La verdad sobre dar una segunda oportunidad a un infiel

Engañar es una elección. Nadie está obligado a hacerte pasar por tanto dolor, daño y vergüenza, y sin embargo, lo hicieron.

Engañar es un acto malicioso y toda persona implicada en él debería estar fuera de tu vida. Incluso si fue con alguien muy cercano a ti.

That makes it that much worse. Don’t you think if they loved you so much, they would stop and think about what they’re doing to you?

Deja que lo asimile.

When cheating occurs, there are so many chances to stop. So many times when one or both parties are capable of just stopping the whole thing and realizing what a shitty thing they’re about to do.

And yet, it didn’t happen. So next time you consider giving tu hombre una segunda oportunidad después de aplastar tu alma con este acto de desprecio, piénsatelo dos veces.

He didn’t want to think about you as he was doing it, so why do hell should you give him an opportunity to do it again?

If you’ve been put through the wringer by your pareja infiel, know that you’re not alone. Find solace in the fact that there are so many of us out there struggling to cope with this.

Trust someone who has been through this before, and after gave out more second chances than I can count, regretting it to the bone…

Here’s the ugly truth. They don’t change. They never take responsibility for what they did, even though they try to make it seem as if they do.

Their perspective remains the same and they don’t reform in any way. It’s a futile battle, trust me, I’ve witnessed it more times than I’d like to admit.

And let me tell you what they’re too good at.

Te convencerán fácilmente con su encantadora sonrisa de disculpa, sus ojos de cachorrito y las palabras justas que necesitas oír para sentirte seguro de que sólo ha sido un momento de debilidad que nunca volverá a repetirse.

No sólo no asumirán ninguna responsabilidad por sus acciones, sino que enumerarán innumerables maneras de cómo en realidad fueron forzados a ello por ti y tu comportamiento.

You didn’t have enough time for them. You were too busy at work to nurture their fragile egos. You’re always on their case, so they don’t really have a choice but to find a girl who’s going to be there.

It’s easier for them to go out there and find comfort in the arms of another woman, instead of being a man, having balls and talking to their girl about whatever issue that is plaguing them.

Los tramposos son demasiado buenos con las palabras, tenlo en cuenta en todo momento.

Son los mentirosos más viles y manipuladores que puedes tener cerca, que jugarán con tu mente después de haberte hecho mal y te romperán el alma echándote la culpa a ti.

Son maestros en victimizarse y convertirte en el malo de la película.

Please be smart about this and don’t let them lure you back into their world of toxic manipulation and juegos mentales que te hará más mal que bien.

They crushed you once, why let them go for round two? People who cheat don’t understand the real meaning of love.

The unconditional type of love, where there is mutual respect and where partners go through all kinds of crap together, but they don’t let it break them.

They are not afraid of a challenge, because they know for as long as they stick side by side, they’re good.

Cheaters aren’t wired this way. Their outlook on love is a warped one, at best.

Tener su alma tóxica cerca sólo te dañará más y te invitará a volver a ese mundo venenoso del que estuviste tan cerca de salir.

Saca tu billete y no mires atrás. Si te engañó una vez, puede que vuelva a hacerlo. Te mereces algo mejor que alguien que está de acuerdo con hacerte daño tan profundamente.

Appreciate yourself enough to say ‘No’. You’re too good for him anyway.

Show him your strength and leave him with grace. Make him see what he’s missing.