Let’s be honest. When a man sees you for the first time, the first things he sees aren’t what’s inside of your heart or how good, funny and valuable you are.
He sees the way you look – at least most of the men do. To be honest, most of the women do, too.
That doesn’t mean the way you look defines everything. It’s maybe the first thing they see but not the most important thing.
You have to be pleased with yourself from within to look good on the outside.
These are the traits that define your beauty and that will outrun the physical attraction any time:
Down to earth.
She is just a normal, ordinary girl, which is extraordinary in every way.
She hates people pretending to be something that they are not, the ones who look down on other people for no reason.
She is easy to approach and to talk to.
Confident.
Confidence is sexy. Nothing is sexier than a woman who knows who is aware of her self-worth.
She knows who she is and what she deserves and she is not settling for anything less.
She has standards you have to fulfill.
A good listener.
It doesn’t matter if you are in the middle of a serious conversation or just telling stories about your life or your plans for the future – she will listen carefully.
He will feel like the most interesting man on earth, a good storyteller, and he will know he found his confidant.
Kindhearted.
It’s not just that she is kind to you, she is kind to everybody in her surroundings. She will let granny on the bus have her seat.
She will share her smile with a cashier. She will be kind to a waiter.
The real personality is seen in how she treats people around her.
Spontaneous.
She is not afraid of you not having plans for New Year three months in advance, as she knows you’ll have a good time even if it’s just the two of you on the main square listening to the concert and hugging to keep warm, or staying in.
Everything is good with her.
Radiates positivity.
She is just naturally happy. She wears a smile on her face that can scare away the clouds.
Naturally, she will be sad, depressed or a bit down at times, but she never loses her positive mindset.
Accomplished.
She is driven, motivated and hardworking. She has her own dreams and she is working on them step by step.
She makes you feel lucky to be able to be a part of her busy life.
Strong.
He appreciates knowing that he can rely on her, too.
That she will be there for him when things go wrong, she’ll support him.
She doesn’t mind being taken care of.
Even though she is more than capable of taking care of herself, she knows just when to let a man be a man.
She doesn’t act helpless but she doesn’t hesitate to ask for help when she needs it.
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Passionate.
Not just sexual passion, even though that’s important too.
Passion here stands for her passion for life, the willpower and intensity she does everything with.
That’s sexy to a whole different level.
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