No puedes estropear algo que está hecho para ti

¿Alguna vez piensas en tus relaciones pasadas y sientes que has desperdiciado tu preciosa vida con alguien que no la merecía?

Quizá pensar que estabas haciendo algo mal es lo que te impide tener lo que quieres ahora.

If that one man didn’t recognize your worth right away, it might not mean you did something wrong, but perhaps that he simply wasn’t someone you needed.

Maybe it means there’s a greater plan ahead.

If he criticizes you often, he’s not the one

If a man keeps telling you you’re not doing something right or keeps downplaying your emotions, I’m sorry, but that means he isn’t the one.

What he’s doing is  abuso emocional. Nadie merece ser tratado así.

It’s important you recognize the signs on time. Emotional abuse is a real thing that happens to many women who don’t even realize it.

You don’t need your partner to put so much unneeded pressure on you.

Lo que necesitas es un apoyo infinito. Un lugar seguro al que volver.

Alguien que siempre te cubra las espaldas, pase lo que pase.

Necesitas que sea tu mayor apoyo. Cualquier cosa menos que eso es inaceptable.

He must accept you as you are – no more, no less

If the love is real, you can’t really mess up. So-called mess ups are just an opportunity for more understanding and strengthening your relationship.

And if your partner’s the right one, he will know that better than anyone.

Understanding your partner’s flaws is the best way to show them you accept them fully.

Sólo cuando sepas que te acepta como un todo podrás sentirte segura y empezar a construir una vida con él sin miedo a fracasar de nuevo.

If he constantly makes you feel like you need to be somehow better, he’s got a problem, and that problem isn’t you.

Tome el fracaso como un consuelo, no como una tragedia

Instead of believing your fears and thinking you’re doing something wrong, try seeing failures as a sign telling you something’s not good for you.

O incluso mejor:

A sign telling you there is something else waiting for you and when the time comes, you’re going to know that’s it.

Every cloud has a silver lining. Nothing is lost. You’re not there yet.

But you’re not late. There’s time.

There’s no plan you should follow. Nobody can control life.

You’re allowed to have your own life’s rhythm. And dance how you want to.

Crea en su intuición

This is the thing most people seem to forget about or simply dismiss because they think somebody else knows better what’s good for them.

It doesn’t make sense. How can someone else know what you’ve been through and what you’ve been feeling better than you?

No one else can know it more intensely than yourself! That’s the truth of life.

The sooner you realize it, the sooner your life starts to change. Rapidly. You’ll start trusting yourself more and more.

Sólo tienes que tener fe en ti mismo y el resto vendrá solo.

Deja de anteponer todo lo demás a ti.

If you needed a sign to tell you it’s time to take your life into your own hands and start trusting your inner voice, this is it.

Te animo a que cortes con todas tus dudas y des con valentía el primer paso hacia tu nueva vida.

A new life where you’re always sure your decisions are what leads you right there where you need to be.

And remember:  You can’t mess up something that’s meant for you. So, keep your head up and start being brave again.