Cómo hacer que te desee: 31 maneras probadas de engancharlo

¿Se pregunta cómo haz que te desee? O cómo hacer que te eche de menos and want you back? Today you’ll learn everything you need to know about el arte de hacer que te persiga ¡y se pegan a ti como el pegamento!

Let me guess what’s going on in your head right now: “If I text him first, he’ll probably think of me as desperate.

If I put him on a pedestal, he’ll probably take me for granted. Seriously, will anyone tell me lo que los hombres buscan en una mujer?”

No hace mucho, pensaba en las mismas cosas y me hacía las mismas preguntas.

I’ve realized that my biggest mistake was pressuring and “begging” que un hombre se fije en mí, lo cual es una gran desilusión en todos los sentidos.

I’ve learned the hard way that la única manera de haz que te desee es darle espacio para que te gane. Los hombres se enamoran de mujeres a las que temen perder.

A los hombres les ENCANTAN las mujeres seguras de sí mismas que saben lo que quieren y que nunca se conforman con menos de lo que merecen.
Know what you want, and you’ll make him want you!

Show him that you’re un tipo de mujer única en la vida, and you’ll haz que te desee!

Stop overthinking things and realize that you don’t need to be perfect to fit the definition of his dream girl.

Don’t beg for respect and appreciation, but demand it. Don’t try hard to hide your imperfections, but embrace them. Be a challenge, and that’s how you’ll haz que te persiga!

Atraerlo como un imán: 21 secretos para que te desee con locura

Despreocúpate

I don’t know about you ladies, but I know for sure that I DON’T need a man to make me happy. Do you know why? Because I am happy with or without him.

Actuar sin preocupaciones significa estar contenta contigo misma y no necesitar a un hombre para sentirte completa. Una vez que vea eso, te verá como un desafío. Estará dispuesto a hacer cualquier cosa para ganarte.

Now, being carefree is not about acting like you don’t care. It’s about disfrutar de tu vida y hacer lo que te hace feliz.

Las chicas despreocupadas y relajadas son las más interesantes.

You could look like a model on the cover of a magazine, but if he senses that you’re having difficulties living your life and being who you are, he will not chase you.

Impresiónale con tu inteligencia y creatividad

Sí, todos sabemos que los chicos son seres visuales, pero hay otras formas de impresionarles además de con tu aspecto. Créeme. Ningún chico puede permanecer indiferente ante una mujer ingeniosa, encantadora y creativa.

Impresiona a un chico con tu inteligencia y creatividad, y se pegará a ti como el pegamento.

He will enjoy your every conversation (virtual or face-to-face), and he will do his best to make you realize that he’s the one for you.

Again, good looks may attract him, but it’s your personality that will keep him hooked. Contradict him, have powerful arguments, tease him, and be creative in every field and you’ll make him want you BADLY.

Permítele que te entretenga

Girls often forget that it’s not their job to keep their men entertained. Of course, this doesn’t mean that they should never crack a joke and make men laugh, but it means they shouldn’t try too hard.

Instead, allow him to entertain you. Yup, let him make you laugh, and he’ll be determined to become the only man who’ll ever make you laugh (maybe I’ve exaggerated it a little bit, but you get the idea).

Compliment his great sense of humor, and you’ll make him feel special for being capable of making you laugh.

Remember that guys are really sensitive about this. A girl enjoying their company is every guy’s biggest achievement!

Establecer límites

Independientemente de si quieres que tu ex vuelva a quererte o si quieres atraer a alguien nuevo, recuerda establecer siempre límites. ¿Qué significa esto?

It means that you shouldn’t let them take you for granted or that you go out of your way only to please them.

Setting boundaries will show them that you’re a strong, independent woman, and you won’t tolerate disrespect or him mistreating you.

If he does something you’re not okay with, make sure to let him know. Don’t make him think that you’ll always be there for him no matter what and no matter how he treats you.

Also, don’t make excuses for his behavior. Expect him to explain himself and apologize for his actions. If he doesn’t, then you know he’s not worthy of being with you (and he’ll know that as well).

