12 señales de que ha superado a su ex (aunque tú creas que no)
¿Estás saliendo con un chico que recientemente tuvo una ruptura en los términos de seguir siendo amigos con su ex?
A menudo sospechas y te preguntas si realmente ha superado a su ex o quizás he’s using you to get over her (que es, con mucho, el peor escenario posible)?
I feel you. Starting a new relationship knowing that your partner is still in touch with his ex and not being sure if he’s ever gotten over her is really frustrating. However, not all hope is lost!
There are actually some tell-tale signs to pay attention to where you can determine whether or not he’s totally over his ex-girlfriend.
Se acabaron los enigmas, las frustraciones y las cavilaciones.
Make him so obsessed he forgets about every girl before you – PULSE AQUÍ.
The only thing you need to do to solve the mystery is to keep reading the following signs that are sure indicators he’s totally over his ex (even if you think he’s not)!
He’s happy for his ex
One of the biggest indicators that he’s totalmente sobre su ex is if he’s genuinely happy for her.
Presta atención a su lenguaje corporal y a su reacción cuando se entere de que le ha pasado algo bueno o cuando la vea feliz con otro chico.
If he doesn’t start showing signs of jealousy all of a sudden or get lost in his thoughts, it means he’s happy for her and that he is totally over her!
Rompe toda forma de comunicación con su ex
Todos necesitamos cierto tiempo para nosotros mismos después de una ruptura y cortar toda forma de comunicación con los ex es la forma más rápida de superarlos con éxito.
If you notice that he rarely texts her (except when he really needs something) and that he’s deleted her from all social media, this is a huge sign that he’s ready to move on.
Pero, si él parece estar gastando enormes cantidades de tiempo persiguiéndola en todas las redes sociales, gustándole cada foto, y enviándole mensajes de texto con frecuencia, sepa que él todavía está apegado a ella y necesitará más tiempo para trabajar en ello con el fin de superarla.
Rara vez habla de ella
Cuando hablamos de alguien (sobre todo cuando lo hacemos con frecuencia), significa que esa persona está constantemente en nuestra mente.
So, if he seldom talks about her, it means he’s definitely not thinking about her!
He’s redirected his thoughts from his breakup and relación anterior, and that is why he never mentions her because she’s no longer a part of his life. She’s become the past and he’s moved on.
Se deshace de recuerdos de ella
Cuando rompemos con alguien, justo entonces nos damos cuenta de cuántas cosas y recuerdos se han acumulado durante todo ese tiempo.
If you see that he still has a collection of memorabilia of his ex and he’s not intending on getting rid of them, then he’s probably not ready to let go yet.
Pero, si se deshace de todos los recuerdos que tenía con ella, significa que ha decidido solemnemente y de todo corazón descartar su pasado y empezar un nuevo capítulo.
Se etiqueta a sí mismo como un hombre soltero
Cuando acabas de conocerle, intenta recordar lo que te dijo sobre su vida amorosa.
Did he declare himself as a single man or was he stuttering and desperately trying to find the words to describe the hoping-to-get-back-together-with-my-ex situation he’s in?
If he labels himself as a single man on every social media and in person, you can be sure that he’s totally over her!
He’s ready to start another relationship (with you)
If he shows determination that he’s ready to start a new relationship without making you doubt his decisions, then you can be sure he’s no longer attached to his ex.
Cuando un chico no está listo para empezar otra relación, constantemente te confunden con su indecisión sobre todo, así que presta atención a eso.
Irradia energía positiva
Only when you’re one hundred percent over your past decisions and relationships, can you be truly happy, which is seen in the type of energy you’re exuding when being around other people.
So, if he’s as happy as a clam when spending time with you and he seems relaxed about everything, it is a good sign that he’s over her.
Nunca te llama accidentalmente por su nombre
Another sign that he’s not on his mind is if he never accidentally calls you by her name.
He’s not doing it because he’s not focused on his past; he’s living in the present and thus focuses on the things happening now.
He never accidentally calls you by her name because he’s pretty much deleted it from his mind.
Habla de su pasado sin emocionarse
Another important sign when it comes to being sure that he’s gotten over his ex is if he talks about his past without getting emotional or distant.
This means that he’s comfortable about talking about his past because nothing bothers him about it.
He’s accepted things as they are and he’s ready to start living a new life without his ex on his mind.
He’s not rushing into anything
When we’re desperate to get over someone, we sometimes subconsciously rush into another relationship – not because we’re genuinely interested in them, but only for the sake of forgetting our ex.
If he’s taking things slowly with you, it means he wants to get to know you better and he’s not forcing himself to lanzarse a una nueva relación sólo para olvidar la anterior.
He’s an open book with you
Si le preguntas por su pasado, te lo cuenta todo tal y como es.
He doesn’t tell you that he would rather not talk about it or that he needs some time to think about it.
He tells you exactly as things were and he doesn’t try to hide anything. He’s like an open book with you and you can feel it in your guts, too.
He isn’t hesitant
Cuando un tipo todavía es incapaz de soltar su extampoco podrá hablar de su futuro porque aún espera secretamente que ella esté en él.
But, if he talks to you about the future with ease and he’s excited about his future plans and goals, it means he’s totally over her and past events.
Su pasado no le impide pasarlo bien contigo en el presente y estar deseando pasar sus días futuros contigo.
It means he’s determined to make a commitment with you and stick to his decision, no matter what.
