10 pensamentos que um narcisista esconde antes de revelar o seu verdadeiro eu
“What’s the best way for me to get attention?”
Um narcisista está sempre à espreita e sempre a precisar de atenção.
If he isn’t getting it with his current victim, he’s on the lookout for the next one.
He needs attention for his “emotional supply” and “narcissistic supply.”
O seu ego nunca está totalmente reforçado, pelo que nunca descansam.
E este é um pensamento que eles mantêm sempre escondido à frente de as suas vítimasembora seja precisamente isso que os leva a agir da forma que agem.
Attention is their number one ego-enhancer, so it’s no shock that they’re forever contemplating it.
“I don’t give a shit”
In case you didn’t already know, a narcissist just doesn’t care.
He doesn’t care about his actions, he doesn’t care about what he’s doing to you, and he certainly doesn’t care how it makes you feel.
He is not capable of empathizing and he doesn’t give a damn about a single person out there.
As he’s watching you go through your daily motions and pretending to care, all he actually thinks about is how he just couldn’t possibly care less and can’t wait for you to leave so he can stop pretending to não quero saber de nada.
“I’m always right”
Por mais errado que esteja, na sua mente, ele tem sempre razão.
He can do so much shit to you and you can be suffering due to his actions, and he’ll still think he was right to do that and you’re merely overreacting.
Para ele, só existe o seu caminho e o caminho errado.
You can try to convince him otherwise all you want, but we both know it’ll be with zero success.
Your narcissist is “Mr Always Right.”
E esse é o seu hábito mais torturante para aqueles que têm de o suportar.
“Deep down, I have no self-confidence”
A narcissist can pretend to be the most self-assured man you’ve ever encountered.
He’ll make you believe it as well.
Mas, no fundo, ele não tem auto-confiança.
Acredita-se que os narcisistas aprenderam a reconfigurar os seus cérebros como um mecanismo de sobrevivência.
So they can exhibit behavior that presents them as the most powerful man you’ll ever see, but in reality, he’s just overcompensating for his many insecurities that are secretly plaguing him.
The strangest thing is, he convinces himself of this as well, so you’re not the only one he’s fooling!
“I’m entitled to everything I want”
Um narcisista é verdadeiramente como uma criança de cinco anos quando se trata de algo que deseja.
It doesn’t matter that he can’t have it or how hard it is to obtain it. In his mind, he is fully entitled to everything that he wants.
Um narcisista não tem qualquer noção de mérito, o que o leva a considerar-se superior a toda a gente e, portanto, com direito a tudo.
And he won’t hear no for an answer.
Será como lidar com um miúdo imaturo que, por acaso, é manipulador e um pouco mau.
“How dare you defy me?”
Quando um narcisista é confrontado, o seu verdadeiro eu está muito perto de se revelar.
On the outside, he’ll seem as this cool, collected man, but when he’s criticized, all he can think about is how anyone dares defy something he said.
He is very insecure (which is something he’ll never show), so he can’t fathom the concept of being confronted.
O que ele diz é válido. Não há outra opção.
Ele precisa de ter sempre o que quer.
If you confront, doubt, or criticize him, you’re taking away his power.
“What an idiot!”
É bem sabido que os narcisistas pensam que são mais inteligentes do que qualquer outra pessoa.
They’ve deluded themselves into truly believing this, so they look down on everyone around them.
You can be saying something that is completely factual, but if he disagrees, he is going to deem you an idiot in his mind (perhaps even out loud if he’s feeling ballsy).
“I’m in desperate need of something”
Precisam de validação, poder, dinheiro e sexo.
Procuram sempre a vítima mais fácil para lhes proporcionar tudo isso.
Often, they don’t get every single thing from just one person, so they keep looking for more sources.
Para eles, as pessoas são um estímulo para o ego.
Se ele se sente com pouco poder, vai encontrar alguém fraco para mudar isso.
If he needs sex, he’s going seduce the next naïve girl he stumbles upon.
As suas necessidades não têm fim e a sua busca também não.
“You’ve just made an enemy”
Um narcisista é um tipo de pessoa passivo-agressiva.
He won’t go off on you when he’s mad, but he’ll secretly plan his revenge.
Unless he is extremely distressed and you happen to be nearby, that may change, but in any other situation, he’s quietly plotting his payback.
“I need to find the next victim”
When the one he’s using at the moment stops being of use to him, he immediately thinks about his next step.
Onde é que ele vai procurar o próximo?
Como é que ele vai fazer com que ela cair para ele?
Demora algum tempo a organizar as suas tácticas, pelo que pensa sempre com antecedência.
He may seem like he’s happy with what you’re giving him (or better yet: what he’s taking from you), but he’s already started planning his next quest.