Cuídate mental y físicamente

I understand. When you really like someone, you can’t help but think about them 24/7, focus only on their needs, and daydream about being with them when you’re not.

Todo esto puede hacer que descuides tus propias necesidades. En cuanto dejes de darte prioridad, él empezará a darte por sentada.

Don’t EVER forget to put your well-being in first place no matter how much you like him. Take care of yourself, mentally and physically.

Meditate, hit the gym, go for a walk, read a good book… Don’t let negative things and people drain you. Taking care of yourself means investing in your own happiness.

Recuerda las siguientes palabras: NINGÚN HOMBRE puede resistirse a una mujer que rezuma confianza y se siente bien en su propia piel.

Ser ambicioso

¿Tiene alguna afición interesante? ¿Cuáles son sus pasiones? Si necesitas más tiempo para pensar en las respuestas a estas dos preguntas, entonces algo tiene que cambiar.

Piense en todas las cosas que le gusta hacer en la vida. ¿Cuáles son las cosas que hacen que tus ojos brillen de alegría cuando hablas de ellas? Éstas son las cosas que le atraerán.

No hay nada más poderoso que una mujer ambiciosa dispuesta a conquistar el mundo y a hacer cualquier cosa (vale, en realidad no cualquier cosa) para alcanzar sus metas y hacer realidad sus sueños.

Dicen que somos lo que pensamos. Nuestros pensamientos representan nuestros deseos. Nuestros deseos se convierten en acciones, y las acciones en logros.

Todos los hombres quieren conquistar a una mujer ambiciosa, apasionada y con éxito, porque saben que para conseguirlo hace falta mucha habilidad. Y ésa es la respuesta a su pregunta: ¿Cómo haces que te desee?

Ser misterioso

Un error común que cometen muchas chicas cuando se trata de chicos es revelar demasiada información sobre sí mismas.

Con eso me refiero a contarles todo, desde tu comida favorita hasta tus recuerdos divertidos de la infancia.

It’s okay to share a few things with a guy you like because how else would you get to know each other, right? But you shouldn’t overdo it.

Here’s one of the most helpful consejos para mantenerlo interesado en ti para siempre: Remain mysterious. Give him information about you bit by bit, but don’t serve it all at once to him on a plate.

Don’t share every single detail from your life with him. I understand that you may feel the urge to share everything with him, but still, don’t do it if you want to make him chase you!

He won’t be that interested in the things you’re sharing with him, but he’ll get excited about all the things you’re about to share with him in the future. That is how you’ll engancharlo.

Hazle sentir como tu protector

Remember all those movies where a guy protects his girl from her enemies and helps her deal with life’s hardships?

No es casualidad, porque ocurre tanto en la vida real como en el cine (aunque en las películas, su actitud protectora sea a menudo exagerada).

The thing is, every guy wants to know that he’s capable of protecting you! Men LOVE it when you make them feel like they can take care of you and protect you from all those villains and life’s challenges.

Dear ladies, all you need to do is allow them to do so. You need to make your guy feel like he’s your protector even though you’re perfectly capable of taking care of yourself.

By allowing him to show off his strength and help you out, he’ll feel powerful and useful. Through time he’ll become addicted to this feeling, i.e., he’ll become addicted to you.

Ser espontáneo e imprevisible

Recently a guy told me that he could never guess what I would do next. I asked him if he likes that about me, and he said, “Maybe.” We all know that maybe actually means yes, so I took that as a compliment.

If you want to win a guy’s heart and make him want you badly, then you need to learn the art of being spontaneous and unpredictable!

Why? (I’m warning you, I’m going to be brutally honest in the following few sentences): Because guys don’t like boring, generic girls who don’t know how to have fun or girls who take themselves too seriously.

They want to be with a girl who will make them feel alive and always make them wonder what she will do next. They don’t want to be with someone who is predictable in every aspect of their life.

You don’t need to be a reckless and untamed girl to be considered spontaneous and unpredictable. All you need to do is change your behavior and routine from time to time.

