10 cosas que te hacen realmente poco atractivo

Let’s face it. We live in times in which physical appearance has overshadowed everything else and become the main focus of our attention when we want to impress someone.

Mucha gente cree que ser atractivo significa tener un cuerpo perfectoel pelo perfecto, las uñas perfectas y, por supuesto, el atuendo perfecto.

Pero esto no es cierto en absoluto. Incluso la chica o el chico más guapo de la sala, con un cuerpo y un atuendo perfectos, puede parecer muy poco atractivo si su actitud y su personalidad son repulsivas.

Speaking of that, I remember going on a date with a guy who looked really hot (black hair, handsome, blue/green eyes that can easily distract you, and well-dressed) but the moment I heard him complaining to the waitress that he’d been waiting too long for his order (and we hadn’t even waited for a minute), I immediately realized that his exterior certainly didn’t match his interior (and on top of that he was also full of himself).

Aunque por fuera parecía atractivo, su actitud y su personalidad eran tan repulsivas que tuve que inventarme una excusa para marcharme.

I told him that I’d just realized I had left my oven on and I was in a real hurry to go home and turn it off.

Éste es sólo un ejemplo, pero la verdad es que hay montones de otras cosas que pueden hacernos parecer realmente poco atractivos, independientemente de nuestro exterior perfecto.

To make sure that you don’t fall into such behavior, here is the list of things making you really unattractive!

10 COSAS QUE TE HACEN REALMENTE POCO ATRACTIVO

1. You don’t connect with people

¿Sonríes a los demás cuando les saludas o les miras a los ojos cuando hablas con ellos?

If you’re only interested in exchanging information without exhibiting human traits and asking them how they are doing, then you’re not connecting with people which is really repulsive and a little bit annoying.

2. You don’t express gratitude

Cuando alguien te hace un regalo o cuando una camarera te trae el pedido, nunca expresas tu gratitud simplemente diciendo: “Thank you!”

Also, when someone goes out of their way to help you, you don’t express your amazement by showing them that you apreciar sus gestos.

If all of this sounds familiar to you, then you should definitely work on it because you don’t want other people to see you as selfish or spoiled and feel insulted by your unwillingness to show gratitude.

3. You’re jealous

Los celos son un verdadero grano en el culo y el destructor seguro de las relaciones, el matrimonio, y lo que no.

If you’re constantly exhibiting signs of jealousy by deliberately downplaying other people’s importance and looking for their flaws, others will think of you as an immature person who lacks confidence and self-respect.

4. You’re inserting yourself into other people’s personal lives uninvited

¿Siente constantemente el impulso de aconsejar a los demás y ofrecer su ayuda en asuntos importantes?

Even though your intentions are let’s say positive, inserting yourself into other people’s personal lives uninvited is nothing but being intrusive.

If others didn’t ask you for advice, do not offer them any. Otherwise, they will seriously think of reminding you to mind your own business.

5. Despreciar a los que te sirven

Apreciar a los que están en posiciones más altas y menospreciar a los que están en posiciones más bajas son rasgos muy poco atractivos.

Tratar a todo el mundo con la misma compasión y gratitud demuestra que tienes modales, y no hay nada más atractivo que eso. Sean cuales sean las circunstancias, recuérdalo siempre.

6. Pretending to be something you’re not

Pretending to be something you’re not means deliberately ignoring your own qualities and traits only to give other people a false picture of yourself.

This includes copying other people’s outfits, hair, behavior, etc.

Si quieres ser realmente atractivo para los demásEntonces tendrás que mostrarles quién eres realmente, porque la autenticidad es mucho más poderosa que la falsedad.

7. Hablar demasiado de uno mismo

If you talk too much about yourself, it means you’re not interested in what others have to say but only in what you have to say to others about yourself.

Being full of yourself is really an  unattractive quality, and it makes other people think there’s no point in wasting their time with someone who is only interested in themselves.

8. Cotillear

Gossiping is another form of sticking one’s nose where it doesn’t belong.

Si el tema principal de cada conversación es cotillear sobre otras personas, entonces definitivamente tienes un problema y la gente dejará de confiar en ti.

If they see that you always have something to say about others, they will know that you’ll do the same thing to them.

Si quieres parecer realmente atractivo, ampliar tus temas y ocuparte de tus propios asuntos es un buen comienzo.

9. You don’t believe you’re attractive

Not believing that you’re attractive will make you unattractive because thinking only negatively about yourself means you lack confidence.

Si tiene dificultades mirar a los ojos a los demás and if you’re constantly anxious about your appearance, other people will see you as insecure.

Definitivamente no te verán atractiva a pesar de tu atuendo o peinado perfectos.

10. Engañar la conversación

Do you have this tendency to constantly tell others that you’ve experienced worse things and that their problems are nothing because you’re always the one who has or had it worse?

One-upping the conversation means downplaying other people’s problems and making yourself look selfish and self-centered.

Pero si les escuchas con atención y comprendes sus problemas, parecerás cálido y atractivo.