4 señales que indican que no está interesado en salir contigo
No hay nada más frustrante en el mundo de las citas que un chico que te demuestra que está interesado y luego que no lo está.
You don’t even realize he’s benching you. You make excuses for him, and then you say he’s sending you mixed signals.
¿Adivina qué? No hay señales contradictorias. Tienes que tener más cuidado cuando leyendo a un chico.
Estas son las señales de que no está interesado en salir contigo:
He doesn’t want to know more about you and your life.
He doesn’t want to understand you better. The truth is, when we like someone very much, we want to know everything about that person.
We want to know what their mother’s maiden last name was, who their best friend in school was, and what kind of pizza they like.
If you like someone, you’re dying to get more information about them.
So, if he doesn’t ask you to tell him something about yourself or your life, he is sending you signals that he’s not interested in getting to know you better and dating you.
Espera demasiado para invitarte a la siguiente cita.
He doesn’t seem determined to see you again and he waits a few days to call. That can be a clear sign that he isn’t really feeling it.
Maybe the reason he still invites you out from time to time is the fact that he has nothing else to do—he is just looking for someone to kill time with.
El caso es que te sigue mandando mensajes entre cita y cita sólo para estar en contacto y mantenerte al tanto.
Pero, si realmente te gusta alguien, harás un esfuerzo por encontrar algo de tiempo y pasarlo con esa persona especial.
Hot and cold behavior like this clearly doesn’t send that message!
He doesn’t share much about himself.
If he is not interested in sharing things about himself, that’s a bad sign, too.
Intercambiar información sobre nosotros significa que estamos construyendo nuestra relación sobre una buena base.
But, if a guy doesn’t really want to date you, he won’t bother to make that effort.
Siempre tiene alguna excusa.
He couldn’t make it because his fish died. He stayed at work late. Yup, the dog ate his homework, too.
If a guy showers you with excuses, it’s because he doesn’t really want to let you go, but he also doesn’t really want to date you.
No tiene ni idea de lo que debe hacer contigo.
Si quiere salir contigo, hará tiempo y aparecerá, saldrá contigo, te enviará mensajes y te llamará. No jugará contigo al frío y al calor.
Boys play games—men don’t.
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