Así es como vas a perderla

¿Cómo puedes no ver que eres todo lo que ella siempre quiso?

Dios sabe cuántas chicas hay ahí fuera, como ella, mirando el móvil esperando que les contestes. Pero no hay respuesta.

Todas esas redes sociales, ¿y para qué? ¿Para que pudieras ignorarla de 10 maneras diferentes?

¿Estás cansado de estar en un pedestal? Genial, porque pronto te bajará de él.

You see, she’s not a quitter. She is a fighter. She is a go-getter. She has everything in her life figured out. Everything but you.

You’re the only enigma she’s struggling with. She’s ready to give you all the love she has and to let you in her life, but it takes two to dance the tango.

The journey of life awaits you; the only thing you need to do is get on board. And you’re still standing there frozen.

You were (and you probably still are) her first option, the only option she sees and yet you go out there playing games—hard to get and playing with her feelings.

Porque sabes que puedes. Tienes tanto poder sobre ella. Ella te dio ese poder porque le prometiste las estrellas. Lo que obtuvo hasta ahora fue sólo polvo.

She needs you to let her know you’re there. To show her you care. 

What she appreciates the most is the effort you make for her. An effort to see her, to let her know you’re thinking of her.

And she’s ready to hold onto you until you’re ready for as long as you need. But if you show her that you will never be ready, she will walk away. 

“You don’t have to tramposo perder a tu chica o a tu mujer. Puedes perderla por la falta de comunicación, atención y falta de respeto.

It’s not all about what you do, sometimes it’s about what you DON’T do.” – Chris Sain Jr.

Blowing hot and cold may make you feel supreme, but it will backfire. You’ve done your best to feed her demons and insecurities. She keeps reaching for you, but you pretend not to see her.

En cada mirada que te dirige hay una historia que contar. ¿Eres analfabeto? ¿O simplemente eres nervioso?

She would’ve been gone a long time ago, but you keep doing the same thing over and over again—when you see her pulling away, you show up and it’s all rainbows and butterflies for a while.

The pattern is always the same: you come back, make a promise you’ll be there, kiss and hug and then you’re out again.

Nevertheless, she’s still there. She’s still hoping the two of you are meant to be. But, it won’t be long before se da cuenta de su valor y decide patearte de su cabeza.

What you fail to realize is that she’ll get tired eventually.

And then…

No habrá nadie que luche por tu atención. Ya no habrá nadie que luche por ti. No habrá una respuesta rápida a tus mensajes (si decides enviar uno o cuando lo hagas).

Her giving up doesn’t mean her stopping to care for you. It’s just that there is a certain amount of yourself you can give in vain, and she already gave herself all in.

Don’t wait until you’ve lost her to realize what she means to you.

You know she’s the right one—but you are not fighting for her.

It’s like you enjoy the game that you’re playing. The only problem is that you’re oblivious of her strength.

As much as she’s strong enough to love you unconditionally, that is how much she is capable of leaving you.

Just because she didn’t do it yet, it doesn’t mean she won’t do it at all.

There is someone out there who’s gonna give her the love she deserves.