Come farsi desiderare: 31 modi collaudati per farlo innamorare di te

Vi state chiedendo come Fatti desiderare da lui? Oppure come fargli sentire la tua mancanza and want you back? Today you’ll learn everything you need to know about l'arte di farsi inseguire e si attaccheranno a te come la colla!

Let me guess what’s going on in your head right now: “If I text him first, he’ll probably think of me as desperate.

If I put him on a pedestal, he’ll probably take me for granted. Seriously, will anyone tell me Cosa vogliono gli uomini in una donna?”

Non molto tempo fa, pensavo alle stesse cose e mi ponevo le stesse domande.

I’ve realized that my biggest mistake was pressuring and “begging” un uomo che si accorga di me, il che è un'enorme disdetta in tutti i sensi del termine.

I’ve learned the hard way that l'unico modo per Fatti desiderare da lui è di dargli un po' di spazio per conquistarti! Gli uomini si innamorano di donne che hanno paura di perdere.

Gli uomini AMANO le donne sicure di sé che sanno quello che vogliono e che non si accontentano mai di meno di quello che meritano.
Know what you want, and you’ll make him want you!

Show him that you’re un tipo di donna che capita una volta nella vita, and you’ll Fatti desiderare da lui!

Stop overthinking things and realize that you don’t need to be perfect to fit the definition of his dream girl.

Don’t beg for respect and appreciation, but demand it. Don’t try hard to hide your imperfections, but embrace them. Be a challenge, and that’s how you’ll far sì che ti insegua!

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Essere spensierati

I don’t know about you ladies, but I know for sure that I DON’T need a man to make me happy. Do you know why? Because I am happy with or without him.

Comportarsi in modo spensierato significa essere soddisfatte di se stesse e non aver bisogno di un uomo per sentirsi complete. Quando se ne accorgerà, vi vedrà come una sfida. Sarà pronto a fare qualsiasi cosa per conquistarvi.

Now, being carefree is not about acting like you don’t care. It’s about godersi la vita e fare ciò che ci rende felici.

Le ragazze spensierate e rilassate sono le più interessanti da frequentare.

You could look like a model on the cover of a magazine, but if he senses that you’re having difficulties living your life and being who you are, he will not chase you.

Impressionatelo con la vostra intelligenza e creatività

Sì, sappiamo tutti che i ragazzi sono creature visive, ma ci sono altri modi per fare colpo su di loro oltre all'aspetto fisico. Fidatevi di me. Nessun uomo può rimanere indifferente a una donna spiritosa, affascinante e creativa.

Impressionate un ragazzo con la vostra intelligenza e creatività e lui si attaccherà a voi come una colla.

He will enjoy your every conversation (virtual or face-to-face), and he will do his best to make you realize that he’s the one for you.

Again, good looks may attract him, but it’s your personality that will keep him hooked. Contradict him, have powerful arguments, tease him, and be creative in every field and you’ll make him want you BADLY.

Permettetegli di intrattenervi

Girls often forget that it’s not their job to keep their men entertained. Of course, this doesn’t mean that they should never crack a joke and make men laugh, but it means they shouldn’t try too hard.

Instead, allow him to entertain you. Yup, let him make you laugh, and he’ll be determined to become the only man who’ll ever make you laugh (maybe I’ve exaggerated it a little bit, but you get the idea).

Compliment his great sense of humor, and you’ll make him feel special for being capable of making you laugh.

Remember that guys are really sensitive about this. A girl enjoying their company is every guy’s biggest achievement!

Stabilire i confini

Indipendentemente dal fatto che vogliate far tornare il vostro ex o che vogliate attrarre qualcuno di nuovo, ricordate di stabilire sempre dei limiti. Che cosa significa?

It means that you shouldn’t let them take you for granted or that you go out of your way only to please them.

Setting boundaries will show them that you’re a strong, independent woman, and you won’t tolerate disrespect or him mistreating you.

If he does something you’re not okay with, make sure to let him know. Don’t make him think that you’ll always be there for him no matter what and no matter how he treats you.

Also, don’t make excuses for his behavior. Expect him to explain himself and apologize for his actions. If he doesn’t, then you know he’s not worthy of being with you (and he’ll know that as well).

