5. “Are my things still at your place?”

young woman holding mobile phone and coffee cup

After you broke up, he wants to reclaim some of his things. Usually, those are nothing important—things he can replace or live without.

That’s why it’s important for you to know that he is only making excuses to see you again.

He hopes, deep down, that you may change your mind about the breakup, and he wants to do something about it.

You’ll trash your place trying to find anything that connects him with you because if you broke up, you want to move on as soon as possible.

If he contacts you again asking for something else of his, then you’ll definitely know that he is only making excuses to contact you once again. He misses you , and he wants you back.

Similar Posts

  • 4. Freedom

    This is not just something we want, it’s something we truly need. We need that alone time and it doesn’t mean that we don’t love you or that we got bored of you. It just means that we need it in order to get ourself together, to shut down and then get back on the saddle. Once…

  • 6. You have severe trust issues

    If your mother had manipulative tendencies, chances are you’ll develop trust issues toward other family members, your best friends, partners, and other people in your life. You’ll have difficulty opening up to other people because your first thought is that they’ll hurt you one way or another. Your toxic relationship with your mother is a prototype of…

  • 9. If you play games.

    Manipulation is unhealthy. Sometimes you have to accept that not everything can go your way and the way you like it. So, if you’re playing games and using manipulation to make him do stuff, he’ll get sick of it because it’s disrespectful and it hurts. You have to take his feelings into consideration and work…

  • 6. The kids

    This is probably the most common reason cheaters stay married. They don’t want to hurt their kids, or they’re afraid that they may lose custody in the divorce. It’s very sad that most married couples don’t understand that, this way, they may only hurt their children even more. Their kids will have to listen to their…