There’s a big misconception about how good women are the happiest and have an easy time finding partners.
That’s simply not always true. In fact, I’ve met so many great women who were single for years.
It made me wonder what that’s about.
I came to the conclusion that when you have it all – good looks, a good personality, and a good heart – it’s just too much for most people.
However, that’s not your problem. The problem is how people perceive you.
These are just some of the reasons you have a hard time finding the one:
You’re terrifying to many men
I know it sounds weird, but listen. If you exude confidence and have everything a man could ask for, many men feel they aren’t good enough to approach you.
They probably think they don’t have a chance.
However cocky some men behave, deep down they’re scared women will reject them.
Honestly, many men have ego problems (read: their egos are very sensitive) for various reasons, and that’s why being rejected by a beautiful woman is so terrifying to them.
They don’t want to take the risk.
On the other hand, when some do decide to approach you, it means they had the guts to do it, which is a huge plus.
Men think you already have a boyfriend
You can’t blame them.
As I already mentioned, many men have a misconception that good looks and personality mean no problems in your love life. How wrong!
Instead of making the move they give up before even trying. In some ways, it’s a compliment, but it’s not great, either.
You’re an independent woman and it shows
The reality is – some women are just happy on their own. They’re not looking for someone to complete them, they’re not dependent on anyone.
Other people, including men, can pick up on that attitude towards life.
However, that same attitude can give the impression you simply don’t need anyone in your life and that’s what eventually leads others to conclude you’re not searching for a partner.
As long as you feel comfortable in your own skin, there’s no problem. On the other hand, if you still want somebody by your side – let them know.
You’re too introverted
Some women are shyer than others. Maybe you fall into that category.
If you’re not putting yourself out there, there’s no way you’ll meet somebody. Instead of quietly sitting at the party, try to step outside of your comfort zone.
It can be stressful at first but very beneficial in the long run.
You don’t have to wait for somebody to make the move, you can do it yourself.
Trust me, men love that.
You love to live your life at full speed
If you’re an adventurous person with tons of plans and goals – congrats because that’s awesome!
The only problem is not everyone can keep up with your pace.
Your life is packed with action and constantly moving from one thing to another. That doesn’t leave too much space for romance.
You probably sometimes wish you had someone by your side, but then again you know that someone would distract you from your goals.
That’s why it’s important to have priorities.
It is possible to have both, though. You just need someone as ambitious as you.
You’re subconsciously scared of love
Not every issue is caused by external things. Some people have difficult inner things they deal with.
You could be the greatest woman in the world, but if you don’t heal yourself from something that’s caused you pain in the past it’s hard to move on.
It’s also possible you’re not doing it consciously but your mind is self-sabotaging.
This is why you need to focus on yourself first.
When you’re fully healed love will find you because you’ll be ready for it.
All in all, relationships are not so simple.
There are so many factors that decide if someone’s ready for a relationship or not.
It’s important to know your self-worth and be open to new experiences.
Don’t be scared to try something – even if you fail it will be a valuable experience that will teach you a lot.
There’s no success without trial and error.
Most importantly, don’t be hard on yourself. Love is around the corner, you just need to have a little faith.