Por ejemplo, don’t send him the same generic text messages over and over againcomo ¿Qué te traes entre manos?  ¿Qué tal?

Sé creativo, envíale un vídeo gracioso o un selfie divertido, pregúntale preguntas que invitan a la reflexión que le haga pensar.

So, if you’re wondering how to make him want you over text, that’s how you do it, girl!

Dale espacio para que te eche de menos

Don’t shower him with your undivided attention 24/7, don’t bombard him with one hundred text messages after the first date, don’t insist that he spends all of his free time with you.

En lugar de eso, ¡dale tiempo a solas para que te eche de menos! Sí, ¿sabías que los chicos se enamoran de tu ausencia y no de tu presencia?

They need more time to sort out their feelings, and they can’t do it in your presence. They need some space to figure out how they really feel about you.

If you give him that space, he’ll think of you as a true goddess and, best of all, you’ll haz que piense en ti todo el tiempo! Sí, ha leído bien.

Honestly, if you want a guy to miss you and only think about you, you need to give him some space and show him that you’re not needy or clingy.

Recuerdo cuando perdía la cabeza por un chico, y cuando por fin le di algo de espacio por primera vez, me sentí realmente querida y apreciada.

Now I’m always extra careful about not spending too much time with someone I’m crazy about.

Siéntase seguro y cómodo en su propia piel

Siempre que pienso en la confianza en uno mismo, me imagino a una mujer que camina orgullosa por la calle con una postura erguida y un aura seductora que grita: I’m in love with myself!

Si un chico pasa junto a una mujer así, girará la cabeza al instante y absorberá su personalidad divina llena de mucha autoestima.

Adivina qué, tú también puedes ser esa mujer, ¡sólo si quieres! No, you don’t need to wear heels or skirts to catch his attention.

You can wear pajamas if you want to as long as you’re wearing them with pride and confidence. Nine times out of ten, a guy will not even notice what a girl is wearing, but he will notice her attitude.

Mi consejo es: Don’t worry too much about what you’re wearing but pay attention to how you’re wearing it.

Also, don’t worry too much about what you’re talking to him about but how you’re doing it. You don’t need to always be right to be considered self-confident.

Admitting when you’re wrong is also a strong sign of self-confidence.

Mantener el interés y la pasión

You’re probably thinking to yourself: Stay interested in what? The answer is simple: Stay interested in life and all the small things around you.

Si mantienes el interés, mantendrás el interés, que es la clave para captar y MANTENER su atención.

¿Te gusta dibujar, cantar o jugar con tu mascota? Entonces haz una foto de tu dibujo y enséñasela, o graba un vídeo divertido con tu mascota y publícalo.

Hagas lo que hagas es mejor que no hacer nada. Don’t worry too much about how to make a man want you, but think about living your life to the fullest.

Sigue alimentando tus pasiones y tus relaciones con las personas más cercanas a ti, sigue haciendo cosas que signifiquen mucho para ti, y ÉL lo notará.

He will see that you’re not a passive observer but an active participant in your life, which is the HOTTEST quality one can have.

Entender qué le mueve

¿Crees que sabes lo que quiere en este momento? Si quieres hacer que te desee, tienes que saber qué pasa exactamente por su cabeza.

Have you ever dealt with emotionally unavailable men? If he’s giving you mixed signals, then you know something is off, and he’s not ready to commit or open himself up to you.

En ese caso, lo peor que puedes hacer es seguir presionándole y exigiéndole que conecte contigo.

You need to understand what makes him tick, and you’ll do that by finding the best approach that will naturally draw him to you.

If you know that he’s been hurt before or you notice a few signs of problemas de confianzanecesitas aprender el arte de enamorar a un hombre emocionalmente inaccesible contigo.

In other words, you need to give him some space, and he’ll come to you when he’s ready. He will appreciate your understanding and patience.

En pocas palabras, tienes que saber comunicarte de la manera correcta, y eso hará que él te desee MUCHO.

Invierte (pero no demasiado)

I’m not a relationship expert, but I can tell you for sure that being too invested will only backfire on you (speaking from experience).

