5 señales inequívocas de que tu amor a primera vista durará

I didn’t even believe in love at first sight. How? How can you possibly know someone enough to love them without having any direct knowledge of who they are as a person?

It doesn’t make sense. It’s merely attraction on overload…

You look at someone, they get you going in all the right ways, you’re feeling things in all the right places, endorphins start rushing around, and BAM, you think you’re in love.

But you can’t possibly be in love… Or can you? Until it happened to me… I would have said no. Impossible.

It doesn’t make sense. It really doesn’t, even now, knowing what I know, and loving how I love. I still can’t explain how I came to love him from the moment he said, “Hello.”

Lo único que sé con certeza es que lo hice.

Desde entonces, cada momento ha sido una serie de confirmaciones de que el amor a primera vista no sólo es posible, sino que es lo mejor que me ha pasado nunca.

¿Cómo puede saber if it’s love at first sight? You can’t¡! Lo que puedes hacer es seguir adelante y confiar en tus propios instintos. Si lo sientes, síguelo y verás adónde te lleva.

Puede que te equivoques, pero puede que acabes feliz para siempre. Aquí tienes algunas señales a las que puedes estar atento por el camino para confirmarte lo que ya sabes.

You feel like you’ve known each other forever.

Maybe it’s because you have? If it feels like your souls have been aligned since the beginning of time, it’s possible that they have.

Puede que no sepas exactamente quién es esa persona hoy, ni los acontecimientos concretos que han llevado a este encuentro.

But that feeling that you have been with this person before and now that you are with them again, you feel complete – it’s okay to trust that.

You don’t seem to get sick of each other.

Whether it’s love, lust, or infatuation, who cares?! Enjoy it.

Dedica todo tu tiempo a conocer todo sobre el otro y a descubrir todas las cosas que tenéis en común y todas las que os diferencian.

Descubrir lo que os atrajo el uno del otro y descubrir que hay mucho más es increíble.

Te hace sentir seguro.

Todo es nuevo y emocionante, pero familiar al mismo tiempo.

That little voice in the back of your head that always tells you when you’re about to do something stupid? Suddenly she is silent.

She has no red flags to throw up, no tales of caution to whisper in your ear. You start to wonder if she’s okay… She is.

She just doesn’t need to tell you anything. El instinto de que has encontrado algo real y maravilloso da en el clavo.

Trust yourself, and if you immediately trust him, there’s probably a good reason for that.

Even when you don’t agree, you still respect each other.

The first time you don’t agree can easily snap you out of your reverie and leave you questioning your life choices.

If it doesn’t, that is a very good sign. How you are able to handle disagreements is a fundamental marker of what kind of relationship you will have.

If you find yourselves trying to understand each other’s differences and work through them, you are on a lasting track.

Todos tus amigos y familiares lo aprueban.

Si las personas más cercanas pueden ver lo que tú ves, ¿qué más buscas?

Cupid is not going to show up and give you an actual sign, so at some point you’ve gotta stop looking for one.

This is not to say if your people aren’t on board right away, it’s not love…

It very well may be and they just need a little time to see what you see. But if they see it as soon as you do, that’s outta the ballpark!

por Tia Grace