Prendersi cura di sé mentalmente e fisicamente

I understand. When you really like someone, you can’t help but think about them 24/7, focus only on their needs, and daydream about being with them when you’re not.

Tutto questo può farvi trascurare i vostri bisogni. Quando smetterete di dare priorità a voi stesse, lui inizierà a darvi per scontate.

Don’t EVER forget to put your well-being in first place no matter how much you like him. Take care of yourself, mentally and physically.

Meditate, hit the gym, go for a walk, read a good book… Don’t let negative things and people drain you. Taking care of yourself means investing in your own happiness.

Ricordate le seguenti parole: NESSUN UOMO può resistere a una donna che trasuda sicurezza e si sente bene nella propria pelle!

Essere ambiziosi

Avete degli hobby interessanti? Quali sono le vostre passioni? Se avete bisogno di più tempo per pensare alle risposte a queste due domande, allora qualcosa deve cambiare.

Pensate a tutte le cose che vi piace fare nella vita. Quali sono le cose che vi fanno brillare gli occhi di gioia quando ne parlate? Ecco, queste sono le cose che lo attireranno.

Non c'è niente di più potente di una donna ambiziosa pronta a conquistare il mondo e a fare qualsiasi cosa (ok, non proprio qualsiasi cosa) per raggiungere i suoi obiettivi e trasformare i suoi sogni in realtà.

Si dice che siamo ciò che pensiamo. I nostri pensieri rappresentano i nostri desideri. I nostri desideri diventano azioni e le azioni diventano risultati.

Ogni uomo vuole conquistare una donna ambiziosa, appassionata e di successo, perché sa che ci vuole una vera abilità per riuscirci! Questa è la risposta alla vostra domanda: Come si fa a farsi desiderare?

Essere misteriosi

Un errore comune che molte ragazze fanno quando si tratta di ragazzi è quello di rivelare troppe informazioni su di sé.

Con questo intendo dire che bisogna raccontare tutto, dal cibo preferito ai ricordi divertenti dell'infanzia.

It’s okay to share a few things with a guy you like because how else would you get to know each other, right? But you shouldn’t overdo it.

Here’s one of the most helpful Consigli per mantenerlo interessato a voi per sempre: Remain mysterious. Give him information about you bit by bit, but don’t serve it all at once to him on a plate.

Don’t share every single detail from your life with him. I understand that you may feel the urge to share everything with him, but still, don’t do it if you want to make him chase you!

He won’t be that interested in the things you’re sharing with him, but he’ll get excited about all the things you’re about to share with him in the future. That is how you’ll farlo appassionare.

Farlo sentire come un protettore

Remember all those movies where a guy protects his girl from her enemies and helps her deal with life’s hardships?

Questo non è un caso, perché accade sia nella vita reale che nei film (anche se nei film il loro atteggiamento protettivo è spesso esagerato).

The thing is, every guy wants to know that he’s capable of protecting you! Men LOVE it when you make them feel like they can take care of you and protect you from all those villains and life’s challenges.

Dear ladies, all you need to do is allow them to do so. You need to make your guy feel like he’s your protector even though you’re perfectly capable of taking care of yourself.

By allowing him to show off his strength and help you out, he’ll feel powerful and useful. Through time he’ll become addicted to this feeling, i.e., he’ll become addicted to you.

Essere spontanei e imprevedibili

Recently a guy told me that he could never guess what I would do next. I asked him if he likes that about me, and he said, “Maybe.” We all know that maybe actually means yes, so I took that as a compliment.

If you want to win a guy’s heart and make him want you badly, then you need to learn the art of being spontaneous and unpredictable!

Why? (I’m warning you, I’m going to be brutally honest in the following few sentences): Because guys don’t like boring, generic girls who don’t know how to have fun or girls who take themselves too seriously.

They want to be with a girl who will make them feel alive and always make them wonder what she will do next. They don’t want to be with someone who is predictable in every aspect of their life.

You don’t need to be a reckless and untamed girl to be considered spontaneous and unpredictable. All you need to do is change your behavior and routine from time to time.

