciprocate. It’s like you believe your love will eventually make them see your worth.
You often confuse persistence with progress. You stay in situations where your love is one-sided, hoping the other person will change. But this behavior only drains you emotionally, leaving you hurt and disillusioned.
The stars are encouraging you to be more selective. Pay attention to how someone treats you before you fully commit. True love isn’t about proving your worth—it’s about mutual respect and care. Save your loyalty for someone who truly deserves it.
6. June
There is a part of you that thinks you deserve pain and maltreatment. The other part is happy and loving, but this dark part of you keeps punishing you for the things you resent about yourself. That’s why you cling on to the wrong men and punish yourself for the things you’ve done wrong.
Your self-reflective nature is both a blessing and a curse. While it allows you to grow and understand yourself deeply, it also makes you overly critical. You hold onto guilt and past mistakes, convincing yourself that you’re not worthy of a healthy, loving relationship.
This inner conflict pushes you toward partners who reflect your insecurities. You subconsciously choose men who treat you poorly because you believe that’s what you deserve. But deep down, you know this couldn’t be further from the truth.
Focus on healing that dark part of yourself. Work on forgiving yourself for the past and embracing your inherent worth. When you start treating yourself with kindness and compassion, you’ll naturally attract men who do the same. You deserve love that uplifts you, not one that drags you down.
7. July
You fall for the wrong men because you think your love can change people. You have more than enough love in yourself for everyone, and you’re not afraid to show it.
You’re deeply emotional and empathetic, so you keep giving the wrong men second chances even though they don’t deserve it. You think you can change their heart and lead them on the right path, but sadly, you’re wrong.
Your belief in the power of love is beautiful, but it often blinds you to reality.
You see potential in people and convince yourself that with enough care and patience, you can help them become better versions of themselves. But some people don’t want to change, and your efforts only leave you feeling drained and heartbroken.
You need to shift your focus. Instead of trying to fix someone else, look for a partner who is already emotionally mature and ready to meet you halfway.
You have so much love to give, and it’s time to find someone who matches your energy and gives back just as much. Remember, love should be a partnership, not a project.
8. August
Persistence and pride are your strongest characteristics. The fact that you fall for the wrong men because you can’t have them, because maybe they don’t want you, is something that makes you want them even more. It stops being a matter of love, and it becomes a matter of principle and stubbornness.
You thrive on challenges, and nothing intrigues you more than a man who seems out of reach. To you, their rejection isn’t a sign to walk away—it’s a call to action. You convince yourself that winning them over will prove your worth, even if they’re completely wrong for you.
But this determination often leads you into toxic situations where your efforts go unappreciated. You invest so much energy in trying to “win” someone that you forget to ask yourself if they’re even worth your time.
In 2025, it’s time to let go of your pride when it comes to love. Instead of chasing men who don’t value you, seek someone who sees your worth from the start.
Love shouldn’t feel like a competition—it should feel like mutual respect and admiration. Trust the universe to bring you someone who wants you just as much as you want them.
9. September
When you fall in love, you are all in. You fail to see all the red flags and huge warning signs that the man you’re after is so not for you. You fail to see that he is toxic and emotionally unavailable because love blinds you. Open your eyes and look out for a possible heartbreak. Try to prevent getting hurt next time.
Your all-or-nothing approach to love is both your strength and your weakness. When you care for someone, you give them your whole heart, often ignoring the warning signs that something isn’t right. You convince yourself that love is enough to overcome any obstacle, even when the relationship is clearly toxic.
In 2025, the stars encourage you to take a step back and analyze your relationships more objectively. Instead of rushing in headfirst, take the time to truly understand the person you’re investing in. Are they meeting your needs, or are you ignoring their flaws out of fear of being alone?
By slowing down and being more selective, you’ll avoid unnecessary heartbreak and create space for a healthier, more fulfilling love to enter your life.
10. October
You’re a positive person, and you always see only the best in people until they use you and toss you away. That’s why you keep falling for the wrong men.
You keep giving them second chances, which they don’t deserve, because you believe that somewhere deep inside of them, they’re hiding something special. It’s not always like that, and usually, you end up getting hurt.
Your optimism and faith in people are admirable, but they often lead you to ignore glaring red flags. You have a unique ability to see the potential in others, but this can also blind you to their true intentions.
You hold onto the hope that with enough love and patience, they’ll reveal their good side, even if they’ve shown you time and time again that it doesn’t exist.
This pattern keeps you stuck in toxic cycles where you give too much and receive very little in return. You believe in the power of second chances, but sometimes, those second chances only prolong the inevitable heartbreak.
The stars urge you to protect your heart. Stay positive, but don’t let your kindness be mistaken for weakness. Look for someone who matches your energy and values your love without needing to be “fixed.”
11. November
You’re fierce. You don’t run away from problems, and it is even more interesting when you are faced with a challenge as you will never run away from it. That’s why you fall for the wrong men. They are a challenge that you have to take.
Your intensity and determination make you a force to be reckoned with, but when it comes to love, these traits can sometimes work against you. You’re drawn to men who seem complicated, unavailable, or even a little bit dangerous. To you, these qualities aren’t red flags—they’re puzzles waiting to be solved.
You see relationships as battles to win or problems to fix, and this mindset often leads you into emotionally exhausting situations. You crave the thrill of the chase and the satisfaction of overcoming obstacles, but love shouldn’t feel like a conquest.
Find a partner who brings peace instead of chaos. Challenge yourself to seek out stability and emotional security, even if it doesn’t feel as thrilling at first. You’ll discover that true love isn’t about fighting to make it work—it’s about finding someone who makes life easier and more joyful.
12. December
Put simply, you are a magnet for troubled boys. If a nice guy stood in front of you and told you he loved you, you would choose that bad guy walking by, giving you the look meaning, “I want to have you,” and then move on.
That’s why you fall for the wrong men—because you are only attracted to the ones who are bad for you.
You’re naturally adventurous and drawn to excitement, which is why the bad boys hold such an appeal. They promise unpredictability, passion, and a sense of danger that keeps you hooked.
But more often than not, these relationships end in heartbreak, leaving you wondering why you didn’t choose the stable, caring guy who was right in front of you.
It’s not that you don’t want love—you just struggle to find it thrilling if it doesn’t come with a little chaos. But deep down, you know that excitement and stability can coexist; you just haven’t found the right balance yet.
In 2025, challenge yourself to break the pattern. Give the “nice guy” a chance—you might be surprised by how exciting a healthy, loving relationship can be. The universe is rooting for you to find someone who values you for the incredible person you are.