I know how much you want him to like you back, but you shouldn’t try too hard to win him.

If you do that, then you’ll no longer be a challenge to him. He will think that he’s already won you, and now he no longer needs to make an effort.

Surprise him from time to time, compliment him, organize a romantic dinner, but don’t make him think that you’ll do it every day. Text him first sometimes but don’t be the one to always initiate conversation.

Be invested but don’t be too invested because he might lose interest.

Si quieres dominar el arte de cómo hacer que te desee, aprende a encontrar un equilibrio entre tu afecto por él y una cantidad razonable de atención y tiempo que debes dedicarle.

Pedir su ayuda o asistencia

I don’t know about you, but I’ve never been the kind of woman to ask men for help or assistance. I’ve always been too stubborn, thinking that I can manage it and that I don’t need their help.

Perhaps I’ve seen it as a game of dominance, and I certainly didn’t want them to win. Boy, was I wrong. I didn’t realize one important thing: Los hombres son los que quieren protegerte.

I didn’t want to allow them to help me with things because I thought this would make me appear weak in their eyes.

Por el contrario, si les pides ayuda, les darás la oportunidad de sentirse poderosos y útiles para ti.

Los hombres quieren saber que son capaces de proteger a su mujer y ayudarla a lidiar con las cosas.

If you tell a man that you have a problem, he will instantly stop doing whatever he’s doing and start thinking about solutions.

It’s in their nature to take care of their women, and all you need to do is allow them to act like superheroes because this will make them want you.

Esto es lo que les motivará a seguir impresionándote con sus habilidades.

Tomar la iniciativa a veces

Did you know that men LOVE women who take initiative from time to time? I’ll explain to you why.
Because this shows self-confidence and, let’s say, dominance.

Also, it shows him that you’re interested and invested.

Men don’t want to always be the ones suggesting or initiating things. If they see that a woman is doing nothing but only waiting for them to do everything, they will lose interest.

It’s the law of the universe. It’s how dating and relationships work. Okay, it’s not really the law of the universe, but it definitely should be.

La reciprocidad es la clave. If he’s always the one asking you on a date, surprise him by being the first one to ask him on a date for a change.

If he’s the one always initiating cuddling and steamy sessions (if you catch my drift), then change the roles and show him how bold and confident you are. Send mensajes de texto sucios para él o elija algunos de estos cosas raras que decirle a tu novio. Muéstrale cuánto lo quieres en persona. Créeme. Esto hará que se vuelva TOTALMENTE loco por ti.

Conoce a sus amigos

Here’s one of the most helpful pieces of advice from me to you: If you want to make him want you, you need to make his friends like you as well.

Let me demonstrate this to you. Let’s say that you’re going to a party with your guy and his friends or just a casual hangout (pizza, movies).

Después de volver a casa, asegúrate de que sus amigos compartan con él sus impresiones sobre ti (sobre todo si es la primera vez que te conocen).

If you haven’t made an effort to meet his friends and socialize with them, they will notice. La mejor manera de ganarte a sus amigos es relajarte, divertirte con ellos y verlos también como tus amigos.

Once your guy hears cool things about you (from his friends’ mouths), he will want you even more.

Te verá como material de noviaY probablemente sus amigos le envidiarán por tener a una mujer tan inspiradora y divertida en su vida.

Sé juguetón

Si quieres ganar a ese tipo, tienes que aprender cómo hablar con un chico de forma lúdica y divertida, tanto virtualmente como en el mundo real.

Cuando se trata de mensajes de texto, la mejor manera de hacer las cosas interesantes es DISFRUTAR enviando mensajes de texto con él.

If you yourself are bored with the texts you’re sending him and the overall conversation, then you know something needs to change. Then you know that you need to step up your game!

Anima las cosas con emojis, GIFs o memes divertidos, y cuéntale esa situación graciosa del trabajo. Sé creativo.

The goal here is to make him want MORE texts from you where he’ll read them with excitement because he’ll never know what you’ll send next.

