5 señales de que te romperá el corazón

Heartbreak is one of the things we would all wish to avoid. But you don’t know how to protect yourself from potential suffering because you think there is no way of knowing that a man will break your heart when you first start dating him. And that is where you are mistaken.

While you are in the butterfly phase, you can’t see things clearly and you don’t see your new partner’s flaws. Therefore, you can’t know whether he’ll break you and your heart. But although different men show different behaviour patterns when it comes to relationships, there are some signs most of the heartbreakers display and here are 5 of them.

Si tu novio muestra una o más de estas señales, es seguro que tarde o temprano te hará daño y este es el chico del que tienes que alejarte.

1. He doesn’t believe in commitment

Whenever you meet a guy who says he doesn’t believe in commitments and who doesn’t want to label your relationship, the obvious fact is that he is a fobia al compromiso. Y significa que te romperá el corazón con seguridad.

Although you may take this as a challenge and think that you are the one that could change his views on love, trust me—you are only going to get hurt. This man doesn’t believe in love and he is honest about the fact that he has nothing to offer you.

Deja de darle más tiempo para que recapacite y deja de intentar convencerle de que eres la chica para él porque este chico nunca cambiará. Eso es algo que tienes que aceptar y alejarte de él a tiempo.

2. Tiene mucha carga emocional

Let’s face it—we all have pasts. We’ve all had relationships and heartbreaks which affected us. But, if you want to enter a new relationship, the first thing you need to do is to let go of the past and turn a new page in your life.

If you meet a guy who hasn’t resolved everything regarding his past or who carries a lot of emotional baggage, it is likely that he’ll break your heart sooner or later.

Si decides seguir viendo a este tipo, puedes terminar como su chica de rebote o lidiar con todos los problemas que arrastra del pasado y eso es lo último que necesitas.

3. Es inmaduro

Otro tipo de chico que te romperá el corazón son los inmaduros. Aunque estos chicos suelen ser interesantes al principio porque suele ser divertido estar con ellos, tarde o temprano te darán dolor de cabeza.

Before you know it, you’ll feel like you have a kid, instead of a boyfriend. You may think that this guy will get his act together if you put enough effort, but trust me—that won’t happen.

You’ll only get exhausted trying to turn him into a mature man and that is something you’ll never succeed in. And once you realize you need to leave him and move on with your life, you’ll already be crazy about him and you’ll be heading to a heartbreak.

4. Está mintiendo

If you’ve caught your partner lying to you more than once, it is one of the sure signs he’ll break your heart. When you are salir con un mentiroso compulsivono puedes esperar tener una relación honesta y llena de confianza.

You’ll just eat yourself alive with him because you can never be sure about whether he is telling you the truth. No matter how long you stay with this man, you’ll never know his true face and you’ll never know who the man you are actually dating is.

Over time, you’ll get drained and exhausted because of his constant lying. Besides, guys who lie are also prone to cheating and that is something that will definitely break your heart.

5. Es posesivo

Although a little bit of jealousy in the beginning can spice things up and can show a guy’s interest for you, over time, it becomes a problem.

If you meet a guy who shows signs of controlling and possessive behavior from the very beginning, it is obvious that he’ll break your heart sooner or later.

Si sigues con este chico, te diriges hacia una pesadilla porque no sólo te hará daño, sino que también destruirá tu confianza y te hará sentir insegura.