10 pensamientos que un narcisista mantiene ocultos antes de revelar su verdadero yo
“What’s the best way for me to get attention?”
Un narcisista siempre está al acecho y siempre necesita atención.
If he isn’t getting it with his current victim, he’s on the lookout for the next one.
He needs attention for his “emotional supply” and “narcissistic supply.”
Su ego nunca está plenamente reforzado, por lo que nunca descansan.
Y este es un pensamiento que siempre mantienen oculto delante de sus víctimasaunque es precisamente lo que les lleva a actuar como lo hacen.
Attention is their number one ego-enhancer, so it’s no shock that they’re forever contemplating it.
“I don’t give a shit”
In case you didn’t already know, a narcissist just doesn’t care.
He doesn’t care about his actions, he doesn’t care about what he’s doing to you, and he certainly doesn’t care how it makes you feel.
He is not capable of empathizing and he doesn’t give a damn about a single person out there.
As he’s watching you go through your daily motions and pretending to care, all he actually thinks about is how he just couldn’t possibly care less and can’t wait for you to leave so he can stop pretending to me importa un bledo.
“I’m always right”
No importa lo equivocado que esté, en su mente siempre tiene la razón.
He can do so much shit to you and you can be suffering due to his actions, and he’ll still think he was right to do that and you’re merely overreacting.
Para él, sólo existe su camino y el camino equivocado.
You can try to convince him otherwise all you want, but we both know it’ll be with zero success.
Your narcissist is “Mr Always Right.”
Y ese es su hábito más tortuoso para quienes tienen que soportarlo.
“Deep down, I have no self-confidence”
A narcissist can pretend to be the most self-assured man you’ve ever encountered.
He’ll make you believe it as well.
Pero en el fondo, no tiene confianza en sí mismo.
Se cree que los narcisistas han aprendido a recablear su cerebro como mecanismo de supervivencia.
So they can exhibit behavior that presents them as the most powerful man you’ll ever see, but in reality, he’s just overcompensating for his many insecurities that are secretly plaguing him.
The strangest thing is, he convinces himself of this as well, so you’re not the only one he’s fooling!
“I’m entitled to everything I want”
Un narcisista es realmente como un niño de cinco años cuando se trata de algo que quiere.
It doesn’t matter that he can’t have it or how hard it is to obtain it. In his mind, he is fully entitled to everything that he wants.
Un narcisista tiene un concepto nulo del mérito, lo que le hace creerse superior a todos y, por tanto, con derecho a todo.
And he won’t hear no for an answer.
Será como tratar con un niño inmaduro que resulta ser manipulador y algo malvado.
“How dare you defy me?”
Cuando se enfrenta a un narcisista, su verdadero yo está muy cerca de salir a la luz.
On the outside, he’ll seem as this cool, collected man, but when he’s criticized, all he can think about is how anyone dares defy something he said.
He is very insecure (which is something he’ll never show), so he can’t fathom the concept of being confronted.
Lo que dice se hace. No hay otra opción.
Necesita salirse siempre con la suya.
If you confront, doubt, or criticize him, you’re taking away his power.
“What an idiot!”
Es bien sabido que los narcisistas se creen más listos que nadie.
They’ve deluded themselves into truly believing this, so they look down on everyone around them.
You can be saying something that is completely factual, but if he disagrees, he is going to deem you an idiot in his mind (perhaps even out loud if he’s feeling ballsy).
“I’m in desperate need of something”
Necesitan validación, poder, dinero y sexo.
Siempre buscan la víctima más fácil que les proporcione todo eso.
Often, they don’t get every single thing from just one person, so they keep looking for more sources.
Para ellos, las personas son egoístas.
Si se siente bajo de poder, va a encontrar a alguien débil para cambiar eso.
If he needs sex, he’s going seduce the next naïve girl he stumbles upon.
Sus necesidades son interminables y su búsqueda también.
“You’ve just made an enemy”
Un narcisista es un tipo de persona pasivo-agresiva.
He won’t go off on you when he’s mad, but he’ll secretly plan his revenge.
Unless he is extremely distressed and you happen to be nearby, that may change, but in any other situation, he’s quietly plotting his payback.
“I need to find the next victim”
When the one he’s using at the moment stops being of use to him, he immediately thinks about his next step.
¿Dónde buscará el próximo?
¿Cómo va a hacer que caer por ¿Él?
Le lleva tiempo organizar sus tácticas, por lo que siempre piensa con antelación.
He may seem like he’s happy with what you’re giving him (or better yet: what he’s taking from you), but he’s already started planning his next quest.
