5 segni che ti spezzeranno il cuore

Heartbreak is one of the things we would all wish to avoid. But you don’t know how to protect yourself from potential suffering because you think there is no way of knowing that a man will break your heart when you first start dating him. And that is where you are mistaken.

While you are in the butterfly phase, you can’t see things clearly and you don’t see your new partner’s flaws. Therefore, you can’t know whether he’ll break you and your heart. But although different men show different behaviour patterns when it comes to relationships, there are some signs most of the heartbreakers display and here are 5 of them.

Se il vostro ragazzo mostra uno o più di questi segnali, è certo che prima o poi vi farà del male ed è da lui che dovete allontanarvi.

1. He doesn’t believe in commitment

Whenever you meet a guy who says he doesn’t believe in commitments and who doesn’t want to label your relationship, the obvious fact is that he is a fobico dell'impegno. E significa che sicuramente vi spezzerà il cuore.

Although you may take this as a challenge and think that you are the one that could change his views on love, trust me—you are only going to get hurt. This man doesn’t believe in love and he is honest about the fact that he has nothing to offer you.

Smettete di dargli altro tempo per rinsavire e smettete di cercare di convincerlo che siete la ragazza giusta per lui, perché questo ragazzo non cambierà mai. È una cosa che devi accettare e allontanarti da lui col tempo.

2. Ha un bagaglio emotivo molto pesante

Let’s face it—we all have pasts. We’ve all had relationships and heartbreaks which affected us. But, if you want to enter a new relationship, the first thing you need to do is to let go of the past and turn a new page in your life.

If you meet a guy who hasn’t resolved everything regarding his past or who carries a lot of emotional baggage, it is likely that he’ll break your heart sooner or later.

Se decidete di continuare a frequentare questo ragazzo, potete finire come la sua ragazza di ripiego o di affrontare tutti i problemi che si porta dietro dal passato e questa è l'ultima cosa di cui avete bisogno.

3. È immaturo

Un altro tipo di ragazzo che vi spezzerà il cuore è quello immaturo. Anche se all'inizio questi ragazzi sono interessanti perché di solito sono divertenti da frequentare, prima o poi vi faranno venire il mal di testa.

Before you know it, you’ll feel like you have a kid, instead of a boyfriend. You may think that this guy will get his act together if you put enough effort, but trust me—that won’t happen.

You’ll only get exhausted trying to turn him into a mature man and that is something you’ll never succeed in. And once you realize you need to leave him and move on with your life, you’ll already be crazy about him and you’ll be heading to a heartbreak.

4. Sta mentendo

If you’ve caught your partner lying to you more than once, it is one of the sure signs he’ll break your heart. When you are uscire con un bugiardo compulsivonon ci si può mai aspettare di avere un rapporto onesto e pieno di fiducia.

You’ll just eat yourself alive with him because you can never be sure about whether he is telling you the truth. No matter how long you stay with this man, you’ll never know his true face and you’ll never know who the man you are actually dating is.

Over time, you’ll get drained and exhausted because of his constant lying. Besides, guys who lie are also prone to cheating and that is something that will definitely break your heart.

5. È possessivo

Although a little bit of jealousy in the beginning can spice things up and can show a guy’s interest for you, over time, it becomes a problem.

If you meet a guy who shows signs of controlling and possessive behavior from the very beginning, it is obvious that he’ll break your heart sooner or later.

Se rimanete con questo ragazzo, vi state dirigendo verso un incubo perché non solo vi farà del male, ma distruggerà anche la vostra fiducia e vi farà sentire insicure.