10 pensieri che un narcisista tiene nascosti prima di rivelare il suo vero io
“What’s the best way for me to get attention?”
Un narcisista è sempre a caccia e sempre bisognoso di attenzioni.
If he isn’t getting it with his current victim, he’s on the lookout for the next one.
He needs attention for his “emotional supply” and “narcissistic supply.”
Il loro ego non è mai completamente rafforzato, quindi non si riposano mai.
E questo è un pensiero che tengono sempre nascosto di fronte a le loro vittimeanche se è proprio questo che li spinge ad agire nel modo in cui agiscono.
Attention is their number one ego-enhancer, so it’s no shock that they’re forever contemplating it.
“I don’t give a shit”
In case you didn’t already know, a narcissist just doesn’t care.
He doesn’t care about his actions, he doesn’t care about what he’s doing to you, and he certainly doesn’t care how it makes you feel.
He is not capable of empathizing and he doesn’t give a damn about a single person out there.
As he’s watching you go through your daily motions and pretending to care, all he actually thinks about is how he just couldn’t possibly care less and can’t wait for you to leave so he can stop pretending to fregarsene.
“I’m always right”
Non importa quanto si sbagli, nella sua mente ha sempre ragione.
He can do so much shit to you and you can be suffering due to his actions, and he’ll still think he was right to do that and you’re merely overreacting.
Per lui esiste solo la sua strada e quella sbagliata.
You can try to convince him otherwise all you want, but we both know it’ll be with zero success.
Your narcissist is “Mr Always Right.”
E questa è la loro abitudine più tormentosa per coloro che devono sopportarla.
“Deep down, I have no self-confidence”
A narcissist can pretend to be the most self-assured man you’ve ever encountered.
He’ll make you believe it as well.
Ma in fondo non ha fiducia in se stesso.
Si ritiene che i narcisisti abbiano imparato a ricablare il proprio cervello come meccanismo di coping.
So they can exhibit behavior that presents them as the most powerful man you’ll ever see, but in reality, he’s just overcompensating for his many insecurities that are secretly plaguing him.
The strangest thing is, he convinces himself of this as well, so you’re not the only one he’s fooling!
“I’m entitled to everything I want”
Un narcisista è davvero come un bambino di cinque anni quando vuole qualcosa.
It doesn’t matter that he can’t have it or how hard it is to obtain it. In his mind, he is fully entitled to everything that he wants.
Un narcisista ha un concetto di merito pari a zero, che lo porta a ritenersi superiore a tutti e quindi ad avere diritto a tutto.
And he won’t hear no for an answer.
Sarà come avere a che fare con un bambino immaturo che si dà il caso sia manipolatore e un po' malvagio.
“How dare you defy me?”
Quando un narcisista viene affrontato, il suo vero io è molto vicino a venire fuori.
On the outside, he’ll seem as this cool, collected man, but when he’s criticized, all he can think about is how anyone dares defy something he said.
He is very insecure (which is something he’ll never show), so he can’t fathom the concept of being confronted.
Quello che dice va bene. Non c'è altra scelta.
Ha bisogno di fare sempre a modo suo.
If you confront, doubt, or criticize him, you’re taking away his power.
“What an idiot!”
È risaputo che i narcisisti pensano di essere più intelligenti di chiunque altro.
They’ve deluded themselves into truly believing this, so they look down on everyone around them.
You can be saying something that is completely factual, but if he disagrees, he is going to deem you an idiot in his mind (perhaps even out loud if he’s feeling ballsy).
“I’m in desperate need of something”
Hanno bisogno di conferme, potere, denaro e sesso.
Cercano sempre la vittima più facile che fornisca loro tutto questo.
Often, they don’t get every single thing from just one person, so they keep looking for more sources.
Per loro, le persone sono un'esaltazione dell'ego.
Se si sente poco potente, troverà qualcuno di debole per cambiare le cose.
If he needs sex, he’s going seduce the next naïve girl he stumbles upon.
I suoi bisogni sono infiniti, così come la sua ricerca.
“You’ve just made an enemy”
Il narcisista è un tipo di persona passivo-aggressiva.
He won’t go off on you when he’s mad, but he’ll secretly plan his revenge.
Unless he is extremely distressed and you happen to be nearby, that may change, but in any other situation, he’s quietly plotting his payback.
“I need to find the next victim”
When the one he’s using at the moment stops being of use to him, he immediately thinks about his next step.
Dove cercherà il prossimo?
Come farà a farle caduta per lui?
Ci vuole un po' di tempo per organizzare le sue tattiche, quindi pensa sempre in anticipo.
He may seem like he’s happy with what you’re giving him (or better yet: what he’s taking from you), but he’s already started planning his next quest.
