You’re tired. Tired of so many lies, ridiculous excuses, and broken promises. You’re sick of having your heart broken so many times, that you even stopped counting.
You want to be able to believe in love again. You want to be able to enjoy life again. You want to fall in love with life again.
You need to find a purpose in your life again. You want to believe that there are still good people in the world. You need to heal.
I know that it seems impossible right now, and you feel that you’ll never be able to completely heal your broken soul and heart, but you will. Trust me, you will.
Take a deep breath. Relax. You’ve got this. You’re stronger than you think. You’re stronger than all those people who’ve been trying to hurt you.
Don’t worry about your past relationship or your love life. You are already in the most beautiful and important relationship of all. You are in a relationship with yourself.
All other relationships in your life are less important. This is the one that dictates your life. The one that will help you heal your broken soul.
That’s why you need to nurture self-love the most.
Don’t take advice from other people. We are all different and our healing process is also different. You only have to listen to your soul.
What? You didn’t know that you can heal your soul? Of course you can. It whispers to you all the time, you just have to listen carefully. That’s the only way you can find your peace.
Right now, it’s whispering that some things need to change in your life. That you have to let go of things that are only holding you back.
Some things aren’t meant for you and you have to accept it.
Take some time alone. You need to think about your life and the people in it. You need to rethink whether some of them even deserve to be a part of your life.
Think about your job. Does it make you happy, or do you spend your lunch hour in your office crying alone? Is it worth making you sad every day?
Think about things that make you happy. About people who honestly care for you. About your family. About your future. About all the places you want to visit.
Think of all things worth fighting for in your life – and trust me, there are so many of them. There are still so many people who honestly love you and are rooting for you. Don’t dare give up because of them.
One thing is for sure: There is no right or wrong way in a healing process. Do whatever you think is going to help you.
Surround yourself with people who love you, or if you prefer, you can deal with it all by yourself.
Cry as much as you need. It may feel like you’re on an emotional roller coaster, but your emotions are there to express how you feel, so don’t be ashamed to let your feelings out.
If you suppress your emotions, it will become impossible for you to heal. The pain is there and it is real, no matter how much you try to suppress it.
Of course, you shouldn’t let your emotions control you, but you have to get it all off your chest.
I know that you’re going through a difficult period, but you must know that it’s just your temporary state. It’ll pass. Time is on your side. Time will help you heal.
Maybe you’re right. Maybe you won’t be able to heal completely, but that doesn’t have to be a bad thing.
You’ll be more careful who you give your heart to. It will protect you from getting your heart broken to this extent again.
Even after you heal, you might feel a big emotional void, but don’t worry. One day someone will come and he’ll fill that emptiness in your heart.
That will be the last stage in healing your broken soul. Just wait.
