Each relationship has its own ups and downs and after a while if you feel stuck and as if the passion is blocked, it does not mean that you need to give up. Quite the opposite—then is the right moment to work on your relationship and try some new things.
1. More frequent touching
Physical contact is a very important factor in establishing closeness. But its importance is neglected. Touching more than usual can certainly help create a new spark in your relationship. Sometimes the subtle signs of attachment are sufficient and can make a difference. Holding their hand or a kiss on the cheek means a lot.
2. Planning common time
Do not think that romance originates from itself. As with most things in life, effort and work should be invested in your relationship. In this case, it is time to dedicate time to your partner. Because of your family, friends and work responsibilities, you often forget about romance but its importance is great for maintaining a healthy relationship. So plan a few times a month that will only be for you and your partner, such as going to a bar, to a concert, or even having dinner together.
3. More intimacy, less sex
This can sound contrary to what you want but it is actually a great way to restart the intimacy in your relationship. Be as intimate as you can and indulge yourself in sensual, passionate activities but do not have sex. Tackling the tension and avoiding sex will create a special kind of anticipation. Do you remember when you met and experienced this sexual tension but you also knew that it was too early on to react to this? Well, that’s exactly what you want to feel again to get the fire burning.
4. Romantic travel
There is no need to explain the power of traveling and having a common holiday. Holidaying only for you will surely help strengthen your relationship and to revive your passion. It does not matter whether it is an exotic dream destination or a weekend trip but it is important to get away from everyday life and enjoy common company.
5. Give each other compliments
To help make the romance survive, it’s important to give your partner compliments and tell them what things you like and love about them. Whether it is their sense of humor or calming nature, tell your partner why you love them so much.
6. Take care of your physical appearance
You may think that your physical appearance does not have anything to do with your sexual life but you could not be more wrong. Your physical readiness can greatly influence not only your ability to have good sex but also your desire to have sex at all. Bringing yourself into a state of good physical fitness can help you improve your libido and make things much hotter in the bedroom. And if you start getting ‘in line’, along with your guy, things will be even faster and will be even hotter, so this is really worth the effort.
7. Learn about each other
No matter how old you are or how long you have been together, you can always learn more. You may think you know everything about your partner but people are constantly changing. Listen carefully and keep learning about each other, so your relationship will always be interesting and you may be surprised by some additional discoveries. This will allow you to connect again, even at a deeper level.
8. Play sexy games
Playing sex games is another very effective way to revive the passion in your relationship. They are also incredibly entertaining, so they will connect you again to your partner in more than one way. Are you ready to start playing? You can play sexy social games, role-playing games (they can be amazingly sexy), play out some of your favorite fantasies or simply play with each other. A sexual massage and everything else you set up will help you restore your passion in the shortest time.
9. Send him a naughty message
Expectation is key to good sexual intercourse and waiting for a sexual encounter to happen is something that should help you get in the right mood. A naughty message is a great way to get there, so you definitely should try to send one as soon as possible. You can send a sexy message, erotic letter or explicit photo, whatever is easiest and whatever your loved one likes more.