Ad esempio, don’t send him the same generic text messages over and over again, come Cosa stai facendo?  Come stai?

Siate creativi, inviategli un video divertente o un selfie buffo, chiedetegli domande che fanno riflettere che lo farà riflettere.

So, if you’re wondering how to make him want you over text, that’s how you do it, girl!

Lasciategli un po' di spazio per sentire la vostra mancanza

Don’t shower him with your undivided attention 24/7, don’t bombard him with one hundred text messages after the first date, don’t insist that he spends all of his free time with you.

Invece, concedetegli un po' di tempo da solo per sentire la vostra mancanza! Già, sapevate che i ragazzi si innamorano della vostra assenza e non della vostra presenza?

They need more time to sort out their feelings, and they can’t do it in your presence. They need some space to figure out how they really feel about you.

If you give him that space, he’ll think of you as a true goddess and, best of all, you’ll far sì che lui pensi sempre a te! Sì, avete letto bene.

Honestly, if you want a guy to miss you and only think about you, you need to give him some space and show him that you’re not needy or clingy.

Ricordo quando stavo perdendo la testa per un ragazzo e quando finalmente gli ho dato spazio per la prima volta, mi sono sentita veramente amata e apprezzata.

Now I’m always extra careful about not spending too much time with someone I’m crazy about.

Essere sicuri e a proprio agio nella propria pelle

Quando penso alla fiducia in se stessi, immagino una donna che cammina fieramente per strada con una postura dritta e un'aura seducente che grida: I’m in love with myself!

Se un ragazzo passa davanti a una donna di questo tipo, gira immediatamente la testa e assorbe la sua personalità divina piena di autostima.

Indovinate un po': anche voi potete essere quella donna, solo se lo volete! No, you don’t need to wear heels or skirts to catch his attention.

You can wear pajamas if you want to as long as you’re wearing them with pride and confidence. Nine times out of ten, a guy will not even notice what a girl is wearing, but he will notice her attitude.

Il mio consiglio è: Don’t worry too much about what you’re wearing but pay attention to how you’re wearing it.

Also, don’t worry too much about what you’re talking to him about but how you’re doing it. You don’t need to always be right to be considered self-confident.

Admitting when you’re wrong is also a strong sign of self-confidence.

Rimanere interessati e appassionati

You’re probably thinking to yourself: Stay interested in what? The answer is simple: Stay interested in life and all the small things around you.

Rimanendo interessati, rimarrete interessanti, il che è la chiave per catturare e mantenere la sua attenzione!

Vi piace disegnare, cantare o giocare con il vostro animale domestico? Allora fotografate il vostro disegno e mostrateglielo, oppure fate un video divertente con il vostro animale e pubblicatelo.

Qualsiasi cosa si faccia è meglio che non fare nulla. Don’t worry too much about how to make a man want you, but think about living your life to the fullest.

Continuate a coltivare le vostre passioni e le relazioni con le persone più vicine a voi, continuate a fare cose che significano molto per voi, e LUI se ne accorgerà.

He will see that you’re not a passive observer but an active participant in your life, which is the HOTTEST quality one can have.

Capire cosa lo fa scattare

Pensate di sapere cosa vuole in questo momento? Se volete che lui vi desideri, dovete sapere cosa sta succedendo esattamente nella sua testa.

Have you ever dealt with emotionally unavailable men? If he’s giving you mixed signals, then you know something is off, and he’s not ready to commit or open himself up to you.

In questo caso, la cosa peggiore che possiate fare è continuare a spingerlo e a pretendere che si metta in contatto con voi.

You need to understand what makes him tick, and you’ll do that by finding the best approach that will naturally draw him to you.

If you know that he’s been hurt before or you notice a few signs of problemi di fiduciaè necessario imparare l'arte di Far innamorare un uomo emotivamente non disponibile con voi.

In other words, you need to give him some space, and he’ll come to you when he’s ready. He will appreciate your understanding and patience.

In poche parole, dovete saper comunicare nel modo giusto, e questo gli farà venire una gran voglia di voi.

Essere investiti (ma non troppo)

I’m not a relationship expert, but I can tell you for sure that being too invested will only backfire on you (speaking from experience).

