Non si può rovinare qualcosa che è destinato a noi

Vi capita mai di pensare alle vostre relazioni passate e di sentirvi come se aveste sprecato la vostra preziosa vita per qualcuno che non la meritava?

Forse pensare di aver fatto qualcosa di sbagliato è ciò che vi impedisce di avere ciò che volete ora.

If that one man didn’t recognize your worth right away, it might not mean you did something wrong, but perhaps that he simply wasn’t someone you needed.

Maybe it means there’s a greater plan ahead.

If he criticizes you often, he’s not the one

If a man keeps telling you you’re not doing something right or keeps downplaying your emotions, I’m sorry, but that means he isn’t the one.

What he’s doing is  abuso emotivo. Nessuno merita di essere trattato così.

It’s important you recognize the signs on time. Emotional abuse is a real thing that happens to many women who don’t even realize it.

You don’t need your partner to put so much unneeded pressure on you.

Ciò di cui avete bisogno è un sostegno infinito. Un luogo sicuro dove tornare.

Qualcuno che ti guarda sempre le spalle, qualunque cosa accada.

Avete bisogno che lui sia il vostro più grande sostegno. Qualsiasi cosa meno di questo è inaccettabile.

He must accept you as you are – no more, no less

If the love is real, you can’t really mess up. So-called mess ups are just an opportunity for more understanding and strengthening your relationship.

And if your partner’s the right one, he will know that better than anyone.

Understanding your partner’s flaws is the best way to show them you accept them fully.

Solo quando saprete che vi accetta nella sua interezza potrete sentirvi al sicuro e iniziare a costruire una vita con lui senza paura di fallire di nuovo.

If he constantly makes you feel like you need to be somehow better, he’s got a problem, and that problem isn’t you.

Prendete il fallimento come una rassicurazione, non come una tragedia

Instead of believing your fears and thinking you’re doing something wrong, try seeing failures as a sign telling you something’s not good for you.

O meglio ancora:

A sign telling you there is something else waiting for you and when the time comes, you’re going to know that’s it.

Every cloud has a silver lining. Nothing is lost. You’re not there yet.

But you’re not late. There’s time.

There’s no plan you should follow. Nobody can control life.

You’re allowed to have your own life’s rhythm. And dance how you want to.

Credere al proprio intuito

This is the thing most people seem to forget about or simply dismiss because they think somebody else knows better what’s good for them.

It doesn’t make sense. How can someone else know what you’ve been through and what you’ve been feeling better than you?

No one else can know it more intensely than yourself! That’s the truth of life.

The sooner you realize it, the sooner your life starts to change. Rapidly. You’ll start trusting yourself more and more.

Basta avere fiducia in se stessi e il resto verrà da sé.

Smettete di mettere tutto il resto davanti a voi.

If you needed a sign to tell you it’s time to take your life into your own hands and start trusting your inner voice, this is it.

Vi incoraggio a eliminare tutti i dubbi e a fare con coraggio il primo passo verso la vostra nuova vita.

A new life where you’re always sure your decisions are what leads you right there where you need to be.

And remember:  You can’t mess up something that’s meant for you. So, keep your head up and start being brave again.