All the women around the world would love to be perfect but sometimes a woman does things that kill a man’s attraction to her and yet she is not aware of it.
If you think that you don’t have any luck in love or that your relationships end before they start, take a moment and think about if you are doing something that would make men pull away in the early stages.
Here are the biggest mistakes you could do, without even knowing that you are doing them.
You want it all and you want it now
Sometimes you think that you have spent too much time alone and you want to settle down with someone as soon as you get to know him.
But believe it or not, guys don’t think that way. They actually need some time to get to know you better, to learn everything about you and only then, in case they love you enough to settle down with you, are they willing to do that.
So, take it slow. If it is written in the stars that you will be together, you probably will be. Don’t push things because it can get even worse.
You think a man will complete you
Hey baby girl, you don’t need a man to complete you! You are already complete. You just need the one who will accept you completely.
And please don’t forget that. If you rely on him to be happy, you will never achieve that.
You should only take care that you feel good in your own skin and that you are satisfied with your life. Only then will you find true happiness and satisfaction.
You are extremely eager to have a family
Love is all about phases. You can’t just start one phase and assume that everything will always be okay because it won’t. First things go first.
You need to develop love and trust for a man. After that, the two of you should go through some things together to see if you are really compatible.
And only after you go through all this, can you start thinking about having a family with him. Only when you sort things out in your life will it finally make sense.
You don’t show your emotions
If you don’t show your true emotions, a guy will never know what you are thinking about or how you truly feel.
I am not saying that you should reveal all your hopes and desires to him, but show him as much as he needs to stay with you.
No man likes to have a woman next to him who is cold. That will make him stop loving you and it will definitely kill his attraction to you.
You push him to do things he doesn’t want to do
If you chase your man all the time, he will soon be sick and tired of you.
You see, guys are like sand; if you put them in your palm and squeeze too much, they will get away and if you don’t hold onto them tightly, you will also lose them.
So the best thing to do is to give your man the freedom that he needs and let him decide about his feelings for you.
If you two are not destined to be together, there is nothing you can do about that.
You are too clingy and insecure
Let’s face it ladies, we also don’t like it when a guy is needy and insecure, so why would they like us when we behave like that?
Having your partner close so he can support you is okay but not giving him enough freedom and time to do the things that he wants is another thing.
You see every guy likes his freedom so much, so make sure that you don’t take that away from him.
If you do so, you will end up with a miserable guy who will just be waiting for the moment that you leave the house so he can actually have some fun.