I know how much you want him to like you back, but you shouldn’t try too hard to win him.

If you do that, then you’ll no longer be a challenge to him. He will think that he’s already won you, and now he no longer needs to make an effort.

Surprise him from time to time, compliment him, organize a romantic dinner, but don’t make him think that you’ll do it every day. Text him first sometimes but don’t be the one to always initiate conversation.

Be invested but don’t be too invested because he might lose interest.

Se volete padroneggiare l'arte di farsi desiderare, imparate a trovare un equilibrio tra l'affetto che provate per lui e una quantità ragionevole di attenzioni e tempo da dedicargli.

Chiedere il suo aiuto o la sua assistenza

I don’t know about you, but I’ve never been the kind of woman to ask men for help or assistance. I’ve always been too stubborn, thinking that I can manage it and that I don’t need their help.

Perhaps I’ve seen it as a game of dominance, and I certainly didn’t want them to win. Boy, was I wrong. I didn’t realize one important thing: Gli uomini sono quelli che vogliono proteggerti.

I didn’t want to allow them to help me with things because I thought this would make me appear weak in their eyes.

Al contrario, se chiedete loro aiuto, darete loro l'opportunità di sentirsi potenti e utili per voi.

Gli uomini vogliono sapere che sono in grado di proteggere la propria donna e aiutarla ad affrontare le cose.

If you tell a man that you have a problem, he will instantly stop doing whatever he’s doing and start thinking about solutions.

It’s in their nature to take care of their women, and all you need to do is allow them to act like superheroes because this will make them want you.

È questo che li motiverà a continuare a stupirvi con le loro capacità.

Prendere l'iniziativa a volte

Did you know that men LOVE women who take initiative from time to time? I’ll explain to you why.
Because this shows self-confidence and, let’s say, dominance.

Also, it shows him that you’re interested and invested.

Men don’t want to always be the ones suggesting or initiating things. If they see that a woman is doing nothing but only waiting for them to do everything, they will lose interest.

It’s the law of the universe. It’s how dating and relationships work. Okay, it’s not really the law of the universe, but it definitely should be.

La reciprocità è la chiave. If he’s always the one asking you on a date, surprise him by being the first one to ask him on a date for a change.

If he’s the one always initiating cuddling and steamy sessions (if you catch my drift), then change the roles and show him how bold and confident you are. Send messaggi di testo sporchi per lui o scegliere alcuni di questi Cose strane da dire al proprio ragazzo. Mostrategli quanto lo volete di persona. Fidatevi di me. Questo lo farà impazzire di brutto per voi.

Incontrare i suoi amici

Here’s one of the most helpful pieces of advice from me to you: If you want to make him want you, you need to make his friends like you as well.

Let me demonstrate this to you. Let’s say that you’re going to a party with your guy and his friends or just a casual hangout (pizza, movies).

Dopo essere tornati a casa, assicuratevi che i suoi amici condividano con lui le loro impressioni su di voi (soprattutto se è la prima volta che vi incontrano).

If you haven’t made an effort to meet his friends and socialize with them, they will notice. Il modo migliore per conquistare i suoi amici è rilassarsi, divertirsi con loro e vederli anche come amici.

Once your guy hears cool things about you (from his friends’ mouths), he will want you even more.

Vi vedrà come materiale per la fidanzatae i suoi amici saranno probabilmente gelosi di lui per avere una donna così stimolante e divertente nella sua vita.

Siate giocosi

Se si vuole conquistare quell'uomo, è necessario imparare come parlare con un ragazzo in modo divertente e giocoso sia virtualmente che nel mondo reale.

Quando si tratta di messaggiare, il modo migliore per rendere le cose interessanti è quello di DIVERTIRSI a messaggiare con lui.

If you yourself are bored with the texts you’re sending him and the overall conversation, then you know something needs to change. Then you know that you need to step up your game!

Rendi le cose più vivaci con emoji, GIF o meme giocosi e raccontagli di una situazione divertente al lavoro. Siate creativi.

The goal here is to make him want MORE texts from you where he’ll read them with excitement because he’ll never know what you’ll send next.

