Cuando Sabes Que Nunca Funcionará Pero Sigues Volviendo El Uno Al Otro

Sometimes, your love for someone is stronger than everything else. Sometimes, your mind simply can’t control your actions, no matter how hard you try. Sometimes, you need to put a stop to some things but you just can’t help yourself.

Si alguna vez has estado en una situación en la que estás loca por un chico pero sabes que no hay futuro para los dos, sabes exactamente de lo que estoy hablando.

Este chico ha sacudido tu mundo desde el primer momento en que lo viste. Y sabes que él siente lo mismo por ti.

Los dos sois locamente enamorados el uno del otro and you can’t keep your hands off of one another.

Pero desde el momento en que lo conociste, supiste era problemático. Sabías que los dos nunca podríais encontrar la paz uno al lado del otro.

Yes, you’ve always thought that he is your other half—you could never imagine loving someone that much.  

You both want things between you to work out badly but somehow that is not happening. You keep fighting and breaking up because you simply can’t get along.

And you don’t know why that is so. You don’t doubt his feelings and you are certain that you love him as well.

A pesar de todo, seguís volviendo el uno al otro. En el fondo, ambos sabéis que nunca conseguiréis tener una relación sana y fuerte, pero hay alguna fuerza inexplicable que os arrastra el uno hacia el otro.

Every time you break things off, you decide to call it quits for good. You decide this is the last time you’ll let this man into your life, because you know he is toxic for you.

It doesn’t have to mean that he is a bad guy—ustedes dos simplemente no son el uno para el otro. He wakes up the worst in you and that is something you don’t need in your life.

Pero cada vez vuelve arrastrándose...lo llevas de vuelta, como si nada hubiera pasado.

Aunque sabes que no hay futuro para vosotros dos, secretamente esperas que esta vez sea diferente. And I am here to tell you that it won’t.

Neither of you is obviously ready to change. You are both grown-ups and it would be absurd to expect either of you to change so that you could fit the other person’s standards.

It is possible that you are both hot-tempered or that your personalities simply don’t match.

The two of you have been together for ages and by now, you should’ve learned how to function together. But, obviously, that didn’t happen.

And if it hadn’t happened by now, why would you think it would in the future? ¿Por qué cree que esta vez será diferente, cuando en el pasado las cosas acabaron siempre igual?

Whatever it is that is keeping you two from being happy, it is obviously something that you can’t surpass and it’s time for you to stop running from that fact.

It’s time you accept the fact that your partner is not someone you need in your life, despite all the love you feel for him.

Sé que crees que el amor verdadero puede vencer cualquier cosa. Y ciertamente puede. But it’s obvious that this is not true love, as much as you wish for it to be.

True love shouldn’t make you feel like this. Yes, this guy gives you butterflies and passion you’ve never felt before, but admit it—you feel stressed and overwhelmed all the time.

Nunca sabes a qué atenerte con él y nunca sabes qué os deparará el futuro a los dos. Aunque esto puede parecer emocionante al principio, con el tiempo se vuelve agotador.

True love will make you feel peaceful. It will feel like home. It will make all the puzzles fit in place and it will be everything you’ve been looking for all along, without even knowing it.

Así que, por favor, por el bien de tu salud mental y física, sé tú quien se aleje. Porque esto no es amor verdadero—it’s torture.

I know you are scared of making the wrong decision and I know you don’t want to hurt yourself or your partner. And I am not going to lie to you—it won’t be easy.

Estarás devastado una vez que finalmente pongas fin a esta farsa. Y echarás de menos como él el infierno.

You will cry, you will feel like you can’t live without him and you will want to go back to him. And this is when you’ll have to be the strongest.

This is when you’ll have to realize that sometimes el amor no es suficiente and this is when you’ll have to accept the fact that you’d never be happy with this guy.

But all of this pain will go away in time. And you’ll be grateful you finally ended it. You’ll be thankful you saved yourself from a lifetime of misery.