Mantener las cosas interesantes y juguetonas es uno de los ingredientes más importantes que le harán adicto a ti.

Olvídate de hacerte el duro e ignorar sus mensajes durante tres horas. Hay tantas cosas brillantes formas de hacer que te persiga sin hacerte la duraY mi favorito es ser auténtico.

Sé agradecido

Now you’re probably wondering: how will being thankful make him want you? Let me tell you how.

Let’s say that he does something nice for you or helps you with something. He’ll expect that you say thank you to him as a sign of appreciation for his effort and willingness to ‘be at your service.’

Esto le hará sentirse importante y protector contigo. También le motivará para seguir haciendo todo lo posible por ayudarte en el futuro.

A menudo nos olvidamos de expresar nuestra gratitud por las cosas grandes y pequeñas. Así que recuerda ser agradecido, no sólo por las grandes cosas, sino también por todas esas pequeñas cosas que hace por ti.

Be thankful, and he’ll want to do more good things for you. Be thankful, and you’ll make him want you.

It’s as simple as that. Also, if you’re having difficulties practicing gratitude, here are some amazing frases de agradecimiento para inspirar agradecimiento todo el año

Disfruta de la vida

A woman who knows how to have fun alone, with her guy, or with her friends is a real jewel. Ask any man, and he’ll confirm this.

Let’s be real. Not a single person in the world enjoys being with someone who doesn’t know how to be in the moment and enjoy the little things in life.

If you’re wondering how to make him want you more or how to make him want you again, here’s a recipe for success: Vive tu propia vida.

Have fun with your best friends, discover your passions, follow your heart, dance, and do whatever makes you happy (of course, if it’s not harmful to you or the people around you).

And that’s how you’ll make a man fall for you. He would kill to be with such an inspiring woman. He will want to spend every single minute with you because you know how to enjoy life.

Sabes cómo convertir cada momento en un recuerdo especial para los días venideros.

Sé TÚ

The media often bombards us with all that perfection, which is fake, of course. We begin to think that being something we’re not will bring us happiness and potentially attract that guy or girl we’re into.

Well, it won’t. The only way to win someone is to be you – an imperfect human being with a unique personality.

I’m happy to say that in my current relationship, I don’t have the urge to be anyone else but myself. My love life has always been a huge burden for me, but now I can say for sure that I’ve never been happier.

Después de trabajar la confianza en mí misma, ya no me preocupa lo que los demás piensen de mí. Me siento libre de ser yo misma.

I feel free to tell my partner ‘I love you’ whenever I want to or communicate without overthinking things.

El mundo está lleno de imitadores, así que la forma más fácil de destacar entre la multitud es ser uno mismo. Don’t be perfect. Don’t be anything that others tell you that you should be.

Sé quien realmente eres y él se dará cuenta.

Si quieres que te desee, evita hacer estas 10 cosas:

Don’t be too nice

Do yourself a favor and don’t be one of those girls who would do anything and everything to make their guy happy. Don’t be too nice.

Don’t just nod at every single comment and sentence of theirs. Have your own opinion on things, and don’t be afraid to contradict him.

THAT’S what will make him think that you’re a self-confident woman who knows how to express herself.

Una relación sana o atraer a alguien no consiste en ser demasiado amable, sino en saber comunicar tus ideas y sentimientos.

If you want to learn how to make him want you bad, you’ll need to be more flexible. You’ll need to fall in love with yourself (if you haven’t yet).

If you don’t trust me on this one, then trust these lyrics from one of Billie Eilish’s amazing songs:

“All the good girls go to hell

‘Cause even God herself has enemies

Y una vez que el agua comienza a subir

And heaven’s out of sight

She’ll want the devil on her team…”

Let’s just say that being too nice is overrated, but being yourself and knowing how to express yourself in interesting ways is trending.

Don’t showcase clinginess or neediness

“I was waiting for you to call/text me, but you didn’t! Why do you always ignore me? I need you. I feel so lonely.”

If you’ve ever said some of these sentences or all of the above to a guy, from this day forward, stop doing that. Why? Because it SCREAMS clinginess and neediness.