Mantenere le cose interessanti e giocose è uno degli ingredienti più importanti che lo renderanno dipendente da voi.

Dimenticatevi di fare i difficili e di ignorare i suoi messaggi per tre ore. Ci sono così tanti brillanti modi per farvi inseguire senza fare i difficilie la mia preferita è quella di essere se stessi in modo autentico.

Siate grati

Now you’re probably wondering: how will being thankful make him want you? Let me tell you how.

Let’s say that he does something nice for you or helps you with something. He’ll expect that you say thank you to him as a sign of appreciation for his effort and willingness to ‘be at your service.’

Questo lo farà sentire importante e protettivo nei vostri confronti. Inoltre, lo motiverà a fare del suo meglio per aiutarvi anche in futuro.

Spesso dimentichiamo di esprimere la nostra gratitudine per le cose piccole e grandi. Ricordatevi quindi di essere grati non solo per le grandi cose, ma anche per tutte le piccole cose che fa per voi.

Be thankful, and he’ll want to do more good things for you. Be thankful, and you’ll make him want you.

It’s as simple as that. Also, if you’re having difficulties practicing gratitude, here are some amazing citazioni di gratitudine per ispirare gratitudine tutto l'anno!

Godersi la vita

A woman who knows how to have fun alone, with her guy, or with her friends is a real jewel. Ask any man, and he’ll confirm this.

Let’s be real. Not a single person in the world enjoys being with someone who doesn’t know how to be in the moment and enjoy the little things in life.

If you’re wondering how to make him want you more or how to make him want you again, here’s a recipe for success: Vivere la propria vita.

Have fun with your best friends, discover your passions, follow your heart, dance, and do whatever makes you happy (of course, if it’s not harmful to you or the people around you).

And that’s how you’ll make a man fall for you. He would kill to be with such an inspiring woman. He will want to spend every single minute with you because you know how to enjoy life.

Sapete come trasformare ogni momento in un ricordo speciale per i giorni a venire.

Siate VOI

The media often bombards us with all that perfection, which is fake, of course. We begin to think that being something we’re not will bring us happiness and potentially attract that guy or girl we’re into.

Well, it won’t. The only way to win someone is to be you – an imperfect human being with a unique personality.

I’m happy to say that in my current relationship, I don’t have the urge to be anyone else but myself. My love life has always been a huge burden for me, but now I can say for sure that I’ve never been happier.

Dopo aver lavorato sulla fiducia in me stessa, non mi preoccupo più di ciò che gli altri pensano di me. Mi sento libera di essere me stessa.

I feel free to tell my partner ‘I love you’ whenever I want to or communicate without overthinking things.

Il mondo è pieno di imitatori, quindi il modo più semplice per distinguersi dalla massa è essere se stessi. Don’t be perfect. Don’t be anything that others tell you that you should be.

Siate chi siete veramente e lui lo noterà sicuramente.

Se vuoi che lui ti desideri, evita di fare queste 10 cose:

Don’t be too nice

Do yourself a favor and don’t be one of those girls who would do anything and everything to make their guy happy. Don’t be too nice.

Don’t just nod at every single comment and sentence of theirs. Have your own opinion on things, and don’t be afraid to contradict him.

THAT’S what will make him think that you’re a self-confident woman who knows how to express herself.

Per avere una relazione sana o per attrarre qualcuno non bisogna essere troppo gentili, ma saper comunicare le proprie idee e i propri sentimenti.

If you want to learn how to make him want you bad, you’ll need to be more flexible. You’ll need to fall in love with yourself (if you haven’t yet).

If you don’t trust me on this one, then trust these lyrics from one of Billie Eilish’s amazing songs:

“All the good girls go to hell

‘Cause even God herself has enemies

E quando l'acqua inizia a salire

And heaven’s out of sight

She’ll want the devil on her team…”

Let’s just say that being too nice is overrated, but being yourself and knowing how to express yourself in interesting ways is trending.

Don’t showcase clinginess or neediness

“I was waiting for you to call/text me, but you didn’t! Why do you always ignore me? I need you. I feel so lonely.”

If you’ve ever said some of these sentences or all of the above to a guy, from this day forward, stop doing that. Why? Because it SCREAMS clinginess and neediness.

