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Why Are Men SO Obsessed With Big Boobs And Big Butts?

Why Are Men SO Obsessed With Big Boobs And Big Butts?

Boobs or butt? Personality or physical appearance? Long hair or short hair?

If we look closer, there are so many comparisons and tough choices (especially regarding females). It’s really hard to be a woman in today’s world, I know.

Still, one thing remains constant: Men have always been obsessed with big boobs and big butts.

I remember when I was in high school, and it was obvious to everyone that girls with large boobs and big butts received more attention than the rest of the girls who weren’t as “lucky” to be gifted with these two male obsessions.

As a matter of fact, this doesn’t only happen in high school but everywhere around us. If you turn on the

TV, you’ll notice that girls with big boobs and butts get more attention in the movies, as singers, or as celebrities in general.

If you scroll through social media, you’ll notice that this type of girl gets ten times more likes, followers, and whatnot.

All this favoritism of specific female body types can make us flat girls feel neglected or in the shadow of curvy ones.

BUT (there’s always a but[t]), I’ve discovered comforting solutions for this problem too:

First of all, I would be lying if I said that I hate seeing a girl with big boobs or big butts. As a female, I am impressed with body types like this, and they don’t make me feel jealous at all (well, not anymore). Here’s why:

Since I’ve become a regular at the gym, I’ve noticed that my butt has visibly enlarged from all those squats, donkey kicks, Bulgarian split squats, side lunges, you name it. My enlarged and defined booty finally compensates for the curse of my flat chest. (This was my subtle attempt to motivate all of you to hit the gym as well.)

Also, I used to wear push-up bras, but now I don’t give a damn about it because I’m proud of my body the way it is, and you should be too.

As a person who spent half of my life feeling confused and wondering about why men are crazy about those two female body parts, I feel happy finally knowing the truth.

Now that I understand why, it makes total sense to me!

This is why guys fall for (and stare at) girls with big boobs.

woman in lingerie sitting indoor

So, when I asked one of my friends (male, of course) why he can’t stop staring at girls with big boobs (it was really embarrassing, people), he told me this: They are nice to look at!

Seriously, guys? Your butt and biceps (when defined) are also nice to look at, but still, I don’t spend as half as much time staring at them as you do. I bet all the girls out there agree with me on this one.

His answer motivated me to dig deeper into this matter, and here’s what I found out: The main reason why guys can’t help themselves but stare at boobs (and especially big boobs) is that they are subconsciously drawn to them. Why?

Because big boobs are a symbol of fertility and an indication of health.

Let me explain this to you in a more familiar language: When a guy sees a girl with big boobs, his brain immediately tells him, “Hey, this woman is fertile, healthy, and she can give you offspring. You should court her.”

Reproduction is a subconscious reason why men are drawn to women with big boobs.

When they see such a woman, their body instantly signals them and reminds them of their biological need to reproduce.

Besides that, here are some more reasons why guys fall for girls with big boobs:

  • They are nice to touch
  • They are fun to play with
  • They are a strong turn on

The list goes on and on, and everything stems from their subconscious biological need for reproduction. Doesn’t all this sound beautifully complex? Sure it does.

Now, listen, guys, carefully (I mean read).

As a representative of the female species in this article, it’s my holy duty to warn male specimens that boobs are not the only part of the female body you can play with!

Just because they look good (and are big) doesn’t mean that the rest of our body parts should be neglected.

I sweat my ass off at the gym to shape those legs and keep them toned, and you dare to only praise my boobs? (No, I don’t have big boobs, but this was only for illustrative purposes.)

And, for the love of God, stop thinking that if a woman touches her boobs, she’s aroused and giving you a signal that you should jump into her pants.

Keep in mind that 90% of the time, when a woman touches her boobs, she’s actually adjusting her annoying bra.

One more thing: Get used to other men staring at her!

I love this boomerang effect (if we can call it that) where a guy stares at almost every girl’s boobs and then gets offended when other guys stare at his girl’s boobs.

Boy, this sentence looks complicated, but it totally rings true!

Now that we made all that clear, we can switch to the next male obsession, BIG BUTTS.

This is why guys fall for (and stare at) girls with big butts.

woman in white swimsuit standing near sea

When someone mentions Kim Kardashian or Nicki Minaj, the first thing that comes to my mind is their BIG bootie.

Their big butts have literally become their trademarks, and I bet that every single guy out there drools when he sees them dancing with their ‘seductive behinds.’ (I found a stylish way of accentuating this female body part.)

Now, the question is why this is so. Believe it or not, the answer is similar to the question regarding big boobs. Apparently, girls with big butts are healthier, more fertile, and smarter.

Again, this is connected with men’s subconscious desire to reproduce. Usually, women with big butts have wider hips, making it easier for them to give birth.

Women with big butts have higher IQ levels and, therefore, they produce smarter children as well.

Another important reason why guys fall for girls with big butts is that they are a sign of superior intuition.

Now, who wouldn’t want to be with a woman who has great social skills, emotional intelligence, and great intuition?

These things signal to men that a girl with a big butt is a perfect partner and a potential mother.

Besides these legit hypotheses, here are some more reasons why girls with big butts are every guy’s dream:

  • They are nice to look at
  • They are a sign of being in good shape
  • They are perfect pillows
  • They are ideal for cuddle sessions

I would like to refer to the second item on the bullet list. Big butts are a sign of being in good shape because a perky, big, and round booty screams SQUATS, more squats, and sweating your ass off at the gym.

Of course, some women have been blessed with naturally big booties, but the majority of us invest so much time in exercising and maintaining its perkiness and roundness.

And I can tell you one thing: This is not an easy job AT ALL.

Maintaining a nice big butt is like having a second job, people!

If you skip exercising a few days in a week (or in a month), your gluteus (butt muscles) turn into pudding. It’s so frustrating and challenging as well.

All this leads us to another reason why men praise women with big butts: effort, hard work, and dedication.

They know that you can’t buy nice booties in the store, but you have to make an effort and sweat A LOT to start seeing some results and receive plenty of compliments for your nice firm butt.

Now, who wouldn’t be attracted to a woman who is dedicated, ambitious, and hard-working? Exactly.

“Look at me. I’m skinny, I have a big nose, no tits, and no ass, but in a room full of beautiful women, I would still leave with the most gorgeous guy.” – Zoe Saldana

happy woman with curly hair standing near wall

Do you know why? Because she has something that can’t be measured with either big boobs or a big butt.

It is SELF CONFIDENCE. You could have the largest butt in the whole world, but if your vibes aren’t positive and you lack confidence, most (quality) guys won’t find you attractive.

So, if you’re a woman with a big butt and boobs, good for you.

If you’re not, there’s nothing you should worry about because your personality and confidence will always be more important than your looks to a real man.

Zoe Saldana (the author of the above quote) certainly knows that.

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