5 cosas que pasan cuando ella empieza a sentirse poco apreciada

Lamentablemente, lo que la mayoría de los hombres tienden a olvidar es que el amor no existe sin respeto y aprecio.

Don’t get me wrong—this doesn’t mean that you are required to put your girl on a pedestal just because she is a good girlfriend or that you have to be constantly grateful for every little thing she does for the sake of the relationship.

Sin embargo, tampoco es aceptable que des por sentados todos sus esfuerzos. No es aceptable que la hagas sentir utilizada y aprovechada.

Because if you do, these 5 things will happen, and you’ll be more sorry than ever.

Empieza a pensar demasiado

Cuando tu novia se da cuenta de que estás dándola por sentada and that you don’t respect everything she’s been doing for you, the overthinking starts.

Con el tiempo, se encierra en su tristeza y las preguntas sobre vuestra relación la abruman por completo.

¿Se está imaginando cosas? ¿Pide demasiado? ¿Es desagradecida?

Antes de que te des cuenta, empieza a analizar todas las situaciones posibles, preguntándose dónde han ido mal las cosas.

Se siente poco querida

When a girl sees that her boyfriend doesn’t appreciate her enough, she starts doubting his feelings for her.

She starts questioning all the love you’ve ever given her, wondering if everything was fake.

¿Estabas fingiendo ser alguien que no eres todo el tiempo? ¿Era todo esto un juego?

Were you just trying to get into her pants and into her heart? Did you change with time or did you actually show your true colors once you saw that you’d managed to win her over?

Are you not aware of the pain you’re causing her? Or are you’re doing it on purpose?

Is all this part of your manipulation to make her feel bad about herself? Or do you really think that she doesn’t deserve a little more respect and appreciation?

Is she in a one-sided relationship, where she is the only one investing her entire self, while you couldn’t care less?

Will she ever get back all the love she’s been giving you?

Se cuestiona su valía

En consecuencia, la siguiente fase consiste en cuestionar su valía.

Verás, esta chica hizo todo lo posible para que vieras cuánto te quiere. Ella te dio todo su corazón, y ella puso el máximo esfuerzo en ti.

Y de alguna manera, terminó siendo el único que lo intenta and the only one caring. So, why isn’t she enough?

Why don’t you see everything she did for you, and how much she’s given you? Why don’t you consider her worthy of your time, effort, and energy?

Al cabo de un tiempo, incluso empieza a culparse por tu comportamiento, preguntándose si podría haber hecho algo para evitarlo.

¿Es culpable? ¿Ha hecho algo malo para que la trates así?

Sin embargo, lo más triste es que esta chica empieza a pensar que no es lo suficientemente buena para nadie en este mundo.

After all, if the guy who should be her life partner doesn’t consider her worthy of his appreciation, what could she expect from everyone else?

Deep down, she knows that she’s given you everything she had and more.

She knows she doesn’t have anything more to offer, but that is still obviously not enough. So, what is left for her to do?

But then she opens her eyes…

Well, I’ll tell you what is left for her to do: to take off her rose-colored glasses and finally see the eye-opening truth. And that is exactly what she’ll do!

After many inner struggles, this girl will finally realize the truth, and she will understand that you are the one who isn’t enough.

She will remember everything she invested in you without receiving anything in return, and for the first time ever, she’ll see you for what you really are: an ungrateful bastard and a selfish asshole.

She will see that you’re nothing more than an emotionally immature boy who tries to heal his insecurities by putting her down.

That you don’t know to recognize the true value of a woman and that you’re not worthy of her.

…And leaves you in the past

Algunos dirán que le llevará mucho tiempo dar este paso, pero tarde o temprano, esta chica te dejará.

Se detendrá asentamiento sólo por las migajas de tu atención, y dejará de malgastar su vida esperando a que te pongas las pilas.

This is something you never saw coming but guess what—the girl you never appreciated enough will turn her back on you and leave you in the past where you belong.

Yes, that is when you’ll probably start seeing her true worth, but it will be too late to make a difference.