Ricordate quello che abbiamo detto: You don’t need a guy to make you happy because you’re already happy on your own, and it’s up to him if he wants to join you or not. Either way, you’ll be just fine, and you’ll still have fun with or without him.

A fidanzata bisognosa is every guy’s biggest nightmare because it makes them feel pressured. No one likes to feel that way. We all like to have a choice in life.

If your guy feels like he needs to be available for you 24/7, he won’t be happy about it.

But, if you give him some space and show him that you DON’T need him, he’ll be more than happy to join you. It’s just how things work.

Don’t play games

Do you think that playing games with him will make him want you? Think again. The only people who like playing games are players. If you don’t want to attract one, then it’s high time you stop playing games.

Se si vuole attirare un uomo di qualità and establish a loving relationship, don’t play games but farlo uccidere per essere il tuo fidanzato.

Don’t give him mixed signals or play hard to get. I mean, it’s okay to ignore him from time to time but don’t overdo it.

Invece di giocare, concentratevi sulla vostra vita migliore. Nutrite il vostro spirito avventuroso, tenetevi occupati e fate in modo che i vostri profili sui social network siano entusiasmanti.

By doing all that, he’ll notice that you’re a high-value woman, and he needs to make a serious effort to win you.

By doing that, he’ll see you as a challenge, and he’ll want to prove to you and the world that he’s worthy of being with you.

Of course, you’ll let him do just that.

When we put it like that, you will be playing games but without actually playing games. (I could write a few more complicated sentences at the moment, but I’ll stop myself right here because I don’t want to confuse you.)

Don’t make him your top priority

This one is closely connected with the first ‘Don’t be too nice’ sign. Don’t jump at his every word; don’t make excuses for him, and don’t break your own rules.

Don’t make him your top priority, and you’ll make him wonder why that is so. He will realize that you have so many exciting things happening in your life that you don’t have time to commit to him in full.

He’ll know that you appreciate yourself more than you appreciate him. Also, he’ll know that you love yourself more than him.

My dear friend, that’s called the art of facendolo soffrire per te. Lasciategli un po' di spazio per mostrare le sue capacità e per riempirvi di affetto.

Don’t be the only one trying hard to make things work. Demand respect and act in accordance with your boundaries.

Don’t pretend to be something you’re not

And don’t pretend to be something you’re not. No, he won’t like you more if you’re wearing flawless makeup, the perfect outfit, shoes, or whatnot.

He will not like you more if you pretend that you’re into things that you’re actually not. Don’t be afraid to be who you really are. Mostrategli quanto siete autentici e belli dentro e fuori.

I have always been a little bit tomboyish, and I really don’t like wearing heels or anything girly like that. Even if I know that a guy likes girly girls, I don’t pretend that I’m one of them because I’m not.

I know that the right one for me will like me the way I am. He won’t mind my natural looks, weird sense of fashion, my flaws, and imperfections.

In effetti, sono queste le cose che i ragazzi trovano attraenti in noi.

They don’t care about whether you’re wearing makeup or not as long as you feel confident in your own skin. That’s what makes you truly beautiful, and that’s what will make him want you.

Don’t be jealous

Siete in una situazione di lungo periodo relazione impegnata but have some serious trust issues? Or you’re just insecure by nature? Do you have trouble letting your guy hang out with other women (his female friends)?

Jealousy is one of the leading ‘romance destroyers.’ Don’t be one of those girls who freak out over every single text message a guy receives from other females.

Conosco una ragazza del genere e mi dispiace per il suo ragazzo perché vede ogni singola donna nella sua vita come una minaccia (perché il suo ex l'ha tradita).

I’m sure it’s only a matter of time before her guy will decide not to tolerate such behavior anymore.

Se volete imparare a farvi desiderare, lavorate sulla vostra autostima e affrontate ogni possibile problema di fondo (se ce ne sono). Lavorate sull'autostima e sull'amore per voi stesse.

Fall in love with yourself first, and he’ll fall in love with you. Don’t let his actions make you jealous or insecure (if there is no reason for that).