Recuerda lo que dijimos: You don’t need a guy to make you happy because you’re already happy on your own, and it’s up to him if he wants to join you or not. Either way, you’ll be just fine, and you’ll still have fun with or without him.

A novia necesitada is every guy’s biggest nightmare because it makes them feel pressured. No one likes to feel that way. We all like to have a choice in life.

If your guy feels like he needs to be available for you 24/7, he won’t be happy about it.

But, if you give him some space and show him that you DON’T need him, he’ll be more than happy to join you. It’s just how things work.

Don’t play games

Do you think that playing games with him will make him want you? Think again. The only people who like playing games are players. If you don’t want to attract one, then it’s high time you stop playing games.

Si desea atraer a un hombre de calidad and establish a loving relationship, don’t play games but haz que mate por ser tu novio.

Don’t give him mixed signals or play hard to get. I mean, it’s okay to ignore him from time to time but don’t overdo it.

En lugar de jugar, céntrate en vivir tu mejor vida. Alimenta tu espíritu aventurero, mantente ocupado y haz que tus perfiles en las redes sociales parezcan apasionantes.

By doing all that, he’ll notice that you’re a high-value woman, and he needs to make a serious effort to win you.

By doing that, he’ll see you as a challenge, and he’ll want to prove to you and the world that he’s worthy of being with you.

Of course, you’ll let him do just that.

When we put it like that, you will be playing games but without actually playing games. (I could write a few more complicated sentences at the moment, but I’ll stop myself right here because I don’t want to confuse you.)

Don’t make him your top priority

This one is closely connected with the first ‘Don’t be too nice’ sign. Don’t jump at his every word; don’t make excuses for him, and don’t break your own rules.

Don’t make him your top priority, and you’ll make him wonder why that is so. He will realize that you have so many exciting things happening in your life that you don’t have time to commit to him in full.

He’ll know that you appreciate yourself more than you appreciate him. Also, he’ll know that you love yourself more than him.

My dear friend, that’s called the art of haciendo que le duela por ti. Déjale espacio para que muestre sus habilidades y te colme de afecto.

Don’t be the only one trying hard to make things work. Demand respect and act in accordance with your boundaries.

Don’t pretend to be something you’re not

And don’t pretend to be something you’re not. No, he won’t like you more if you’re wearing flawless makeup, the perfect outfit, shoes, or whatnot.

He will not like you more if you pretend that you’re into things that you’re actually not. Don’t be afraid to be who you really are. Muéstrale lo auténtica y bella que eres por dentro y por fuera.

I have always been a little bit tomboyish, and I really don’t like wearing heels or anything girly like that. Even if I know that a guy likes girly girls, I don’t pretend that I’m one of them because I’m not.

I know that the right one for me will like me the way I am. He won’t mind my natural looks, weird sense of fashion, my flaws, and imperfections.

De hecho, estas son las cosas que los chicos encuentran atractivas en nosotras.

They don’t care about whether you’re wearing makeup or not as long as you feel confident in your own skin. That’s what makes you truly beautiful, and that’s what will make him want you.

Don’t be jealous

¿Está usted en una relación comprometida but have some serious trust issues? Or you’re just insecure by nature? Do you have trouble letting your guy hang out with other women (his female friends)?

Jealousy is one of the leading ‘romance destroyers.’ Don’t be one of those girls who freak out over every single text message a guy receives from other females.

Conozco a una chica así y lo siento por su novio porque ve a todas las mujeres de su vida como una amenaza (porque su ex la engañó).

I’m sure it’s only a matter of time before her guy will decide not to tolerate such behavior anymore.

Si quieres aprender a hacer que te desee, trabaja en tu autoestima y afronta todos los posibles problemas subyacentes (si los hay). Trabaja tu autoestima y tu amor propio.

Fall in love with yourself first, and he’ll fall in love with you. Don’t let his actions make you jealous or insecure (if there is no reason for that).

If there’s anything I’ve learned so far, it’s the following: Los chicos odian el drama. Stay away from that, and you’ll do just fine.

