6 mentiras comunes que puedes oír de tu ex
La mayoría de las veces, los ex novios se cuelan en nuestras vidas queriendo volver a formar parte de ellas.
Sometimes it’s not even about second chances, it’s about reminding you that they are still there and that they have an influence on your life.
They might be doing it on a subconscious level but deep down they can’t really process the fact that you could actually be happy without them. They thought you couldn’t live without them.
Hell, even you thought you couldn’t but look at you, living and everything.
Aunque hayas continuado con tu vida, ten cuidado porque puede que aún te queden emociones y te sorprendas a ti mismo cayendo en sus mentiras.
Aquí está la lista de las mentiras más comunes que puedes escuchar de tu ex:
1. “How are you?”
Después de meses y meses sin contacto alguno, de repente se interesa por tu bienestar. Sí, claro. ¿Dónde estaba él cuando pasaste todas esas noches llorando hasta quedarte dormida porque actuaba como un idiota?
Aunque te diga que sólo quiere saber cómo estás o que quiere seguir en contacto, lo más probable es que esté tanteando el terreno. Sólo quiere ver si todavía puede tenerte de vuelta si quiere. Si le respondes con un mensaje de texto, sólo estarás alimentando su ego.
2. “Can I come over? I just want to talk.”
Booty call alert. If all he wanted to do was talk he would ask you out to a public place. If he wants to come over, especially at night, you don’t have to think too hard about his intentions.
He is probably lonely and he might even miss you, but that doesn’t mean anything has changed. Sure, you can spend a great night together and he will probably go the next morning but that’s not something you want or need.
3. “I miss you.”
If you get this text at 2 a.m. know that he is just drunk and alone. He’s emotional and he might be regretting losing you. Those feelings of his are temporary.
Si fuera el hombre que necesitas, no tendría necesidad de echarte de menos porque nunca te perdería.
4. “Nobody gets us.”
He is probably thinking about your friends and family and all the accidental bystanders who keep telling you, “You are better off without him.” Probablemente está tratando de venderte alguna historia patética... que lo que teníais era especial y que nadie podía entenderlo salvo vosotros dos.
Of course, there are tons of people who had a special relationship with their ex, but no, that doesn’t mean they are getting back together. There is a reason exes are in the past.
5. “I just want to be friends.”
Classic. It’s like saying, “I am not cut out to be your boyfriend. I am not ready to commit but I want you in my life.” Probably because you were his greatest support and someone who knew how to listen and understand.
If he hasn’t been a good boyfriend, he sure as hell doesn’t deserve to be your friend.
6. “I am really happy you are in love again.”
Of course, he is not happy for you. Ever since he saw your relationship status change, he can’t stop picturing you hooking up con otra persona. Somebody who isn’t him.
Pensó que sería el dueño de tu cuerpo y de tu mente durante toda la vida, aunque ya no forme parte de tu vida. Esta es su manera de meterse en tu cabeza.
