I’m sure you’ve known some girls who knock all men off their feet.
No, these girls weren’t the best looking, smartest of the crowd or the nicest.
In fact, they were surrounded by prettier, more intelligent, or objectively more interesting women.
However, somehow, they always managed to get all the guys’ attention just for themselves, without lifting a finger.
After analyzing it for a while, you figured it out. They had something called the X factor – something that draws everyone to them.
So how exactly can you boost this likability factor? What are the things you can do to make all men go crazy over you?
Change your approach
The number one problem with girls that usually chase men away is their uptightness.
They’re so obsessed with the impression they’re making that they end up blowing it.
Most girls are overly worried about what others might think of them. They are careful about their reputation and the image they leave.
Even though this is not a necessarily bad thing, it makes guys think of them as unapproachable.
A man could have an awesome pick-up line, but as soon as he sees a girl with her nose up in the clouds, he’ll immediately assume that she’ll turn him down.
So, he’ll spare himself the potential embarrassment and won’t even make the first step.
Another mistake is their nervousness. Girls are so nervous when they’re looking for a date that they end up ruining the impression they leave.
That’s why my first piece of advice would be to relax as much as possible.
Of course, you’re in public and you should watch your manners, but try to be as easy-going as you can if you want to attract men.
Don’t blend in
The next thing you should do if you want to boost your likability factor is to be unique and authentic.
Sadly, in today’s world, it seems that almost every girl out there blindly follows the same trends.
So, we’ve ended up with a bunch of clones. And I’m not talking about appearance here only.
I’m talking about the way they behave, laugh, the things they like doing, the music they listen to, and everything else.
Well, it’s your job not to blend in. No, I’m not saying that you should be making a fool out of yourself just to be noticeable to men.
I’m just asking you not to change yourself in order to fit in some imaginary standards.
Instead, stay true to the woman you actually are. Trust me: Guys appreciate that much more.
Work on your body language
Even though men are the ones who traditionally make the first step, a guy will rarely approach you before he gets some sign from you.
They appear to be courageous, but believe me when I tell you that they are insecure when it comes to talking with a girl they like.
Therefore, most men will wait for some feedback before asking your number or hitting on you.
That’s why you have to improve your flirting skills.
The number one thing here is your body language.
Learn how to tease men with prolonged eye contact or by touching them accidentally.
Bite your lip when you’re talking to the guy you like and stand as near to him as possible.
Don’t be too over-the-top, but use these signals to your advantage.
Fall in love with yourself and he will fall for you too
This is not an empty phrase, so hear me out: Confidence is key.
You can be the most attractive girl in the world with an incredible sense of humor and amazing people skills, but if you don’t have faith in yourself, nobody will see it.
Don’t let your insecurities get the best of you because if you do, it will be the first thing all men see as well.
Instead, act like you’re the best and the only option this guy has.
I don’t mean that you should be egocentric or humiliate other girls to appear better than them.
Confidence is about loving yourself before expecting others to love you.
Whenever you walk into a room, act like you own it. Believe in your own worth and others will follow suit.
Most importantly, never forget to respect yourself. Never beg for someone’s love and attention.
Turn the situation around – make them beg you!