Don’t stalk him

No matter how curious you are about his life and what he’s doing at the moment, DON’T stalk him!

Seriously, just don’t. If you do, he’ll think of you as being a legit creep, which is the last thing you want him to think, right? Right.

Esta norma también se aplica a las redes sociales. I know how tempting it is to spend half of the day going through his interesting posts and those cute selfies – been there, done that (and I’m not really proud of it).

Si te pasas la mitad del tiempo acosándole en persona o en las redes sociales, ¿qué le dirás cuando te haga la siguiente pregunta? ¿Qué has estado haciendo?

Will you tell him the truth (that you’ve been fantasizing about him and following his every move)?

That you know everything that’s going on in his life, that you’ve memorized every single outfit on his pics, and you know which colors match his face and aura perfectly?

Of course, you won’t say that. Why? Because it would be creepy.

So, don’t stalk him, but live your own life so that you have so many exciting things to tell him the next time he asks you: ¿Qué has estado haciendo?

Consejo extra: Mantén tu relación fuera de las redes sociales (you’ll thank me later).

Don’t overthink or analyze every single thing he says and does

Yes, you should definitely pay attention to his words and actions. Otherwise, how would you know that he’s into you or when something’s off, right?

But you shouldn’t overdo it because if you do, this will only make things worse. Pay attention to his body language, but don’t overthink it.

Don’t spend your nights trying to decipher that one little thing he did that annoyed you a lot.

I can assure you that he’s probably not even aware of any of that. I understand that it’s in our female nature to complicate things and overanalyze them.

We always think that there must be a legit reason behind every single action. And if we can’t find one, we’ll invent one just so that we have some material to overthink.

Si se convence a sí mismo de que algo es cierto (aunque no lo sea), actuará de acuerdo con sus creencias, lo que no hará sino confundirle.

Para que te resulte más fácil pensar más de la cuenta, aquí tienes algunos consejos auténticos. señales del lenguaje corporal de que le gustas en secreto:

• Siempre mira hacia ti.
• De repente se siente cohibido por su aspecto.
• Te toca accidentalmente.
• Le cambia la voz.
• Tiene las pupilas dilatadas y levanta las cejas.

Don’t text him or call him constantly (especially if he ignores you)

En cómo hacer que te quiera de nuevo en poco tiempo? Entonces olvídate de doble envío de mensajes...constantemente enviándole mensajes o llamándolo.

Permítele vivir su propia vida y dale espacio para que piense en lo que realmente quiere.

Constantly demanding his attention will only let him know that you’re not living life to the fullest, which is not an attractive quality to have at all.

Think about all the exciting things you could do instead of thinking about him or texting him. Don’t put your life on hold just because you like that one guy.

Let him wonder what you’re doing at the moment. Give him some space for curiosity, and you’ll win him, and you’ll haz que te desee back in record time – the power of mystery.

Don’t put up with stuff you shouldn’t just because you like him

This rule applies to every single woman out there regardless of if you’re in a long-term relationship, if he’s your ex-boyfriend, or if you’re in una relación a distancia.

In other words, don’t be desperate! Don’t be willing to do anything to make him want you. If you’re not okay with something he does, let him know.

Don’t tolerate his bad behavior or lame excuses. You’re better than that. Once he sees that he can’t manipulate you because you’re not naive, he’ll be scared of losing you.

Yup, this will motivate him to be his best if he really cares about you. And if he doesn’t, there are plenty of other guys who will. I call this ‘the art of natural selection.’

Véase también: 22 cosas que hay que saber sobre enrollarse varias veces con la misma persona

Relájese y diviértase

Don’t worry too much about his body language, his words, or how to make him want you. Just have fun. Remember that dating and being in a relationship is a process that you should enjoy and no pensar demasiado.

Alguien me dijo una vez: “97% of the things you worry about don’t even happen.” So, don’t worry about those things.

Preocúpese por su felicidad, su bienestar y por pasar tiempo de calidad con sus seres queridos, y todo lo demás encajará.