Hey there! If you’re reading this you probably reached a stage where you have no idea what to do anymore to gain his attention. No judgment, I can relate!
Let’s just say I’ve been through thick and thin on the dating scene and tried all the tricks out there. It’s been rough sometimes, not gonna lie, but hey, at least I learned a thing or two!
I mean I managed to get a guy who’s a 10 in every aspect possible and he wasn’t even that interested at the beginning. But if you could only see him right now around me, you’d realize I know what I’m talking about.
So no worries girl, you’re in the right hands! Let me tell you all about the 12 magical tricks I’ve learned.
1. Let him chase you, not the other way around
I was one of those girls who thought we were supposed to chase them. Yeah, I know, I was silly! It’s not only more enjoyable to let him chase you, but it’s also more effective!
Let this also be a little test you can use to see if he’s interested. So, just chill out. When you see him don’t show immediate excitement. Step by step and you’ll see that will make him crazy over you. Especially if you always showed more interest.
2. Keep him wanting more
If you reveal everything about yourself at the beginning, he’ll lose interest quickly. Leave something for later! This might not always be easy if you want him badly, but you gotta leave him hanging a bit.
Trust me, girl! Not too much, of course, just a tiny bit to keep him on his toes. Let him know what he’ll have if he puts in a little effort. Be easygoing and have fun with it!
3. Don’t sleep with him right away
Let this be your golden rule, for real! Jumping into his bed right away is a recipe for catastrophe in many different ways! It’s much easier for us women to get attached so be careful.
There is so much more than the physical aspect of the relationship. Get to know each other on different levels! I guarantee this will also build up the suspense and make everything more interesting later on when you decide to spice up things.
4. Be playful and tease him
This is the fun part, okay? So make sure to enjoy it to the maximum! Men love women who are playful and don’t take things too seriously.
Therefore, show him your fun side and make your every interaction more interesting. Joking around, laughing, and acting a bit unserious will always make the mood light. This is a simple and perfect way to keep a spark alive!
5. Embrace patience and enjoy the journey
This might be the most important part of your little secret plan here. Take all the time you need and give both of you enough space.
There’s no need to rush anything, he won’t run away! Try to enjoy every moment spent together and don’t overthink much about what will happen. If it’s meant to be, things will kinda happen on their own without the need to push for anything.
6. Don’t be all over him
Like I said, you gotta give him space. It will allow both of you to breathe and he’ll not feel suffocated.
If you already went out, chill out for the next few days, and do your own thing. Let him see you’re not obsessed and have your own life even without him. He won’t be able to miss you if you constantly text him and want to be with him.
7. Focus on your life and happiness
I realized that the moment I stopped chasing him and focused on my life, he came straight to me. Part of it was because no one is really interested in the one who’s breathing down their neck all the time.
I’m convinced people are programmed in a way to always want the things they can’t have. Another thing is, when you’re happy in your own skin and going after your goals, you’ll radiate a special energy that’ll naturally attract people, not only him!
8. Show him you’re confident
There’s something about confidence that can make everyone go a few levels up on the attractiveness scale! People look so much different when they’re confident versus insecure.
It’s not about your clothes, makeup, or hair; when you’re walking upright and carrying yourself with grace, that’s when you look the most attractive. It’s all about the energy you have within yourself.
9. Make him feel like a million dollars
Okay, now that we went over how you should feel, it’s time to make him feel good about himself as well. Men love having their egos boosted more than anything else. They won’t admit it though, but it’s so obvious!
A compliment here and there, saying he looks like he’s been working out can get you far away! He wants to feel special in your eyes so let him know he is but don’t go overboard and make him think he’s irreplaceable.
10. Don’t be impressed easily
Women sometimes fall for the bare minimum especially if he’s the first guy to give them a bit more attention. Don’t be a victim of that!
You need to make him earn your attention. You’re not just any girl, you’re special and deserve someone who’ll fight for you. Every man loves a good challenge, it’s what allows them to prove themselves and boost their confidence.
It’s all about keeping it fun and lighthearted and letting things unfold naturally. Once you implement these tricks, you’ll see a huge difference! Remember, make him chase you, not the other way around. You’ve got this!