Algún día, el dolor que sientes ahora tendrá sentido

You’re a mess, and nothing’s going right. Your eyes are swollen from all the crying, and your body is too tired get out of bed anymore. You feel like your heart could burst at any moment and you don’t seem to be doing any better. It’s been weeks of feeling this way…¿cuándo se supone que empezarás a sentirte mejor?

You are overwhelmed by the array of emotions that are consuming you, and all you are able to do is just let them. You can’t luchar anymore. The pain is too much, and you don’t know how you’ll ever survive this.

The thing about pain is, it needs to be felt in order for you to heal properly and be able to get over it. The pain is there to teach you that you are stronger than you think. It’s there to show you what you’re really made of and how much you are capable of enduring. You’ll be surprised at how tough you are and how much you can take.

Tienes que dejarte llevar por el dolor. Entrégate a la agonía que sientes ahora mismo. Deja que te consuma y recorra tu cuerpo como una tormenta en un día ventoso. Deja que te invada y permanezca el tiempo que haga falta, y algún día serás mejor por ello.

That is how pain works. It arrives as an uninvited guest when you least expect it, and it lingers longer than you would like it to.. but be patient. When it finally goes away, you will feel like a new person who’s ready to take over the world. There will be nothing you won’t be able to conquer.

Date tiempo para llegar.

Just remember. When you feel like you’ve hit rock bottom, crying on the kitchen floor, surrounded by more bottles of wine than you would like to admit, and feeling like this is the lowest you could possibly get, THAT is when you need to make a choice.

This is the moment that will make you or break you. This is the time you need to decide if you’re going to pick up all of your broken pieces, get up from that floor and decide that you’ve had enough. You are at your lowest, and you can’t even see your face from all the mascara that is smudged across your face. This is exactly when you need to decide that this is the last time you’ve done this to yourself.

Nadie te va a ayudar si no te ayudas tú primero. Tienes que QUERER mejorar para sentirte realmente mejor.

This feeling won’t last forever. I know it seems as if the sun has set on your happier days, but there is so much more sunshine waiting for you. All you need is to want to get rid of that cloud of misery that is hanging above you so dimly.

Y un día, podrás echar la vista atrás a esta época lamentable y sentir un abrumador orgullo por lo que has sido capaz de sobrevivir.

Algún día, podrás despertarte de la cama que una vez compartiste con él y levantarte de ella con una visión positiva de la vida. En ese momento, la miseria ya no tendrá nada que hacer contigo. Se habrá esfumado de tu cuerpo y de tu alma, y te sentirás como una persona completamente nueva capaz de hacer todo lo que se proponga.

¿Y sabes por qué?

Because you welcomed your pain with open arms. You embraced it and let it stay for a little while, for as long as it took for you to get to the place you’re at now. And aren’t you glad you did?

Gracias a ese dolor, ahora sabes lo fuerte que eres realmente. Debido a ese dolor, eres capaz de apreciar la calma que sientes ahora mismo. Y debido a ese dolor, te sientes preparado para entrar de nuevo en la luz y permitirte sentir de nuevo.

To those still trying to weather the storm, feeling like a lost cause—you will get through this, I promise. It always feels like the end of the world when life blindsides you like this, but one day, you’ll realize that you are the only one keeping yourself from healing. And that is when you’ll decide enough is enough and do everything you can to get yourself back to that happy place.

Algún día Puede que no sea mañana, ni siquiera la semana que viene. Pero ocurrirá, y cuando ocurra, verás que todas las lágrimas y noches sin dormir han merecido la pena, porque son las que te han traído hasta aquí.

Aguanta un poco más.