Deja de luchar por un hombre que te abandonó hace tiempo

You’re constantly checking your phone in the hope that he will call, even though you know he won’t.

You’re constantly wondering what he’s doing, even though you know he doesn’t give a damn about what you’re doing.

You’re constantly fighting to preserve what’s left of your love, even though you know that he gave up fighting a long time ago.

Don’t do that. Stop fighting for those who don’t bother fighting for you! Stop fighting for those who are okay with perderte!

I know it’s not that easy to forget all of the beautiful moments you had together, holding each other’s hands before falling asleep, kissing passionately, laughing until your stomach started to really hurt, taking care of each other… but all these moments are not enough for you to keep fighting.

Deja de luchar por tus momentos pasados, abre los ojos y ve la verdad.

Ask yourself if he’s that same man who used to hold your hand when you felt sad.

Is he that same man who used to hold you in his arms, reassuring you that he’d never give up on fighting for your love?

If not, do not bother fighting for him because you’re not fighting for him—you’re fighting for the memory of him.

No te molestes en revivir viejos momentos de felicidad porque deberías vivir el presente.

Stop focusing on the happiness of those who don’t care about yours. Stop letting them know that you’ll always be there no matter what. Stop making them your priority when all this time they have treated you like an option!

You are not the one who is responsible for their happiness. You should never fight for someone who doesn’t know how to reciprocate.

Deja de luchar por un amor mediocre cuando deberías estar disfrutando del que te inspira y llena tu corazón de alegría en lugar de dolor.

Deja de torturarte con what ifs y de pensar que si seguías siendo buena con él y si seguías siendo persistente para salvar lo que quedaba de vuestro amor, él podría haber cambiado de opinión y empezar a corresponderte.

No, he wouldn’t have and you know it!

En el momento en que decidió que tus sentimientos y deseos le importaban un bledo, decidió deliberadamente dejar de luchar por ti.

And why would you fight for him? Why would you keep making excuses for his behavior when you know he’s doing it on purpose?

Deja de luchar por un hombre who doesn’t know how to love. Stop fighting for a man who was never yours and who never will be!

¿Quieres quedarte para siempre en el limbo de amor no correspondido¿Deseos desatendidos y egoísmo?

Do you want to fight forever for something you’ll never have? Of course you don’t!

You don’t want to and you definitely shouldn’t because life is too short to waste your time waiting for those who are not willing to make an effort to change.

La vida es demasiado corta para perder el tiempo pensando constantemente en el pasado y temiendo el futuro.

Deja de torturarte y de torturar tu corazón con amores tóxicos y céntrate en lo que te hace feliz a TI.

Do you want a strong, beautiful love that is reciprocal? Then don’t fight for a weak one.

¿Quieres a alguien que siempre esté a tu lado y nunca te haga dudar de sus intenciones?

Then don’t fight for the one who is never here.

‘You reap what you sow’. If you invest all of yourself in a man who is not ready to do the same for you, you will end up broken. If you keep fighting for a man who is making you feel unworthy, sad, and disappointed, you will never find your inner peace or happiness.

Pero si te perdonas por cada lágrima, por cada segundo de sentirte sola, por tu dolor y decides dejar de luchar por un hombre que te estaba haciendo todo esto, ¡empezarás a hacer cambios!

Una vez que decidas empezar a luchar por tu sonrisa, alegría y un corazón lleno de amor puro, encontrarás tu felicidad.

I’m not saying it will be easy. It won’t but you will make it.

Lo conseguirás porque hace falta ser una mujer fuerte para decidir seguir luchando por un hombre que la está destruyendo por dentro.

You will make it because it takes a brave heart to keep loving a man who was not ready to do the same. You will make it because you’re a fighter.