If there’s anything I’ve learned so far, it’s the following: I ragazzi odiano i drammi. Stay away from that, and you’ll do just fine.

Don’t stalk him

No matter how curious you are about his life and what he’s doing at the moment, DON’T stalk him!

Seriously, just don’t. If you do, he’ll think of you as being a legit creep, which is the last thing you want him to think, right? Right.

Questa regola si applica anche ai social media. I know how tempting it is to spend half of the day going through his interesting posts and those cute selfies – been there, done that (and I’m not really proud of it).

Se passate metà del vostro tempo a perseguitarlo di persona o sui social media, cosa gli direte quando vi farà la seguente domanda: Che cosa hai fatto?

Will you tell him the truth (that you’ve been fantasizing about him and following his every move)?

That you know everything that’s going on in his life, that you’ve memorized every single outfit on his pics, and you know which colors match his face and aura perfectly?

Of course, you won’t say that. Why? Because it would be creepy.

So, don’t stalk him, but live your own life so that you have so many exciting things to tell him the next time he asks you: Che cosa hai fatto?

Un consiglio in più: Tenete la vostra relazione lontana dai social media (you’ll thank me later).

Don’t overthink or analyze every single thing he says and does

Yes, you should definitely pay attention to his words and actions. Otherwise, how would you know that he’s into you or when something’s off, right?

But you shouldn’t overdo it because if you do, this will only make things worse. Pay attention to his body language, but don’t overthink it.

Don’t spend your nights trying to decipher that one little thing he did that annoyed you a lot.

I can assure you that he’s probably not even aware of any of that. I understand that it’s in our female nature to complicate things and overanalyze them.

We always think that there must be a legit reason behind every single action. And if we can’t find one, we’ll invent one just so that we have some material to overthink.

Se vi convincete che qualcosa è vero (anche se non lo è), agirete in accordo con le vostre convinzioni, il che non farà altro che renderlo confuso.

Per facilitarvi il compito quando si tratta di pensare troppo, ecco alcuni esempi autentici segnali del linguaggio del corpo che gli piaci in segreto:

• È sempre rivolto verso di voi.
• Diventa improvvisamente consapevole del proprio aspetto.
• Ti tocca per sbaglio.
• La sua voce cambia.
• Ha le pupille dilatate e alza le sopracciglia.

Don’t text him or call him constantly (especially if he ignores you)

Chiedersi come fargliela pagare in poco tempo? Allora dimenticatevi di doppio sms, mandandogli continuamente messaggi o chiamandolo.

Permettetegli di vivere la sua vita e dategli un po' di spazio per pensare a ciò che vuole davvero.

Constantly demanding his attention will only let him know that you’re not living life to the fullest, which is not an attractive quality to have at all.

Think about all the exciting things you could do instead of thinking about him or texting him. Don’t put your life on hold just because you like that one guy.

Let him wonder what you’re doing at the moment. Give him some space for curiosity, and you’ll win him, and you’ll Fatti desiderare da lui back in record time – the power of mystery.

Don’t put up with stuff you shouldn’t just because you like him

This rule applies to every single woman out there regardless of if you’re in a long-term relationship, if he’s your ex-boyfriend, or if you’re in una relazione a distanza.

In other words, don’t be desperate! Don’t be willing to do anything to make him want you. If you’re not okay with something he does, let him know.

Don’t tolerate his bad behavior or lame excuses. You’re better than that. Once he sees that he can’t manipulate you because you’re not naive, he’ll be scared of losing you.

Yup, this will motivate him to be his best if he really cares about you. And if he doesn’t, there are plenty of other guys who will. I call this ‘the art of natural selection.’

Vedi anche: 22 cose da sapere su come rimorchiare più volte con la stessa persona

Rilassatevi e divertitevi!

Don’t worry too much about his body language, his words, or how to make him want you. Just have fun. Remember that dating and being in a relationship is a process that you should enjoy and non pensare troppo.

Una volta qualcuno mi ha detto: “97% of the things you worry about don’t even happen.” So, don’t worry about those things.

Preoccupatevi della vostra felicità, del vostro benessere e di trascorrere del tempo di qualità con i vostri cari, e tutto il resto andrà al suo posto.