Si alguna vez tiene la oportunidad salir con una chica de personalidad extrovertida pero de mente ansiosa, you should know that she won’t be like all the other girls you used to date before. She is the one who will worry about the slightest thing while trying to look happy and cheerful.

Hay algunas cosas a las que debes prestar atención, así que sigue leyendo.

1. Le gustan los pequeños gestos

Se siente abrumada por las pequeñas cosas porque pueden alegrarle el día. Tanto si le preparas la comida como si la llamas para saber cómo le ha ido el día, se derretirá. Puede que a veces se olvide de agradecerte todas las atenciones que le prestas, pero tienes que saber que lo dice en serio.

2. Es dura consigo misma

She just can’t shake off those feelings of insecurities. She thinks that she is not good enough and that there are things in her life that she has to do better. Even if she sees that she is better from the rest of the people, there will be a small worm of doubt somewhere deep down telling her that she can do it better. That’s why it is very difficult for her to achieve true happiness.

3. Necesita su propio tiempo y espacio

A girl like this is not simple. She has some phases of her life when she doesn’t want to communicate with others and when she feels better on her own. That is called a restart. But after she gets herself together again she can be the same cheerful (and careful) girl like she was before. She learned in time that a life like that is what she needs and she won’t change for anyone.

4. Está ansiosa

Her mind is anxious and she can’t do anything about it. Even if she wants to relax and enjoy life like other people she can’t because there is that small voice in her head warning her of potential danger. That’s simply her lifestyle and she accepts things the way they are.

5. She doesn’t like small chat

Meeting new people can sometimes be a pain in the butt for her. Not because she is a people hater but because it takes a hell of a lot of time for her to actually relax and start talking. That’s why she sometimes cancels her plans at the last moment. She thinks that she is not fun or interesting enough to entertain people.

6. Nunca te hará daño intencionadamente

She has been through so much shit in her life and she doesn’t want you to feel that way. That’s why será sobreprotectora e incluso preocuparse por la gente que le hace daño. Qué bueno, ¿verdad?

7. Odia las reuniones sociales

La gente puede reconfortarla, pero también puede provocarle ansiedad. Una chica ansiosa nunca se sentirá cómoda en un grupo de desconocidos. Prefiere sentarse en su habitación y ver la tele en lugar de salir y mezclarse. Cada vez que tiene que asistir a una reunión, siente un gran alivio cuando vuelve a casa, a su puerto seguro. Sólo entonces puede respirar por fin, porque está en su zona de confort.

8. Quiere que la quieras mucho

And she feels that from the bottom of her heart. There is no such thing as too much love for her. Even if you love her the hardest you can, she will ask for more. She needs to feel protected and safe with the man she loves and that’s why she craves so much love.

9. She won’t make the first move

Even if she has an outgoing personality, don’t forget that she has an anxious mind. Just because she constantly overthinks she won’t be able to make the first move. If this happens, don’t think that she is ignoring you, she just can’t fight with her own personality because if she does that, she will never win.

10. Necesita que seas paciente

Don’t let her outgoing personality deceive you, she is still a girl who overthinks a lot. She secretly needs you to be patient with her and to give her some time to relax and open up to you. Once she does that you will see that she is a girl who is worth the wait.

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