11. He flirts with other girls

sad woman laying in bed with man

Even if your player had the decency to label your relationship, he is still not faithful to you.

So, you never caught him in action, but you know very well that you’re not the only girl he talks to.

However, being faithful is much more than not having sex with other women and much more than not engaging in physical contact.

This guy has so many female friends, and the even worse thing is that he remained friends with most of his exes, and you can’t be certain whether he is still spending time with some of them.

He refuses to uninstall his dating apps or to unfollow a bunch of girls on Snapchat and other social media.

You see him checking out other girls and making eye contact with them, even in front of you. The worst part is that he doesn’t see anything wrong with his behavior.

Even when you flat-out call him on his actions, he tries to convince you that he is just playing around and that you’re making a fuss out of nothing.

According to dating coaches, his need to flirt is simply in his blood and something he’ll never give up on, no matter how much you try.

He’ll never respect you enough to make you his one and only, and that is something you shouldn’t put up with.

A disclaimer: you can continue dating this guy but whether you like it or not, with time, you’ll catch yourself wondering why you can’t be enough for him, and he’ll manage to convince you that somehow, his mistreatment is actually your fault.

You’ll be comparing yourself with all those other girls in his life, and your self-esteem will be completely ruined.

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