4 cosas que deberías haber recordado antes de romperle el corazón

Cuando haces daño a alguien, no piensas en las consecuencias de tus actos.

You don’t think about whether it’s the right thing to do and whether you should be a little more considerate in your words and deeds.

Don’t get me wrong – I’m not saying you should remain in a loveless relationship just for the sake of the other person.

Sin embargo, hay una gran diferencia entre romper con tu pareja y romperle el corazón.

And that’s exactly what you did to your ex-girlfriend: aplastaste su corazón en un millón de pedazos.

Usted eligió ser un imbécil egoísta who doesn’t give a damn about her feelings and only looks after his own well-being.

Basically, you planned that you’ll get out of all of this unharmed while her pain was none of your business.

Pues ahí te equivocaste.

1. It won’t make you feel any better

One of the first things you should have kept in mind before you decided to hurt this girl is that causing someone else pain doesn’t heal yours.

It doesn’t make you a badass or a player, and it’s definitely not something you should be proud of.

Humiliating someone else won’t wipe out your insecurities and it won’t boost your fragile ego.

Thinking that you’re above this girl won’t make you think more of yourself and it certainly won’t give you the self-confidence you desperately try to build in all the wrong ways.

It won’t make you more appealing to other girls, nor will it cause envy in other guys.

En lugar de eso, todo el mundo te verá como el imbécil que realmente eres.

Most importantly – sooner or later, you’ll start seeing yourself as a selfish person who doesn’t care about other people’s feelings.

Before you know it, you’ll regret the fact that you were a jerk toward the last person who deserved it.

2. It’s your loss

Cuando abandonaste a esta chica, pensó que perderte era lo peor que le podía pasar.

She was convinced she’d never recover and the devastating pain would haunt her for as long as she breathes.

Sin embargo, es obvio que ambos olvidaron que en realidad fuiste tú quien lo perdió todo, mientras que ella ganó muchísimo.

After all, she lost a man who never cared for her for real – a man who didn’t deserve her unconditional love. 

Sin embargo, perdiste a tu mejor amigo y amante, todo en uno.

You’re sentenced to a life without the only person you could trust, the only woman who was ready to make sacrifices for your sake, and the girl who te quería más que a sí misma.

¿Quién es el verdadero perdedor?

¿Quién tiene más posibilidades de pasar el resto de sus días arrepintiéndose de sus elecciones y quién tiene más probabilidades de encontrar su "felices para siempre"?

¿Un hombre sin escrúpulos que es incapaz de amar?

¿O una chica con un corazón desinteresado que sabe luchar por lo que ama?

3. You won’t break her

Despite all odds, when you crushed this girl’s heart, you didn’t manage to crush her entire being as well.

En lugar de eso, sólo la hiciste más fuerte y más dura.

Como ves, esta chica consiguió reconstruirse a sí misma y pegar de nuevo su corazón destrozado.

Consiguió salir de este dolor con más fuerza que nunca y lo utilizó en su propio beneficio.

I know you hoped that she’d spend the rest of her life missing you and begging you to come back.

That she’d forever remain hurt, in tears, and never really get over you.

Well, you thought wrong. Obviously, you forgot everything she’s capable of and how much she can take.

And that is your biggest defeat: the fact that you’re completely forgotten and that you haven’t left a permanent mark on this girl, despite giving her a massive heartache.

4. El karma es una perra

Lo último que esta chica tiene en mente es vengarse.

No matter what you might expect, she doesn’t plan on getting even with you.

However, this doesn’t mean your sins are pardoned.

It doesn’t mean you’re absolved and forgiven or that you won’t pay for all of your misdeeds.

This girl isn’t a bitch, but karma is. And that is something you should’ve remembered before acting like a jerk. 

Te aseguro que la vida te hará pasar por la misma angustia que le causaste a esta chica.

You’ll feel all the humiliation, all the trauma, and all the pain she felt.

Y sólo entonces verás la magnitud de tus actos.

Sólo entonces te darás cuenta de lo mala persona que eres en realidad y te arrepentirás de todo lo que hiciste.