6 señales de que finge estar enamorado sólo para acostarse contigo

It’s simple – sometimes guys will do anything to get into your pants.

So, it’s up to you to tell if he’s being real or he just wants to sleep with you. It can get really difficult entender que un chico está fingiendo su amor porque hace todo lo que tú esperarías que hiciera tu amante.

Habla bien, te hace reír y te sorprende todo el tiempo. Esto te hace creer que te quiere por lo que realmente eres.

Lamentablemente, su amor no es verdadero, porque los hombres son maestros en fingir su amor por ti, sólo con el único propósito de meterse en tus pantalones.

Recuerda que no todos los hombres son iguales, pero tienes que estar atenta todo el tiempo a los que te manipulan, engañan y mienten, sólo porque quieren algo de acción.

A continuación te mostramos 6 señales de cómo detectar a un chico que está fingiendo su amor sólo para acostarse contigo.

 No pasa tiempo contigo

Unless it’s for sex, of course. This is the first and most obvious sign of all. He never makes any effort to spend more time with you.

Even when you two are on a date, and the only thing you want to do is to talk to him, to have a good conversation and to find out more about him, he does not seem to pay much attention to what you’re saying.

Siempre tiene prisa por llegar al dormitorio y espera ese momento con impaciencia.

Nunca te lleva a citas de verdad

It’s always you who has to plan the dates. And more often than not he will refuse to come if he is not guaranteed to end up in bed with you later that night.

He will not wine and dine you without being sure he’s going to score.

Un chico que va en serio contigo te llevará a citas de verdad. Te llevará a cenar, a comer y no sólo te llamará para tomar una copa a las 9 de la noche.

Think about this and if you notice that the guy you’re dating has never taken you on a real date, you might want to consider not wasting your time with him anymore.

No te integra en sus círculos sociales

Él no está interesado en una relación real contigo, así que no hay necesidad de que conozcas a sus amigos de todos modos.

Un chico que va en serio contigo estará orgulloso de presentarte a todas las personas con las que os crucéis.

If your guy always introduces you as just a friend or doesn’t introduce you at all, then it’s an obvious sign that he couldn’t care less about you.

You’re just a hookup he’d rather keep in the dark.

You’re not involved in his social media life

In today’s world, what people see on social media is a fairly good representation of them in the real world.

People share everything, from what they are eating or drinking, where they are and who they’re with.

If you are never a part of that then that’s a blunt way of saying he doesn’t really want other people to know about you.

Don’t get caught in his lies and excuses por qué ni siquiera sois amigos en Facebook; acepta la realidad de que no le gustas tanto.

Nunca te llama durante el día

If he always calls you at night and with the only intention for you to come over, then he is not really in love with you – he only wants your body.

Un novio cariñoso te llamará todo el tiempo, y a menudo sólo para saber cómo estás, porque le importa de verdad si has comido o si te has cansado del trabajo.

The guy who calls you only on the weekend or late at night is not for you unless you just want to be a hookup; then it’s fine, so keep seeing him after dark.

But if you want a real relationship, real love, and real feelings in your life, it’s time you give up on him.

Siempre hay alcohol de por medio

He will take you only to places where they serve alcohol because he knows you will get more vulnerable, and if you’re vulnerable it’s easier for him to take you to bed.

If you notice that whenever you two meet up, alcohol is involved, realize that it’s a red flag and take it for what it is – a sign he isn’t interested in you other than hooking up.

No hay nada malo en intimar con su pareja.

In fact, it’s a very natural thing to do, but if sex is the only thing on your boyfriend’s mind, then you must find out whether he really loves you or he just wants to sleep with you.